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Hey Im really scared.
I am 14 and my mom's friends's son, who is 17,came over to stay with us for the night. My mom went to get groceries and the boy insisted and pulled off my clothes and started to have sex. Today, I took the test. results are, yes, Im pregnant. The guy I don't know his name and im scared to tell my mom. Please help
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did he rape you? or did you want it too
please e-mail me at ppookie13@aol.com and tell me more about what happend
it will be hard to tell your mom but i know yo can do it i do feel sorry for you
I hope I helped
Love always as a friend when needed
Jessica
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Thats rape if he insisted and you didn`t want to, and depending on where you live..(i am completely against it) you can get an abortion without telling your guardians. you can go to a free clinic somewhere and get tested again, because those things ARE NOT always right. And if you and your mom talk alot, or she wont freak out..which she might .. but maybe its better all together to tell her...and i`d go get checked for STD`s or any type of disease from him. Good Luck !
hope i helped
[ ♥ ] Elizabeth[ ♥ ]
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i know this must be hard but take a deep breath. it might be a false alarm. so not until your really really really sure let your mom know ok?
i hope i could help you. but try not 2 worry yet ok? see if you can contact him ok hunnie.
Always nd forever
Daniella
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I know you dont want to hear this hun, but your mom needs to know for different reasons. 1- she knows his name, and that is essential info you NEED to know.. 2- she needs to help you with this pregnancy whether she wants to get you an abortion or w/e. and 3- if you dont tell her you will stay pregnant and she will find out when you can see symptoms. just explain to her what happened hun, i know you're scared, its perfectly normal, just do the responsible thing and tell your mom, good luck:-)
xoxx
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WEll I would tell your mom right away because that boy raped you and now your pregnant. Your only 14. You should get some help even from your guidence counsler. hope i helped.
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you cant take a test one day after it happens you faggot
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Im sorry, but you really dont sound too upset that he did that to you. You failed to mention that you were NOT a willing participant. If you werent, he basically raped you if you said NO!
Your mom needs to know. Shes gonna be upset, but thats a normal reaction. She has a right to know!
Good Luck!!
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You can get him in ALOT of trouble for that. He raped you. You have to tell your mom. You have a very difficult decision to make with the rest of your life now and that kid NEEDS to get punished!
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thats horrible. were you willing, or did he force you because if you were forced, thats rape and you hsould definetly do something about it. as for tellin your mom you wil have to its inevtiable. so be calm explian the situation and it should be as painless as possible
best of luck!<3
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I'm so so sorry that happened to you and I know that your scared to tell your mother, I mean, who wouldn't be? But you have to tell her. Sooner or later she's going to find out you are pregnant ( its obviously going to show ) and she will be able to help you out, and she might be upset that you are pregnant but you need to let her know. Did you want to have sex with him? Because if you didn't, that is considered rape and you def. need to tell your mother cause then he just commited a serious crime. But if you did, you just still need to tell her anyways no matter what. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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OMG! Im sorry thats horrible. You should deffinently tell your mom.If your afraid then you should tell an adult you trust and they should help you find a way to tell your mom. You should tell her ASAP.Also, you should really try your best to stay away from that guy and im sure after you tell your mom what had happened she will handle the rest.Good luck hope everything works out. [♥]
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Tell your mom the truth, unless you want to have a baby at 14... ouch..... but enywayz, she wont be mad because HE pulled off your clothes, hope this helps, cjAdvice
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don't be ,she may get mad but you couldn't handel the peer preuser. you cant not tell her you'll start to look pregnant and you need her support .
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Well, it sounds to me like you were raped by Mr. 17....that is not right and you need to tell your mom what happened. She'll understand, because it's not as if you wanted to have sex with him! Unless you did, then you still have to tell your mom..but she might not be very happy. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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