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curious about sex
helllo! im 19 years old and a female.
im still a virgin :] and pretty proud of it because i could have done it many times with different guys but im not like that at ALL i have morals and im waiting for that guy thats not like the others, that just doesnt want to get with me but one that actually loves me for me. but when im ready to have sex i would like to know..
if your on the bed or anywhere, doesnt like the sheets and everything get all gross? and if its the first time and your cherry hasnt popped, wouldnt the guy be grossed out and be like whats going on and wouldnt the blood get everywhere? i know that im going to have it with the one i love and care about, but i still think it would be a messy situation. im not sure if my cherry has been popped yet. i played alot of sports such as soccer softball and volleyball but that was only up till middle school and i did gymnastics for about 3 years until i was about 13 and i use tampons and go swimming alot so it could have broke but if it didnt, i just dont know what to expect. i just guess i havent really done anything with a guy before except makeout and kiss and well get "felt up" but thats not really anything i would just like to know what to expect like since girls get wet even if i was getting fingered or anything!! thanks alot
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one; i think saving yourself is great & it's completely normal to have questions.
but guys aren't paying attention to the minor details. especially if it's with a boy that you love & he loves you. your first time will be painful & there's a chance you may bleed.
however if you are very active, then your hymen more than likely has already been popped. even without you noticing. like maybe while you were on your period, or even in a pool.
mine broke while i was running, so i didn't bleed the first time i ever had sex.
but even if you do bleed, it's not bad or gross. the boy should know that it's going to happen anyways though, most guys are aware of hymens & such.
bed sheets really don't get too messy either, as long as you are going completely crazy & rolling around & everything, haha.
your first time will be awkward, i promise. but nobody's first time is heaven or whatever.
nothing is what you expect.
just wait until you are 100% completely comfortable with them, before you choose to lose your virginity.
:)
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