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Wow its been awhile since I have been on here. Well I'm always told I give great advice and it seems people flock to me for it. Ive experienced alot so I can relate to alot of people. Feel free to ask me anything :)
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Am am 13 years old and going into eigth grade...all of my other freinds have their periods and i just want mine already..even though i heard how much it sucks....im pretty flat-chested(dont get me wrong i have SOMETHING just not enought to fill out more than an A cup~~ ive read some replys to the other questions and i do have discharge already...ive have it for like 9 months now... i just still dont want to be the size i am while im going into high school...could some one just tell me how long it took them to get their period after they showed some of the signs that meant you were going to get it soon?...

i know i sound pathectic but i REALLY could use some help (link)
Well I can't tell you when you're going to get your period because it is different with everybody. I can tell you that it tool me 3 years to get mine from when i first got discharge but it took my friens shorter times. But look on the bright side...most late bloomers get bigger boobs lol! Dont stress it seriously it will happen soon!


Okay I don't know if this is sex or something but like i've been getting this white snotty stuff in my underwear. I don't know what it is or what it's from. I'm 13/f to if that will help. (link)
it's called discharge..and it's perfectly normal. It means you started puberty...it's basically your vagina cleaning itself out. Ya sounds pretty nasty lol...but you'll get used to it! ♥ caitie


i'm 13/f and i know its too early for me to have sex. but sumtimes i get rele horny and i get fantasies about me and a guy or occasionally a friend not minding masturbating with me. i'm not a lezbian and i kno that this doesn't make me lesbian but i dunno wut to do. i'm not very farmiliar with masturbation and i kinda want to but i'm also kinda scared. anyone have any tips? (link)
Well to start..there's nothing wrong with you, it's just your hormones! I cant personally give you tips on masterbation but I'll give you some sites that you can go to that might be helpful!!

http://teenadvice.about.com/od/masturbatio1/

ww.gurl.com

Ok well those are the only sites I found that had nothing to do with porn lol...so I hope that it helps you out! ♥ caitie


i am 13 female and i think that i am lesbian. i dont want to be lesbian and i want to stop. how do i stop being lesbian? i havent make out with a girl yet but here are the things i like: 1)girls kissing. 2) "perfect" breast. 3) cute faces. and 4) hearing girls moan during sexual things. i think that the cute face and perfect breast thing is just me being insecure about myself but what about the other things? anyway how did i become lesbian in the first place? is it in my genes or something? i need help!!!!!
i rate 5"s for good answers! (link)
Most likely you're not lesbian..it's probably just your hormones. Even though they might not admit it, you're friends have probably had the same feelings! Ok here's a test that you could use..take a really hot male celebrity and a really hott female celeb..now which one do you picture taking there clothes off...and it turns you on? Like Jessica Simpson is gorgeous but her taking her clothes off doesn't do anything for me, now Nelly on the other hand..well you get the picture lol! If you happen to be a lesbian..you cna't change your sexuality....you'll ahve to live with it! Good luck! &heartts; caitie


15/f

I just had sex for my first time 2 nights ago. I'd like to get checked by the doctor for any diseases. Is it possible for me to ask a doctor and get a test done without my parents knowing anything? Including the results. Even if the results came out positive, I want it to be kept secret. Do you know if doctors tell parents this kind of information? (link)
You can go to a Plan Parenthood clinic near you..here's the site http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/
No, the doctors are binded by law...they are not aloud to tell your parents anything without your consent. Good luck and I hope you didnt catch anything btu for future reference..always use a condom!!! ♥ caitie


okay i know this might sound like a stupid question, but im not quite sure what it means what does it mean when a guy says he wants to fuck you really badly? is it fingering you or to have sex?

thank you! (link)
It means he wants to have sex with you really bad! ♥ caitie


Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
thanks (link)
It is against the law for your doctor to tell your mother anything..so when she askes tell her you're not! Trust me, she deals with girls much younger than you who are not virgins! You're mom won't find out...and you should take this opportunity to talk to your doctor about things you cna't ask your mom or friends! Good luck! ♥ caitie


Hey Im really scared.


I am 14 and my mom's friends's son, who is 17,came over to stay with us for the night. My mom went to get groceries and the boy insisted and pulled off my clothes and started to have sex. Today, I took the test. results are, yes, Im pregnant. The guy I don't know his name and im scared to tell my mom. Please help (link)
Well, it sounds to me like you were raped by Mr. 17....that is not right and you need to tell your mom what happened. She'll understand, because it's not as if you wanted to have sex with him! Unless you did, then you still have to tell your mom..but she might not be very happy. Good luck! ♥ caitie


what is phone sex? (link)
Phone sex is when you talk to someone over the phone, describing sexual things you're doing to yourself or that you want to do to the other person. It's a way to get turned on without actually doing anything with the other person! ♥ caitie


Im really really scared about getting my perdiod i have no idea when its comming like no idea. Im scared one of my friends will find out or i will be the last one. My crush is in like all my classes. And the nurse had pads and tampons and stuff but Im scared when im gon aget it (link)
You shouldn't be scared at all..it's really not that bad! There's no way in telling when it will come, but if you feel as if you're ready then carry a pad around with you in your purse or backpack. (or tampon but i recommend pad for the first time) My experiencer and my friends' was thhat we ddint leak through our pants or anything..the first time was really light, but if you're really worried put a pair of jeans you don't like that much in your locker in case. You shouldn't be worried about if your friens find out, because that's what your friends are for. You can talk about it with them and..if they have it ask for advice and stuff. Hello, "girl talk" lol! If you take these precautions, your crush will never find out. Good luck! ♥ caitie


is sex a verb or a noun? (link)
It's a noun! Interesting question lol!


hey, do guys think it is gross when girls get wet when they finger her or if she is already wet when he fingers her? and have u ever gotten wet when a guy fingered you if os what did he do? (link)
NO guys love it because it shows that they "pleasured" you or turned you on. They see it as a sign that they're good at what they do. And if you're already wey beforew he does anything, I don't think it makes a difference...it just makes it more lubed down there lol! Well hope that helped! ♥ caitie


whats the fastest way to get rid of a white head(like a pimple) (link)
Honestly...you should pop it then put peroxide on it..that's the quickest way that I know of it! Hope that helped! ♥ caitie


ok i'm 13 rite now...i'm kinda emmerised to day this but my boyfreind wants to finger me and leik i dunno what to do cuz i have nvr done this b 4 and i'm thinkin will it hurt and leik thoes kinda questions...what should i do please helpppp (link)
Well if you feel comfortable with it..then it's fine to do it. It won't hurt as long as your bf doesnt dig his fingers up and pop your cherry! Its supposed to feel good so go for it and have fun lol! Hope that helped! ♥ caitie


Well i have been having dreams about sex with guys my age. I am 13f. And all of a sudden i am having urgest to do it.
Is that normal
Ill' rate high! (link)
yes it's perfectly normal, it's just hormones..everyone your age or around your age gets those dreams. You're just entering your sexuality! Don't worry about it...but just because you have urges...don't go and do it. You might be physically ready, but wait until you find a guy you can trust. Good luck! ♥ caitie


i havent had sex and i dont masterbate, but i have a bump not alot, just one, on my pubic hair area. i dont know what it is or why its there but i noticed it the other day and its kinda iches. does anyone know what it is? (link)
It's an ingrown hair..they suck but everybody gets them. It will eventually go away and it's nothing to worry about. Dont try and pop it ot pull out the hair..just leave it alone! Hope I helped! ♥ caitie


Ok. I am a 13 year old girl and i dont know why but when i go to sleep i think about sex a lot i mean a LOTT. I feel like i am the only one that does it. I feel like a porno-freak and i dont know why i do this it kind of comes naturally. Is it normal? I dont have my period yet and can anyone tell me what masturbating means??? i know a lot about sex but i dont know what to do about this. I think that if people find out they will hate me. I dont want to finger myself or anything. I just want to be a normal kid. I dont have a boyfriend and i dont think about anyone in paticular. I just think about sex. HELP ME!Since this was very long i will reat high if you try to help!!! (link)
It's normal..it's just your hormones...it happened to me too. Especially when you go to sleep, you think alot and the sex thoughts pop into your head because your body is becoming sexually attracted to other people. Mastubating means when you touch yourself and it feels good. I've read about girls doing it..but I myself don't do it and if my friends do, they dont tell me! But I do know plenty of guys who do it lol! People will not hate you..because they might not admit it but they do the same thing....but i wouldn't mention it unless it's to your bff! hope i helped! ♥ caitie


ok i think im pregnet but i havent had sex. but i learned that sperm can live up to an our after leaving the penis and i was all over my friend w/ benefets with only underwear on. i have one of the symptoms witch is being able to smell things really well. do u think i could be pregnet, if so what should i do?


blondie
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If that's the only symton you have, then I don't think your pregnant! Just wait and see if you skip your period and if you do then get a pregnancy test. But most likely your not! Hope I helped and good luck! ♥ caitie


i have 2 questions, and i would like honest answers!
What do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13. Had 2 other bfs at 14, cheated on the last 1 with a guy she hardly knew the 2nd day they hung out? (the guy was 17) they are still together.

What do you consider a guy that has sex with a girl he barely knows the 2nd night knowing she has a bf??

i rate 5s for intelligent answers!!! (link)
Hmmm...I think I might know you because that is going on right now in my life! WIERD!! Well anyway I think that that girl needs to think about what she's doing and she that it's stupid and I';m not sayign she can't ahve sex, but find one guy...that's near her age..and use protection. Most liekly the girl you're referring to has probably ruined her reputation...but she can fix it if she sticks with one guy...a decent guy! Well I hope helped..good luck. and if you need any more help drop one in my inbox! ♥ caitie


ok my guy friend was over a few weeks ago and we like open mouth kissed for about a minute and he did stick his tounge in my mouth and i stuck mine in his and he rubbed me "down there"(but i was wearing pants). people asked me if i made out with him and i just dont answer but hes telling people that he didnt make out with me it was just a kiss..... what was it? (link)
That was definitly making out....maybe he feels uncomfotable about it and that's whyb he's lying! Confront him on it, just say so what that wasn't making out..and if he's sais no joke around and say well...is this...nd srat making out with him! Good luck! Hope I helped ♥




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