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is this normal?
me and my boyfriend have had sex about 15 times maybe?
and he still can't last longer than a minute.
why is this? and is it normal?
i'd really like us to be able to do it longer so do you have any advice on how to?
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It is normal for a lot of guys. Many guys have that problem. Sometimes my boyfriend can last 1 minute and other times he lasts a LOT longer than I really want haha. But when you are having sex, I learned that by the guys wearing condoms their not as sensitive and can last somewhat longer. Also, when he's about to cum make him pull out and just make out for a few minutes to make him relax more. ♥
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some guys have a lot less stamina than others.
sometimes my boyfriend & i will have sex & he'll be done in like 5 minutes & other times he won't be done for 2 hours.
- the best way to fix this problem is to do less foreplay with him & more with you (foreplay = fooling around before the sex) if you fool around with him he's going to be really aroused & ready, which can cause him to not last as long. but if you are really aroused then the sex will be great no matter how short it is.
- another tip is to use a condom, they give less penetration & makes it more difficult for him to enjoy because it's a barrier.
- try different positions. positions that don't stimulate him as much. such as you being on top or even doggy style.
- & of course the best way to stop him from finishing so quickly is to have him masterbate earlier that day. way before you guys have sex. or even before you have sex, because then it's more hard for him to finish again.
i hope i helped
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Every guy has a misfire every now and then, but 15 consecutive times is a bit excessive. He probably has actual medical premature ejaculation, and there is medication for that. There are also techniques to get your stamina up, but those are usually for people that already last like 10 minutes and want to get it up to say 30. Here are two. I read one and I've used another.
If I think I'm going to misfire (guys know 5-10 seconds before they're going to ejaculate), I pull out and just start making out. I wait until I'm feeling normal again and start again. If it comes really fast again, I repeat. After about the 3rd or 4th time, I'm usually able to go longer without ejaculating (say the first 3 times I could only last 2 minutes, and the last time I could last 8-10). This is a little strange, but it seems to work.
Another thing I have read works is inserting the penis but then not moving for a while. Just sit there almost in an Indian style while facing each other. Then have sex, but don't allow him to ejaculate. Get to the point where he's about to orgasm, and then stop. Let him finish every 3rd or 4th time you have sex. I don't know if this works, but I have read that it does.
I don't know how old you guys are, but if you're under 17, this isn't that weird. Young guys have absolutely no stamina, and they get more consistent as they get older. The first time I had sex, it was all of about 90 seconds. 3 years later I have had instances where I lasted 30-40 minutes but I average 10-15.
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