Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


washing down there by "fingering" myself?


Question Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 7:49 pm

hi :]
im 18/female.
alright so this might sound kind of weird but
im not a creep or anything at all, just trying
to get the whole "sexual thing"
ive never done anything physical with a guy, ive only madeout with two guys before and never had a boyfriend yet everyone is always shocked when they hear this because they think i would be some kind of slut (cuz everyone thinks im gorgeous) and i dont think im THAT bad either, not to sound conceited but anyways when im taking a bath or shower i try to wash "down there" and the past couple of days i have been putting soap on my fingers and kind of fingering myself. i have been doing it with two fingers, every once in a while i'll try three. i just want to know what it feels like and i also want it to be clean. is this healthy to be cleaning it like this and also it doesnt really hurt that much or at all when i do two fingers, it feels good so does that mean when i actually do get fingered (whenever im ready) that it wont hurt or is it competely different because im in the bath or shower and my vagina is already getting wet but keep in mind i get wet SO easily.

well thank you and by the way your really pretty!

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?


karisue answered Thursday October 16 2008, 2:56 pm:
not to be rude, but that is probably one of the worst things you could do.
your vagina is already naturally clean, whether you think so or not. yes, your vagina has an odor, but it's a natural odor & completely normal. no form of soap should be inside of your vagina, so many infections & diseases can form from this, so please try to refrain from it.
there are specific soaps you can buy that are made to help clean your vagina, but nothing is ever meant to be inside of it.
fingering yourself while in the shower is fine though, & it can also help loosen you up for when a guy does finger you.
just try not to do that anymore with any form of soap.

washing around the outside of it & such is fine, but never put any inside of you.
if you start feeling irritated within a week or so, please visit a doctor as soon as possible. a UTI may have formed or even a yeast infection.

[ karisue's advice column | Ask karisue A Question
]


More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: Pregnant?
Next Question >>>

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker