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Hey, my names Ariellll but I go by Rel. I don't look nor act my age & I know more than I should for my age, I lllloveee yo give advice, & think I do a pretty good job, wanna know if I really do, then ask me a question : ) !

First off -- I'm a very honest and straight forward person. I don't like drama and I'm pretty chill. When I'm older I would like to be a therapist. So, this site really allows me to practice ! :)

I tend to go by the fllllow and don't regret much. I'm in love with Lillll' Wayne. I could watch movies everyday of my life.



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well, i just broke up with my boyfriend, but while we were dating, we'd obv. make out. now the way i'm used to making out is opening my mouth, sliding my tongue in, and (this is pretty awkward, haha), and then closing it and repeating it. but he'd get soo into it, that he'd just keep his mouth open and just wiggled his tongue back and forth? is that right? because i've never done it like that before, and i didn't find it very interesting or fun. i wouldn't want to make out with him because of that either, and i don't know if i'm doing it wrong, or if he is. i do know that people have different ways of doign it, i'm just confused on the matter. would be be considered bad at making out, or what?

thanks!

Well, yes there are different techniques* for making out, but he IS making out the right way. You aren't supposed to open your mouth, stick your tongue in, then close & repeat ..

If you need tips google 'french kissing' or 'making out'

Also, you could go to www.sextutor.com & click on kissing for tips.

Hope I helped !

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my boyfriend used to finger me for how many times, ang im wondering if im still virgin? am i?

Yes, you're still a virgin. He could have broken your hymen, but is unlikely. You're still a virgin unless you have SEX.

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This questions for the girls and guys, mainly guys though.

Well, i was having sex with this guy and its not the first time ive been with him, but we didnt have a condom. He said he didnt mind and he would just go in me, and i am not on any birth control or anything and he knows that. He said it was up to me, and he said he really wants to. Other times when we've had sex, he would always hint it, or say something like, "I just want to go in you so bad" or something along those lines.

What does this mean exactly? Is there something he is trying to tell me? Were any of you in this situation before? Or guys, did you do something like this? Why did you?


Thanks everyone :]

Short & Sweet:

If he cums inside of you, without a condom, you will MOST LIKELY end up pregnant. So, if you want to have a baby then let him cum in you, I'm not sure if he is hinting at anything, unless you're old enough to have a child, he might be hinting that he wants to have one with you.

Hope I Helped & Be Safe !

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Well okay i have always wnated to know this like do guys like it more when you shave down there or not i am really confused please help D:

Well, whatever you feel more comfortable at is best for you.

But, most guys like it completely shaven or waxed, others like the "landing strip" - little piece of hair.


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If you have put in a tampon before then when you have sex there shouldnt be anything to pop right? So it shouldnt hurt either ?

No, that is not the case.

Having worn a tampon or not, chances are it is still going to hurt, and your hymen will pop. Although, some girls aren't born with hymens and others have broken them from riding a bike, or a tampon. But is usually unlikely.

Your vagina, wear the penis is inserted is a tight space, especially for a penis the first time.

For me sex hurt the first couple of times, and my hymen did break the first time, but that is completely normal.


Remember, always be safe and wear a condom, & do it when YOU are ready! Hope I helped!

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how big is the average penis for an 18 year old?

The average size for an erect penis is about 5.2-5.5 inches.


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why do people masterbate???

To pleasure themselves..

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Alright so this may be an intresting question...

I want to know if each of these things is considered good or bad, ok?

-My b.f has an 8inch penis (hurts me sometimes)
-He doesnt cum for like 2 hours (this is the one that worries me a lil)
-he never gets tired after sex

haha thanks in advance!

- That size is not normal liek the coloumnist below me had said, the average size for a male erect penis is around 5.2-5.7 inches. So, he is considered above average. Not saying this is a bad thing, every womens bodies can hadle different sizes.

-Before sex try foreplay, give him hand/head. It may help.

- Most men at a young age can keep going and going for a long time, because well face it, guys like sex. Studies show that Men's sexual peek is when they're around 18, while for Women it's when they're in their 40's. Strange huh ? This meaning, they're their best and have more energy.



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okay. long story. okay. so yesterday "thursday" some kids dared me and this girl to kiss. so we did. and so someone convinced me to tell my b/f. and so did. and he got really pissed. but he "said" he got over it and he wasn't pissed anymore [[yesterday]] so today, i went to this thing after school. and so i got these 3 guys to call him and say "dude, your girlfriend is a really good kisser" and hang up. but i NEVER made out with any of them. and he got really mad. and he left a comment on my profile. it says. "I will never trust you again.You broke my heart.I trusted you with everything now that is shattered.you meant everything to me now you mean nothing i will remember you but hope i will forget.you were my life,but thats now over. I HATE YOU" i don't know if he means it. and i don't feel bad for getting them to call him. but i do feel a little guilty because i hurt him. but i don't really care about him. or i don't want to. because everyone i've ever dared to love has gone. and. i just need to know if i should care. i mean. we've been through alot. and i do think i love him. but i don't want to. i mean. i care. but. what should i do. i don't wanna loose him. i really don't. i can't afford to. i mean. he's been there for me through all my bullshit. and i think i hurt him really badly. and. i really just need to know what to do.
i don't know what to do without him. and i guess i do care. but i dont want to [[sorry for the repitition]] please help. everytime me and him have gotten in a huge fight i started cutting again or i've attempted suicide. i really need him in my life. i can't lose him.

I'm sorry but having those three guys call him was rude and uncalled for, any boyfriend would be PISSED! So, you should feel bad about that..

And for you kissing a girl and him saying he didn't care, I'm pretty sure he wouldnt mind because it was a girl, not a guy. That's totally different, you wouldn't date the girl, would you, I'm guessing no, but you would date a guy, so that's why that's different. And you never know he may have thought it was hot, I know most guys do.

Just talk to him about it, asap. I would apologize if I were you because what you did was rude. Tell him the girl kiss was a dare, and you never and would never cheat on him with a guy or those ones. Tell him you love him, and care about him and don't want to hurt him and want to make this work.

Good Luck & Hope I Helped !

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My bf and i are 15 and his penis is about 5.5 inches long hes a bit shy about is that about average for his age?

Yes, the average size for an erect penis is about 5.2 inches. So, actually he is abit above average.

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i was just wondering can you tell if a girl is a virgin or not by the way they walk?
and if yes. how do virgins and not virgins. walkk?!

No, you can not tell if someone is a virgin or not by the way they walk.

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16f\ not a virgin
I've beeen with my boyfriend for 10 months.
we fool around alot. but I always wear just boy cut underwwear...
do guys think thongs are slutty?
like, if I wore one when he came over, would he think it was slutty or hot? lol
thanks alot! xo

No, I'm pretty sure he will not find that slutty.

Most guys find thongs sexy. But, the magazine poles show that mean find boy cut underwear ( underwear that covers half your butt ) sexier, and thongs are after that.

So, don't worry about it & Hope I Helped !

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ive been having sex with my boyfriend for over a year now and we never use a condem and im not on birth control. he uses the "pull out" method. what is the percentage that i could get pregnant?

Well, I agree with Matt.

It's surprising that you're not pregnant. So, if you're ready to have a baby, then continue using the pull-out method with no use of protection (birth control). But, if in fact you are not ready to have a baby use birth control and a condem.

But, atleast if you want to continue using the pull-out method then atleast go on birth control.

But, remember you can still get pregnant from using a condem, or being on birth control, its just your chances of becoming pregnant are a lot less.

Sorry if this was scattered and unorganized.

Hope I Helped !

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do guys shave down there to?
or is it jus girls

Both girls and guys do either trim or shave completely down there. Then there's also the few that don't clean up down there. haha


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yesterday i was at my boyfriend's house and i had a really bad headache so i fell asleep. when i woke up my hand was like on his penis and i pulled it out realy quick and he acted really scared. he was like, were you awake? i said no then he said oh yea me neither i was dead asleep. but i know he wasn't... after i made a comment he said i put my hand down his pants when we were sleeping, like i just stretched out and boom, there it was, but he was wearing elastic pants and tight underwear there is no way i could have done that in my sleep. I feel really uncomfortable around him now because we have never done anything sexually really and he always said it didn't bother him. What should I do? I wasn't awake the whole time so I don't want to confront him accusing him. Should I just forget about it?

You could ask him about it, but of course he is going to deny it. If you feel that uncomfortable then break up with him, or see him less. When you do see him just watch what you do, and be careful, because it does seem alittle strange.

Hope I helped !

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how do you get condoms without asking your parents? thanks

You go buy them, or go to a free clinic.

You can buy them from a local drugstore.

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When my bf and i have sex he cant last that long he cant keep his erection for that long not sure if its nerves or not at first he was nervous about his size hes got really embarrassed about it and hes too shy to try again what can we do?

There are pills for that, such as Viagra. I'm sure there's many more.

Otherwise its his complex and he's got to get over it on his own time. There's really nothing you can do.

The average size for an erect penis is about 5 inches, so if he's about that or even more he's doing fine.

You can't force him to do anything or make him believe you. He's going to do and think what he wants.

Hope I helped ?

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ok when a guy asks you to "give him head" does that mean to give him a blow job? if not then what are you supposed to do??

Yes, giving head is the same thing as giving a blow job, or bj.

Head is just a more common used work for that.

--Ariell
(14/f)

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hi,can someone please tell me all the bra sizes from biggest to smallest even if 20 people have wrote in can you write in too please to confirm thanks!!!!

They make cup sizes from :
AA-A-B-C-D-DD-DDD-E-F-G-H.

and from 30 to 42 around.

DDD-E-F-G-H are custom made.

Also, with most 30,40 & 42.

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hi, im 14 and a month i haven'tstarted my period so im worried how can i make it come and i lied to my best friend saying i just started it i feel scared she may find out please help and i masturebate with random stuff in the toilet and i think i scratched myself in there when i fingered myself does this affect periods when you atart?
thanks in advance

First off -- I don't understand why girls these days have to lie about getting their period. What makes them do this ? Having your period WILL NOT make you "cooler!"

Nothing can make your period come, it will come when your body is ready. And no, the masterbating will not affect it either.

Some girls don't get their period until they're older. Usually, the more athletic you are the later it comes. I don't understand why you would want it, it's a pain in the butt.

Just wait and be happy you don't have it. Having your period isn't all that great, you have to worry about when you are going to get it, cramps suck, you have to change your pad/tampon constantly, you get worried about if you're going to bleed onto your clothes, or if you can even go swimming.

So, wait it out.

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