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I'm 14 and I started my period like 3 years ago. I thought that when you started your boobs grew faster and stuff. But mine havn't grown that much. Like I still have cleavage with a push-up bra but I thought I'd be bigger by now. My moms' are really big so she told me, mine would be too. So is there a reason why this is happening? Is it normal? Thanks for your help in advance!
Hon just because your mom has big boobs doesn't automatically means you'll have big boobs. Plus your period doesn't make your boobs bigger. you'll boobs will get bigger over time don't worry about it. You still have more years for them to grow.
is it true that if you want to get pregnant, that the best time to have sex is right after your period ends?
No thats actrully not true. the best time to get pregnat is before your period starts like a week or some days cause then you'll be ovulating. When your off your period you know right when it's over then your not ovulating anymore.
Ok im 13/f and my bf and i are really close weve been dating for 2 year now and we are pretty sure were in love with each other...For REal...and its so weird because when we are just hangin out with all of my bf's friends we are like allways fooling around with each other and like kissing and hugging and i feel sorta..turned on...and i like wanna touch him and stuff...but then when we actually wanna take it a little further he starts putting his hand down my shirt and feeling my boobs! and i chicken out...what can i do to make my boyfriend feel that i want to be like sexually involved with him but i dont wanna be like all the other girls and a "whore" and just do it all at once?
please help i rate fives!
you can just be upfront. tell him you want to be intimate but you want himto me patiant with you and take it slow. that way you'll get what you want without feeling like your a whore and a whore is a girl who sleeps wit er body. And you fare away from that.
I'm 16/f catholic; and I masturbate. Is masturbating a form of lust, thereby making it unacceptable against the commandments? I was just wondering, as I found that I'm virtually addicted, and although it is healthy, I want to know whether it is morally wrong for me.
Cheers. I rate high
no it is not morally wrong it'sa natrual thing. don't stress about it.
I masterbate alot how can i chill out on doin it cause i do it alot
i chilled out on doing it by finding something else to do with my time. that's what you should do.
I have a boyfriend but he cant stop crying because he wants to see me, i liek him alot but like hes more emotional then me!
what do i do?
theres one thing i wanna know. Who's the bitch in the relationship you or him. He needs to be a man and stop acting like a punk. Maybe then he could figure out a way to see you. And if you can't handel a man with a mangina then dump his ass and find someone new.
wondering...
what do guys really think about having boners during class...&& while holding someones hands && while you guys around "girls"
thanks alot hope its not confusing...
I think that if you get a boner in class you should just go to the bathroom and jack off. 10 minutes flat your alright and your saved from being embaressed by your classmates or that girl.
i am 13 and i am gay i dont know how to tell my parents that i am i dont kno if i should just drop it on them one day or if i should let them down gently...see my parents and the rest of my fam think i am little mr. perfecto cuz they cant see anything wrong with me i make straight a's and i have lots of good christian friends (that by the way kno that i am gay) everyone in the entire world knos about me cept my family.................. i have to turn into i different person when i go hope like puting on a mask temperarily for every day for the last 3 years i dont kno how else to explain it!!! hope u understand and can help me and give me tips and things to let them kno i am serious and i dont want to get any mean stuff from people soo please help dont make fun thanx love sethers
ok firts you should relax. Your parents should love yopu the same even if your sexual oreintation would upset or dissapoint them. Ok first things first. You should tell them on a nice and quite day. Explain to them and even if they yell and scream and even cry just say "i'm still the same ( your name here). And it's not like i'm on drugs, and drinking, and failing in school. So why are you upset?" I hope it works for the best
P.S. remain calm the whoile time. Don't yell and stomp your feet just act like the mature teen that you are.
**Pixie**
Everytime I shave..down there..I get these little red bumps.What is a quick way to get rid of them? I rate high.
um alcohal or see breaze works well.
okay me and my boyfriend usually use a condom but about three weeks ago we just used the withdrawal method i wasnt ovulating(i know this becasue ive always had a perfect 28 day cycle) i took a pregnancy test two weeks after which came back negative. i havent missed my period nor do i have any of the symptoms but i am a worry wart i dont think im pregnant but i need a second opion????what do you think?
mmmm. you took a pregnacy test and it came back negative. even though the withdrawl method was stupid if you got tested and you haven't missed your period then you are not pregnant. It's not like i'm a pyshcic hon.I can't look 9 months ahead and tell you that the pregnacy test was wrong and you are pregnant.So stop trippin. you aint pregnant.
Well people say when your horny and things you get wet and you juice? Well when I'm horny I dont think I juice because i dont feel wet or anything but I do feel tingerly down below is this juicing or what? Or is it a orgasim and actually.. how do you know if you have a orgasim?
you weren't getting wet but you were being arroused and when yoiur horny your horny your vagina can tingle and you don't even need to get wet. And to get a orgasem you might have to be like with masterbating, having sexm, being sexual pleased down there and it doesn't even need to be sex. And when that happens you'll get an orgasem.
Can you get pregnant from giving head sence the cum goes in your mouth with sperms in it?
LOL.No that is impossible.sperm needs togo in your vagina to get pregnant not your stomach.If you had sperm on your hands for some reason and touche your vagina then yes you get pregnant. But you can't get pregnant from giving oral.
My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period.
there is a slight chance you could be pregnet because his pre-cum (something a guy gets everytime he has an erection. is clear and contains alittle bit of sperm) got in your virgina ( and you did said he was in for only a few secounds) meaning that his pre-cum was in you as well. but it's a 50/50 deal that your pregnant.
what are symptoms of being pregnant?
Swelled feet,cravings for weird food, gain weight(of course) and mood swings.
Yes, well i'm rather young and I get around a lot and I dont ever use a condom. (the boy) because I dont even have my period yet but does this mean that I can still get std's?? If yes, do they make a condom made of paper or something cuz im allergic to the plasticy rubber stuff.
thanks,
I rate fairly high!!
f/15
They do make non latex condoms. and you not starting your period doesn't make you ammune to STD's it lessens your chance for pregnancy and thats it.
ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH
ok first.
-this girl was a virgin and lost her virginity to him
-my boyfriend was a virgin and lost his virginity to her.
-so basically they lost there virginity to each other
-they used protection.
-i was a virgin and lost my virginity to him
-we used protection.
(ok this may sound gross but if your going to talk shit then dont bother writing)
-i made him take it out before he cummed if that helps anything.
Ok i think the chances are very slim on the count of them losing there virgiity together and on top of that they used protection.
About a year ago when i was 14 my best friend and i were kinda role playing when she would sleep over and i just felt so comfortable touching eachother and i enjoyed it sooo much! But now she thinks it's gross and i don't know how to approch any other gurl because it's really fun. It's like girls know what feels good to them so they do it to their partner. i don't think i'm lez because i like guys and have a bf but i enjoy doing sexual things wit girls and i can't take my eyes off their bodies in the locker rooms and stuff. what should i do?
I think you should edmit to what you are. you like boys and girls so your bi.theres nothing wrong with that. you can't change the emotions you have for your samesex. nor can you reverse it. theres nothing that you really can do though.thenjust embrace it.
Ok, I'm 15/f and I was with this guy for 2 months. Well he starting trying to pressure me to have sex with him. And I know this probably sounds stupid but I really wasn't ready to go that far. I know that a lot of other girls have had sex but I just wasn't ready for it yet. So anyway one night we were hanging out and he started to ask me to have sex with him again. I said no and I tried to explain why and make him understand. Well he seemed to understand and I thought that everything was ok. He brought me a drink of water and then I started to feel weird. The next thing I know I'm waking up next to him and now I'm pregnant. My friend said that he probably gave me a drug or something so I would have sex with him. I really don't know and I don't know what to do now. Did he rape me? And what should I do about the pregnancy?
omg!!! yes he raped you. he gave youa rape drug and then he took advantage of you, what a jerk. you didn't want to put out so he drugged you and took it from you. tell the police. file charges and try to geet his ass locked up. The babay on the other hand. :( i think your gonna have to abort. you got pregnant by rape. not by being irresponsible. you shouldn't have to carry that rappers baby.
I hope everything works out for the best
**PIXIE**
im a very good catholic. i really feel bad if i do so much as say oh my god. anyway. i have been sort of mastribating lately. when i get horny sometimes i use a fake penis to 'have sex'. is this sinning because i wanna know if i should stop doing this. please please please help
no it's not sinnig.whats wrong with reliving your sexual energy. masterbating is not eviel nor is it a sin.stop stressin about it.
ok this is kinda weird to be asking but i had to know...If your going to tease about it dont write me... Ok here it goes
every time i get fingerd i tend to cum alot adn i was just woundering if it was normal to cum so much. and if it is normal is there a way to slow it down a little bit? Please, give me any advice.
um yea it's normal but no you can't slow down your cum, or the amount that comes out. thats like asking can you slow down the movement of the earth or slow down the rain. WADAQ!!!!!