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not cumming?


Question Posted Monday May 26 2008, 9:32 am

me and my bf had sex and it was his first time and my seconds time. i thought that usually guys cum really fast the first time they had sex but we did it for like 30 minutes and he wasnt even close to cumming. i was pretty clueless and kind of nervous since it was only my second time but i dont see how i could have messed up if he was on top. so do i just suck at sex or is this normal?

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karisue answered Tuesday May 27 2008, 12:02 pm:
every guy's stamina is different.
the first time my boyfriend & i ever had sex, he didn't get an orgasm & i felt so stupid, but i found out it was just because he was so nervous & he was afraid he was going to get off so quickly so he held back a lot & wasn't able to get off at all.
just give it time, & eventually the sex will become less awkward & he'll be able to orgasm more.
& don't worry, you don't suck.
just try more positions & a lot of foreplaying before hand. but sometimes a long stamina is good, the longer he can last, the longer you have to enjoy
:)

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DramaQueen63 answered Monday May 26 2008, 8:38 pm:
well, some boys start to cum faster than others.
some bois can start cumming in the first 30 mins. and some bois may take them an hour. it all depends.
btw- you dont suck!

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