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Well Hello everyone.My Name is Bridgette Martinez.i have not bee on this Website in a million years.But newayys.im 15 years old.living in a little town called c-town.im a freshmann at wnhs.i have a wonderfull boyfriend.his names is stephen.he is the most awesomestt boyfriend ever.i love him with my lifee.my familyy is the most awesome thing everr.i love my mom with my life.. : ).and then theres my hobbys.!i love to get on myspaceee. : )its addictingg.if you wanna add me on myspace my account is myspace.com/pinkroks
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My dad has been going over his brothers. Lately and he has been taking pills and stuff while he is their. I didn't find out this out until today. My other uncle says they really messed him up when he was younger and doesn't want to see it happen again. Well today he told me he was leaving because my mom and him were arguing he said he'd be back in a few days but I don't want him to leave at all. This really upsets me because I love my dad with all my heart. And my mom says their taking a break which usually means divorce and I don't want them to separate because I love them equally. My dad says this is because my mom drinks (not heavily) and stuff. I think I am a cause for this to because last week my mom and I were arguing and the cops came (for disorderly conduct or something) and as soon as my dad came home she told him. I'm really confused because I love both of my parents. Last night when they were arguing I cried myself to sleep and thought of suicide. This is the first time I thought of this in a few years. I don't think I would really do it thought. What should I do for my family and myself?

im so sorry..for what your going through..you never put your self in the middle of this...and plese never kill your self!!!god put you here for a reason..and please just dont kill your self..im sure that your dad loves you very much..but sometimes divorce is the right thing to do..and if your mom drinks to much then you shouild have a talk with her to slow it down with the drinks..im so sorry whats going on right now..my parents got a divorce when i was 3..now i have a step dad..but you need to talk to your dad..and maybe you shouild talk to a school counsler!!!
im so sorry..
*hope i heplped*
~Love Always~
ilovepoink101>Bridgette

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Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide.

dont you dare commit sucide..god has you here for a reason..and why do you want to commit sucide if a boy left you..and i dont care if he was the love of your life..commiting sucide shouild not come up in any point of your life..and you need to go to a doctor and ask if you can get tested for hiv..and then you need to go get a pregnacy test and see if your pregneat..but maybe your not..maybe your bleeding form having sex...you know people do bleed when they have sex!but if that boy leaves you then so what..obviously hes not good enough for you..but you dont ever piut your self in a point when youm wanna commit sucide..please dont do it if he leaves you..but you go get tested and you shouild bring him with you to get tested...and then you need to get a pregancy test..
hope i helped.. please dont do anything stupid..and be safe..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Ok i dunno what this would go under and alot of people look here so... I wanna know how to my face clean like no pimples or blackheads like what are some products or things i should do?? Thanks

my sister uses difrein..but it is prescribed by a dermotoligst...so you should go to your dermotoligst and ask them about diffrin..it kinda stings..but that means its working..but you know i hope you get it..and it works really good..but you no if that doesnt work for you then you can use nertogena stuff..that also works to..
hope i helepd..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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i have a boyfriend and i think he just wants to have sex with me i am a virgin and point is i dont want to loose it yet but i am scared if he eventually cinvince me to than leaves me

well dont let your boyfriend pressure you in to doing anything!!
and you need to tell him that your not ready for sex!!
and he shouildnt leave you because im sure he didnt hook up with you for sex..and you dont want to loose you virginty then thats cool..you dont halft to..but if you do then you need to use a condom..you do what you feel is right..and dont let him force you in to doing anything if you dint want to..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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well see iv only kissed one girl before in a truth or dare game and she kissed me back and all but it was only a peck on the lips and im afraid becuase i always wanted to have sex but like im a little nervous now but only for like making out and the girl another time was dared to give me a handjob (yes we are physco) and i couldnt get a boner i tried for a really long time but i couldnt like does anyone know any things that can help me with kissing and is it because im nervous that i cant get a boner...i didnt think i was nervous but i might of been..sorry if its confusing


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well most boys i make out with they get boners!!well it just might of not been you and you were proably your nerves..i dont know how you boys get boners !!but maybe you shouildnt be so nervous..just let loose..theres nothing to be nervous..most boys just get hard whn they kiss girls..so just get warmed up by kissing her .then let her give you a hand job!!
sorry if i dint help with thid question!1
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?!

yeah you got your cherry poped by a finger..well thats fine..well just tell him not to go so freakin deep..damn..well yeah you no how when you have sex you bleed..??that just means that you popped your cherry..but you obviously got your cheerry by a finger..but thats fine.but the bleedings fine..nothing to worry about..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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okay...
well...
uhh..
this is hard for me to ask this
but i have already fingered my g/f and we both want more
we are WAY TO young for sex about 5 years from it, what can we do thats not sex d00d please help

well she can give you a hand job or something like that..or you can get her a dildo and yall can play with that.(thats more for her though)and i guess you guys can give each other oral sex..you know what that is right..you use your ouths..well you guys shouildnt be haveing sex anyways..thats good you made that decision..and if you ever get horney enough to have sex make sure you use a condom..well i hope you and your girl ahve fun!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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okay, im 17 and ive had sex before and ive been fingered but like..im to emabarrased/scared to let the guy eat me out. If i was a guy i would never want to do that..it seems so nasty, bc of like discharge and stuff. im scared of what he'll say or think...anyone who had this problem or has it any advice would be great. thanks.

well your like me beacuse im a girl and i wouild never suck a guys dick..only if he was like my husband..but no random boy..well if you dont feel comftable with guys eating you out then you shouildnt let them..because it is pretty nast..i no what you mean..but still if you dont feel comftable then dont let him do it..but you do what you want to do!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Ok, I'm 100% Serious about this, this is to all the girls... do chicks prefer guys who are

A> Not shaven or trimmed downstairs
B> Shaven Mostly with lil hair remaning
C> Trimmed to a shortish level but not shaven
D> Shaven And trimmed with little hair remaning
E> Completely Shaven

Thanks for your answers ladies >.>

c
hope i helped!!!

*love always*
ilovepink101

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I need pointers.... Umm
How to finger a girl...
How to give oral sex to a girls...
Where is a good spot to make my woman cum.... hard?
She can't cum from sucking on her boobs can you??
Thanks

you finger a girl by just rubbing your finger between there pussy..and you no dong what you do with your dick..buts its your finger instead..you give oral sex by eating the girl out..you no by sucking there pussy..well just make her fell good and give her a good time and she will come..theres no telling what were shes gonna cum at..well a girl might get turned on if you suck her boobs,but i dint think shell cum from that..but do it anyways,she might like it!!
*love always*
ilovepink101

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Umm...on my 15 b day my friend gave me a vibrator like a solid one and it got some scratches on it after a while and yet i still use it! one day i was using it and it started to be painful and when i hit climax, i noticed it had blood on it and i think i have already popped my cherry and i kno it wasnt that time of the month, so could the scratches on the vibrator be cutting me? Please help thanx!

well thats good you stopped using it..umm you did pop your cherry with a vibrator!!sorry to say that..and the thing is that you no how you have sex for the first time and you kinda bleed a little????well i guess its like your vibrator being a dick..and its going in to you just like one..so i guess its like your having sex with it..so yeah you wouild bleed..but im sure everything is fine..dont worry about it..but if it starts hurting and itching you shouild go to a doctor..and you shouildnt use that vibrator any more..get a new one..a better one!!thats doesnt scratch you!!!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
ilovepink101

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Ok I went out with a guy named kasey... and I knew everyone thought he is a bad person.. and He does bad stuff and everthin.. but he really treated me soo good.. Like I was lyin down on a bed.. and he picked me up and was like carryin me.. and I had my legs around his waist.. and my head on his shoulder.. and he just like started dancin with me.. but he was like holden me.. and then he wispered in my ear.. I love you .. and kissed me.. and then I new.. I really loved him (or I thought) and I really thought i did.. and then he broke up with me.. and I was sooo hurtt I cryd and cryd and I couldnt controle myself I was dyin.. and i had started cutting again and I wouldnt stop.. and then the next day he asked me back out.. and I said yes.. and then I looked in his pro and go why am I not in your pro.. and he goes I was jk.. so he was kiddin bout asken me out.. and I was sooo hurt I grabbed a nife and was bout to slit my throat.. but sunday had her bf call the cops on me.. and they came to my house and came in my room and found me holden a nife to my throat...

well here is the problem... I am now in a relation ship with a guy named mike.. and everyone says he is a player.. and has cheated on his gfs alot.. But I really like him.. and I want to believe he wont hurt me and stuff.. Well he is gone for 3 weeks camping with my friends bf.. jimmy.. so me and my friend are goin up to visit them friday.. Im not sure what to do cause I really dont want to get hurt again and I want to give us a try and all.. and I want to believe it will work out.. What do I do HELP!

wellm you had a rough time lately!!well you shouildnt belive what everyone says...in less you actually thinks hes cheating on you!!!!well you shouildnt worry about..and dont take things to far whena boy breaks up with you...with the cutting thing..you dont ever do that because of a boy...you dont do that period..i no that your hurt really bad and you need someone..and cutttings the first thihng that comes to mind but you shouildnt do it...well whatever you do dont cut or EVER put a nife to your throat..god wanted here for a reason..not for you to slit your throat or cut your self...well about that kasey dude hes a huge jerk ...and he sounds like a trouble maker..so leave him out of your life...wel your new boyfriend...dont blow it because everybody saying crap...you belive what you wanna belive..and if you belive hes chaeting you need to do something about it..well hope i helped...and you go on tht camping trip and have fun!!!!!
love always,
ilovepink101

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ok well i have stared my period once and that was 3 months a go i have not had sex soo i am not pregnet! it worries me! i havent told my mom that i haent started in 3 months! because she know i have origanly started! is my body going haywire or somthing? and i gett alot of discharge still!

Haywired Body??

your fine..your just skipping mounths..its normal..my friend skips mounths all the time..all you have to do is just wait for your period to come back..nothings wrong with you..well the discharge thing??umm i odnt no what to say about that...but you shouild tell your mom becsuse theres nothing wrong with it..oo will she accuse you having sex??i do not no what haywire is so i cant tell you if your body is or not going haywire..well dont worry your skipping a couple of mounths!!..its normal...and no you do not have any weird thing wrong with you!!!
hope i helped
love always,
ilovepink101

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well it all started in 2nd grade when my friend and i thought it would be fun to try and have sex so now im not really sure if i am a lex, bi, or striaight. i always thought it would be more comfortable having sex with girls and if i ever needed to practice making out a girl would be better i really have no idea and im scared...if i am a lez or bi i dont want to tell my friends cuz they might feel uncomfortable...and i kinda wanna wait till im older to see if it all changes and if i doesnt im gonna tell my parents..i just need to some help! please! thanx!

well i think all gurls have those urges to do it with other girls..and i think almost everygirl kissed another girl..and that is true if you tell your friends they are going to feel vey uncomftable around you..and people will call you bad names..and its just terrible..but you shouildnt saying anything about it now because you dont no if your straight or lez or even by...so you shouild just keep that to your self friends wise..and you dont need to tell your parents right now..and your making a right choice waiting till you get a little bit older to see what is right for you...or to see what choice you have made..well i hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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ok soo there is this guy i like ALOT...okay well he is more experienced n i really want to make out with him but im nervous when we get the chance to n i ive never mad out n i think i am ready i just dont know i really want to i mean i am goin on 14 n all my other friends have...n we had a chance at the talent show we were in the bak of the school ne he was about to kiss me but i turned my head n he freaked out n got all mad i mean i was crying n everything......is this a sign of sumthing am i lesbian...ahhhhhh PLZ HELP!!! email me if ya want tickl3_m3_pink1@yahoo.com
XoOoXoOoX
TiCkL3m3PiNk!
13 f tx

well you only no if your a lesbian..and from what you said your not a lesbian..its just that your nervous..and you shouildnt be nervous...if you really like him you shouild just kiss him..and he wil be happy...!!!!lol!!!well you might want to do it soon becuase he may loike you now but if he thinks that you dont want to kiss him then hell forget about you and find some one else who likes to kiss...and dont worry your not a lesbian..
hope i helped....
love always,
ilovepink101

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ok.. so the other day i was masterbating (using a dildo) and like.. i started to bleed.. and i was in some pain.. is it possible that i lost my virginity to a dildo?? i mean.. i don't guess that's a problem cause it's gunna happen sooner or later, but is that what happened?
15/f/virgin

yeah its just like something going in to you..you no how you do it the first time you going to bleed???well a dildos just like a dick..so its nothing but like a reglar dick going in you..so nothings wrong...hope i answered your question good..
*love always*
ilovepink101

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