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18/f
well ive been on birth control for about 2 years now, maybe longer. im on it to regulate my periods and because they were really heavy. im not having sex though and not sexual active AT ALL. the thing is i dont take it at the same time everyday (i know horrible) but ever since i started taking it, i would just take it when i woke up. during the school year its around 6:30am and during the weekends or summer its around 10:00-10:30am. the thing is that i always get my period when im suppose to. and i never miss a day of taking a pill. i kind of want to start taking it at night sometime, so i can take it the same time EVERYDAY. because now, i cant get myself to wake up that early on the weekends or in the summer. so is that possible, can i just start taking them at night now consistently or would it mess everything up? i want to be as protected as possible when i do end up having sex and i know we're going to use a condom but i also want the birth control to be as effective as it can be. thanks! (link)
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i don't feel qualified to answer your question (which is why it took me so long to reply) i, myself, am not on birth control so i really can't help you. but try asking the columnist 'cloudy_conscience' she knows a lot about birth control & such
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hey...I found you under columnists and thought you would be able to help me
this is a bit personal...
im 17 years old/female and have had a few boyfriends...with my last one, I was with him for a few months and he was the first guy i started doing sexual things with...
but my problem was...everytime he fingered me or performed oral sex it felt pretty good...but I couldnt have an orgasm
ive had MANY orgasms before while masterbating..
im talking to this guy now and we were making out the other night and i had thin swetpants on and he was rubbing me through them and it felt good and i got excited but i felt the same thing happening again like with my last boyfriend...it feels good but i cant get to that point
i dont know what it is!
sometimes i feel like it may be because my last boyfriend didnt have much experience...it was his first time doing stuff with a girl as well as mine with a guy and its easy to just give a blowjob and have a guy get off but for a girl its a little bit different when pleasuring her
besides the rubbing through the pants i havent done anything with this guy yet so im not 100 percent sure how he is but im 100 percent sure hes experienced and stuff
i dont know whats wrong with me though...with my last boyfriend i never even came CLOSE to having an orgasm and its not like he was THAT bad...
is it just me or is this normal for girls?
im nervous im never going to be able to with a guy...
also another question (sorry for the length!)
i cant give a guy a handjob!
with m y last boyfriend, i tried to but he said it hurt a little...
it wasnt like smooth when i tried to move up and down...it was like the skin was moving up and down and it just didnt work!
so i gave blowjobs all the time but theres gotta be a way to give handjobs...i mean people do it!
do people ALWAYS use lube when giving a hand job? or is there any way to do it without using it and im doing it wrong?
thanks so much! (link)
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during sex all you have to do is get him to rub the outside of your clitoris.
guys like pleasuring girls that way, if that's what is going to help them get an orgasm.
i promise it'll work, especially if he rubs in your exact spot.
your clitoris is a woman's main orgasm point. just have him practice around helping to find out where it is that you are most stimulated at (around your clitoris) & have him rub... a lot.
giving a hj, is simple. just try to be easy & gentle. they are sensitive.
lube does help with the rubbing, but it's not necessary.
:)
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hi :]
im 18/female.
alright so this might sound kind of weird but
im not a creep or anything at all, just trying
to get the whole "sexual thing"
ive never done anything physical with a guy, ive only madeout with two guys before and never had a boyfriend yet everyone is always shocked when they hear this because they think i would be some kind of slut (cuz everyone thinks im gorgeous) and i dont think im THAT bad either, not to sound conceited but anyways when im taking a bath or shower i try to wash "down there" and the past couple of days i have been putting soap on my fingers and kind of fingering myself. i have been doing it with two fingers, every once in a while i'll try three. i just want to know what it feels like and i also want it to be clean. is this healthy to be cleaning it like this and also it doesnt really hurt that much or at all when i do two fingers, it feels good so does that mean when i actually do get fingered (whenever im ready) that it wont hurt or is it competely different because im in the bath or shower and my vagina is already getting wet but keep in mind i get wet SO easily.
well thank you and by the way your really pretty! (link)
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not to be rude, but that is probably one of the worst things you could do.
your vagina is already naturally clean, whether you think so or not. yes, your vagina has an odor, but it's a natural odor & completely normal. no form of soap should be inside of your vagina, so many infections & diseases can form from this, so please try to refrain from it.
there are specific soaps you can buy that are made to help clean your vagina, but nothing is ever meant to be inside of it.
fingering yourself while in the shower is fine though, & it can also help loosen you up for when a guy does finger you.
just try not to do that anymore with any form of soap.
washing around the outside of it & such is fine, but never put any inside of you.
if you start feeling irritated within a week or so, please visit a doctor as soon as possible. a UTI may have formed or even a yeast infection.
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helllo! im 19 years old and a female.
im still a virgin :] and pretty proud of it because i could have done it many times with different guys but im not like that at ALL i have morals and im waiting for that guy thats not like the others, that just doesnt want to get with me but one that actually loves me for me. but when im ready to have sex i would like to know..
if your on the bed or anywhere, doesnt like the sheets and everything get all gross? and if its the first time and your cherry hasnt popped, wouldnt the guy be grossed out and be like whats going on and wouldnt the blood get everywhere? i know that im going to have it with the one i love and care about, but i still think it would be a messy situation. im not sure if my cherry has been popped yet. i played alot of sports such as soccer softball and volleyball but that was only up till middle school and i did gymnastics for about 3 years until i was about 13 and i use tampons and go swimming alot so it could have broke but if it didnt, i just dont know what to expect. i just guess i havent really done anything with a guy before except makeout and kiss and well get "felt up" but thats not really anything i would just like to know what to expect like since girls get wet even if i was getting fingered or anything!! thanks alot (link)
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one; i think saving yourself is great & it's completely normal to have questions.
but guys aren't paying attention to the minor details. especially if it's with a boy that you love & he loves you. your first time will be painful & there's a chance you may bleed.
however if you are very active, then your hymen more than likely has already been popped. even without you noticing. like maybe while you were on your period, or even in a pool.
mine broke while i was running, so i didn't bleed the first time i ever had sex.
but even if you do bleed, it's not bad or gross. the boy should know that it's going to happen anyways though, most guys are aware of hymens & such.
bed sheets really don't get too messy either, as long as you are going completely crazy & rolling around & everything, haha.
your first time will be awkward, i promise. but nobody's first time is heaven or whatever.
nothing is what you expect.
just wait until you are 100% completely comfortable with them, before you choose to lose your virginity.
:)
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Hey me and my girl friend had unprotected sex and she is on birth control but i did not ejaculate in her but she missed her period and we became worried. 4 days later she had a morning after pill that her friend had and wasn't sure if it would work or not but took it anyway and she got her period. she took a test and it came up negative and she has her period right now. Do you think she could be pregnant? Whats the possibility? Please answer me asap thank you (link)
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unprotected safe is dangerous, next time be sure to use a condom.
her chances of being pregnant are slim, seeings to how you didn't do it inside her.
she's on birth control.
she finally got her period.
& her test became negative.
in my opinion, she's not pregnant.
but if you still feel as if she is, make her take another test.
a girl's period is never regular.
you have to be aware of that.
don't freak out.
it is still possible for a girl to have her period while she's pregnant, but since she took a test already & it came up negative, then i highly doubt she is.
but next time, just be more safe.
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on one of the quetions you answered about for a girl's thick saliva being cum and that made me very confused. i thought saliva was spit and so does that mean when a girl has a orgasm she cums out her mouth? i probably just misunderstood the question so can you please explain (link)
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nono, saliva isn't cum.
& i'm sorry if i said that, i must have typed something very wrong.
a woman's discahrge is similar to cum, that's what i meant to type.
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So, i'm like, a sexaholic with my boyfriend, and he used to be the same way, but we've been together for over a year now, and sex has become rare. MAYBE once a month, if i'm lucky. I constantly want it, once i get it i'm good for a day or two, then i want it again. idk if it's because it makes me feel attractive or because he's so good or what it is, but it's driving me NUTS that he doesn't want to do it anymore. he's always too tired or has to work in the morning or is sore or spends all night on his video game and doesn't get off of it till he's ready to pass out. I want him to want me! i've tried sexy dances, sexy clothes, talking sexy, everything! i even bought whipcream and handcuffs..... what can I do to bring his sex drive back? he says it's not a personal issue, no depression, nothing wrong with me, but idk. i don't know what to do.
:( (link)
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in my opinion, this situation may take time.
you guys need to spend more time with eachother doing other things & getting back into the old routine of first relationships. once all those attractions come back, then his sex drive will eventually fire up.
the longer you both go without sex, the more you both will want it.
& maybe next time you guys both agree to have sex, maybe you should ask him what he likes best & what positions are best for him & do everything that HE likes. don't make him do all the work. even if you barely get any pleasure from it, try to make him enjoy it so that he'll realize what he's been missing out on.
:) hope i helped
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me and my bf had sex and it was his first time and my seconds time. i thought that usually guys cum really fast the first time they had sex but we did it for like 30 minutes and he wasnt even close to cumming. i was pretty clueless and kind of nervous since it was only my second time but i dont see how i could have messed up if he was on top. so do i just suck at sex or is this normal? (link)
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every guy's stamina is different.
the first time my boyfriend & i ever had sex, he didn't get an orgasm & i felt so stupid, but i found out it was just because he was so nervous & he was afraid he was going to get off so quickly so he held back a lot & wasn't able to get off at all.
just give it time, & eventually the sex will become less awkward & he'll be able to orgasm more.
& don't worry, you don't suck.
just try more positions & a lot of foreplaying before hand. but sometimes a long stamina is good, the longer he can last, the longer you have to enjoy
:)
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16/f
me and my bf had sex for the first time and i was on top at one point but i had noo idea what to do. so basically how exactly am i supposed to move on top? (link)
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fiddle around, whatever starts feeling really good for you, will feel just as good for him - trust me.
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Me & my boyfriend has been having sex, well over 3 months now. I love teasing him, but not prick teasing.
I do like to have sex afterwards.
Such as teasing for a while, getting him real aroused, then having sex.
I love this, it makes me enjoy it so much more.
I need some tricks though, to teasing.
I dont do strip teasing, or blow jobs, or none of that, its disguisting.
Tips please? (link)
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last time i answered a question like this, i got banned from the site for being so detailed.
so if you want some tips, you can email me at miss_suzii15@yahoo.com
& i'll be glad to give you as much advice as possible.
:)
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me and my boyfriend have had sex about 15 times maybe?
and he still can't last longer than a minute.
why is this? and is it normal?
i'd really like us to be able to do it longer so do you have any advice on how to? (link)
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some guys have a lot less stamina than others.
sometimes my boyfriend & i will have sex & he'll be done in like 5 minutes & other times he won't be done for 2 hours.
- the best way to fix this problem is to do less foreplay with him & more with you (foreplay = fooling around before the sex) if you fool around with him he's going to be really aroused & ready, which can cause him to not last as long. but if you are really aroused then the sex will be great no matter how short it is.
- another tip is to use a condom, they give less penetration & makes it more difficult for him to enjoy because it's a barrier.
- try different positions. positions that don't stimulate him as much. such as you being on top or even doggy style.
- & of course the best way to stop him from finishing so quickly is to have him masterbate earlier that day. way before you guys have sex. or even before you have sex, because then it's more hard for him to finish again.
i hope i helped
:)
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i had unprotected sex on the 16th. i'm due for my period on the 5th. we pulled out before he was even close to cumming. but i think precum might have gotten in there. do you think i might be pregnant? so far the symptoms i have are sore breats, headaches, tired. (which could be from my period, but its not due for ten days) but i also have like a runny/stuffy nose and achey too. what's your opinion? (link)
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i've answered questions like this one soooo many times, and i'll tell you exactly what i tell everyone else.
- don't stress about being pregnant, UNTIL you miss your period. when you're worried about pregnancy you are going to notice way more aches & pains than you normally would. & stressing too much can cause a false pregnancy, which means you basically convince your body that you are pregnant, and you'll miss your period, your boobs will grow, your stomach will swell & your boobs will even lactate (produce milk).
- every period runs about 20-27 days, some people have theirs later & some earlier. within those days, the first 2 weeks before your period, you are more fertile. so if you had sex 2 weeks before your period, there is a chance you could get pregnant.
but if it was 2 weeks after your last period, then you are less fertile & less likely to get pregnant. but that theory isn't always guaranteed. you still had unprotected sex & you still could get pregnant no matter what actions were taken.
your runny nose & such doesn't have anything to do with pregnancy symptoms, don't even worry about that.
but if you miss your period by 2 weeks, then you should take a pregnancy test.
don't freak out if it's been 2 days & your period hasn't started, because you'll worry yourself sick.
just breathe, relax(even though it's hard - i know, i've been there) & next time please, please, pleaaaaaase use a condom
:) hope i helped.
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is there anything i can do to get my boobs bigger (link)
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i heard or read, i can't remember, that if you rub your boobs a lot they will start growing.
or of course you can get breast enlargement.
or even some medication can help.
:)
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haha this is weird but when you get fingered do you like stand up or lay down? (link)
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i'm sure you can be fingered while standing up, but that seems a bit awkward for both of you.
in my opinion, it'll be more enjoyable for you & easier for him if you're laying or sitting down.
:)
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what should a girl do while being fingered so she doesn't end up just laying there and making the situation akward. (link)
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kiss him. (neck, ears, chest, etc.)
play with his hair.
rub on his arms or back.
make noises.
let him know you're enoying it.
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When you get your cherry popped, is it true that you can't feel it pop sometimes? Ex: Playing sports. (link)
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mine was broken while i was running & it didn't hurt or anything. i didn't even know it happened until i got home & realized it.
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i'm not looking for songs about love...just sex..they can be about sex or just have a good beat i don't really care but i don't like r&b very much...rock and alternative rock and punk and stuff are good...i like things with a fast pace and dirty lyrics
k thanks (link)
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i can give you thousands of r&b/rap that you could have sex to, but since you don't like that genre then i won't list them.
so here are some rock & stuff:
addicted by saving able
crazy bitch by buck cherry
get stoned by hinder
blinded by third eye blind
comatose by skillet (not really dirty but a good song)
pain by three days grace
fer sure by the medic droid (not rock, but technoish.)
those are off the top of my head, if you liked any of them, i can give you more i'm sure
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okay, is it true that is you give a guy head, then her explodes, then you swallow, that swallowing can make you sick? if you go to the doctors can they tell what you did (link)
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swallowing may make you sick to your stomach because of the thickness & depending upon the guy, their taste.
if you swallow too much at a time, there's a chance you might gag.
but doctor's can't tell what you did.
:)
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how do u give a good bj? thankx (link)
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-avoid using teeth
-keep your focus on pleasuring the head(top) of the penis(such as licking or sucking the head)
-keep your mouth tight around it
-put it all the way in your mouth(never opening your mouth) & suck as you bring your head upwards.
-play with his balls while doing this
-bring your head up & down really fast, making sure your mouth is wet & tightly closed (doing this will lead to the orgasm)
:)
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i know that this is normal. i know a high percentage of women dont have orgasms threw penetration. i would be one of them. although it feels great it makes it better.. i cant do it without something on the outside. this makes me so emberassed because i know my husband wants this. wants to know his little jhonny boy can do something. its not like it doesnt its just.. how i was made. so my question is if anybody know anything i can do to possibly have one while sex?? any tips.. anything? do i just have to live with never being able to give him what he wants? anything would be great thanks. (link)
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my answer is going to be more straight forward than the one below me, but during sex all you have to do is get him to rub the outside of your clitoris.
guys like pleasuring girls that way, if that's what is going to help them get an orgasm.
i promise it'll work, especially if he rubs in your exact spot.
your clitoris is a woman's main orgasm point. just have him practice around helping to find out where it is that you are most stimulated at (around your clitoris) & have him rub... a lot.
:)
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