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Dude, alright i live in missouri and I went to a walgreens to purchase some condoms and i am 15. so i was at the check out and the lady said "i'm not going to sell these to you" and i said "uhm lady why not?" and she said "you are too young to be having sex and im not gunna sell these to you" then she put it in the bag to be put back on the shelf...so yah is that legal? (she lectured me for about a 1/2 hr on the subject so please dont lecture me as well
p.s. i rate for good answers (link)
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you could have gotten her fired, because basically what she's saying is "go get your girlfriend pregent"
but, it is leagal, try someplace else next time, or, if you can't do that, then go back & if she does it again get the manager
or you can try checking out at the Pharmacy, they're more likely to understand
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This is kind of random but do you think that when someone losses thier virginity they should tell thier parents? (link)
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I don't think so, somethings are better left unsaid, & I deffinetly think that this is 1 of them
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meaning of aborshin (link)
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ok... an abortion is when a woman (or a girl, which ever) goes to s clinic or a hostpittle & has the baby that she is pregnent with taken out of her (in which, yes, the baby would die)
hope I helped
-Cameron
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My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F. (link)
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aww, no, most girls do that, they just don't admit it, its a thing girls go through at your age... & guys go through it too, only not with other guys, they immagine stuff about girls
theres nothing wrong with you, its perfectly normal
-Cameron
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a month, on Decemeber 15. We are always together, and I think that I love him. I know it's like, oh your a child you don't know what love is, but I really do believe that I am in love. We were laying on my bed on each other and I was thinking about how I love him, and I was about to tell him.. I asked him what he was thinking about, and he said, "I love you." It was like so strange though because I was just about to say the exact same thing, but anyways.. Wow, totally off topic. I'm 13, and whenever we are making out.. We get a little too into it, I suppose. Where it gets to the point when it's "dry sex", or having sex with your clothes on.. Yes, I know it's weird.. But, I feel the erge to want to have sex with him, and go farther, sexually. I am only in 7th grade, so of course I don't want to go that far.. All I have done with any guy is "feel up", because I refuse to go farther.. He was trying to finger me and I wouldn't let him. Basically, I am trying to ask..
Would it be wrong if I had sex with him?
I don't think I am ready, at all.
I could be wrong? Maybe, I am.
But - I am scared that next time we hook up that it will go a little too far.
And it's not like a 10 second hook up, it's more like 10 minutes.
Really, how far is "too far"?
I believe feel up is far enough for 7th grade.
But I'd love your views. (link)
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well, everyone is diffrent, I mean, you could be ready now, it does not matter what age you are, just as long as you are ready, now if you where under 10 (like my cosin) & where wanting to do all of this, it would be totally diffrent, but you are 13, you can decide on that yourself, no one here can tell you when you are ready or if you are ready, you have to know yourself, & at anytime it is ok, it doesn't matter that your in 7th grade, as long as you & him both are ready & willing to do it
hope I helped & good luck
-Cameron
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ok i'm 13 yrs old and a little bit emberessed to sayt this but here i go...my boy feind wants to finger me and i'm kinda scared and i just don't kno what to do..i mena i want to but i'm just askin muh self questions leik will it hurt wll i cry ..what should i do please help ..thnxx (link)
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well, it shouldn't hurt to much, the real thing i what hurts, & by doing this, it won't hurt as much, so its a good thing
don't worry about it cos it goes by slowly, it shouldn't hurt to much, just be sure that both of you are clean (wash your hands & everything else) so nither of you get any STDs
good luck & I hope I helped
-Cameron
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Ok.....so guys...people at school call me a slut like all the girls and stuff...but i really don't think I am...and like they all say that guys love sluts..but i dont know....i meen I really dont think I am a slut..but guys do you like sluts or no...and what turns you on about a girl the most???
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ummm... wow... many things... but talking about sluttyness? I'd say a little is nice, but not like a TON, I think thats what your asking?
but, other things... nice, sweet, a little clingy (not a ton), funny, can be serious, brown hair, dirty-blond, green eyes, stuff like that
hope I helped & wishing you the best of luck!
-Cameron
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I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this? (link)
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well, just tell her that shes not supposed to do that, & tell her to wait untill shes at least 14 or 13, she should listen to you, she probolly looks up to you
& you tell them a closer year... 1, cos it doesn't seem to far off, 2, cos most people loose it around 13-16
-Cameron
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i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks. (link)
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not saying anything about myself, but most of my friends who have done it were from 13-15
-Cameron
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why do people in there teens who arent even married yet want to have sex, like when your older and you want to get married it wont come in handy to tell him/her that your not a virgin so my questions are
1) why do people in there teens have sex
2) why do GUYS like looking at porn
3) (no affence) but if your engaged or w/e wouldn't that just disguss the guy/girl that your not a virgin
so i dont get it (link)
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1) sometimes its a way of exaping your life, I know that might be hard to understand, but in a way it can, sometimes if you love someone, you'll do it, or sometimes people want to be cool or there just both turned on, theres many reasons
2) cos it turns us on, even girls will, people just like to be turned on, its hard to explain
3) sometimes it might, but not to everyone, & most people loose there virginity before there married, so I guess it would really depend, I don't think it would matter to me
I don't think its bad that teens are having sex, we do what we want, & I don't think pre-marrital sex is bad, infact 67% of people loose there virginity in high school, I don't see it as a bad thing, & apperntly nither do they, & its our lifes to throw away or do what ever with, it'll be our mistake if its a mistake
sorry if I was rude, but I was just trying to explain the way & I probolly many others see these things, I hope I helped
-Cameron
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Are condoms 100% safe? (link)
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I'm pretty sure its about 97%
not much to worry about thought, unless it breaks, so make it a little loose, pull it up a little so it won't snap
-Cameron
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This guy, Justin, and I got back together a couple of weeks ago after breaking up. We have been on and off for about a year, the longest time we went out was for 2 1/2 months. Well I went out with this guy Nick, and Justin didn't call me almost all summer because he thought I was still with him. When he found out we weren't together he called me and we both confessed that we'd never stopped loving each other. Now that we're back together, I've fallen harder for him that ever before, and we have alot stronger connection. He's a totally changed person. He's trying to stop doing drugs and smoking, he backed away from a fight yesterday for me, he actually DANCED for the first time in his life and before we started going out he called my dad for permission to be with me. He's actually doing his schoolwork and staying out of trouble and he tells me it's because he loves me and will change to be with me, even if I don't ask him too.
That's just a little bit of background information though, so you can see that we really do love each other and this isn't just an impulse desicion. Well...I've always thought of him as maybe being my first and lately I've thought about it more and more. Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to do it for a long while, but I do have a few questions.
How bad does it hurt?
What do I do...if I'm on bottom OR top?
What are the condoms that are most reliable?
Did you regret your first time?
Anything else?
Sorry it's so long but THANK YOU SOO MUCH IF YOU ANSWER! (link)
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to girls, it hurts pretty bad, I'm assuming its not unbareabul, but not pain-less
since its your 1st time... bottam
Trojen, I guess, nothing expried
just think of it this way... no fun with no guilt feelings
hope I helped & hope everything goes ok!
-Cameron
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Me and my close friend which is a girl were watching cruel intensions and it made us really horny, we both wanted to practise so we would be good when it came to us losing our viginity to a boy. So we practised positions and tongue kissing in our bikinis, and now all i can think about is being masturbating partners with her again.
I took 2 tests which both said i was i bi but cant figure this out.
f,16
p.s i never had feelings for a girl before it happened. (link)
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well, it is possibul that you are bi or lesbian, but it could also mean that you just want to be good, it can mean many things, it very natural, you probolly are not bi, but most people go through a stage in there life where they think that they might like to see what its like being with someone of the same sex, but its just a stage, & its very common (I read somewhere its like 97%) so I wouldn't worry about anything unless you started having feelings for her, & if you are, you may grow out of it, or you may not, but there is nothing wrong with it at all, its perfectly noraml
hope I helped
-Cameron
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Ok the subject sounds a little harsh for what I am about to say. My brother watches porn. I mean alot of porn. Its not really occasional, it's routinely. Sometimes I feel bad because, I get a little curious and I watch a video, but I mean now sometimes I feel sick. I regret ever watching the video because all I can think of is its contents. Thats not all I have seen, I have seen pictures and things on TV. I wish I had never seen any of it, because now my mind wanders to places I don't want it to wander. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there anyway for me to restore my "innocence"? (link)
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there is nothing wrong at all, its perfectly natural, as you get older, those things just tend to happen, there is nothing wrong with it at all
hope I helped
-Cameron
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how come people call girls sluts if they kiss guys (like me...but i havent done it in over a month)
a slut is someone who has sex w/a bunch of guys!! so how come IM gettin called a slut!?
but im not the only one...some other people i know are getting called sluts too. and its not fair! i dont have sex! how am i a slut? i just dont get girls at all...even tho i am a girl! i just dont get why they do things like this (link)
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they are just joking around, my friend, she calls me a man-whore (ofcourse... there are other reasons why... but its just a joke) & if they are serious, then they are more then likely jellious
hope I helped
-Cameron
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I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.
Should I wait? (link)
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well, its all your decision, I'm pretty much an Athist (but I still think there MIGHT be something out there, I don't know), so I look at thing very diffrent then people who are strongly religious, & I say that its all up to you, if you think you are ready, then its ok, but if you want to wait, that is ok too, alls you have to do is think & decide "am I ready?" & if your not its ok, wait, & if you are go for it, its not a bad thing at all
hope I helped
-Cameron
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Is it just me or is everyone getting raped in teh last two days? All these guyz got these girls getting naked for them and jumpin in bed with them... and if its not that... it's a guy having a guy friend make a move on them... it all just seems weird that this all happens at once... anyone else wanna give me an explanation? (link)
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well... the way sociaty is today... I'm not supprised at all, I'm sure I have some friends who have had sex.
but its not really rape if the girls are willing to do it... so...
but the only thing I ahve to say is that its the age your at & its Summer, the end of Summer at that... so I'm sure some people are just wanting to have sex cos its the end of Summer & its just the age your at
hope I helped
-Cameron
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Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do? (link)
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thats acctuly very normal for a teenager to do, its just cos your hormones & your body & you are just changeing, it dosen't mean you are bi or lesbian, but it could, its a stage pretty mutch everyone goes through, but some people just stay that way or some move on, diffrent people do diffrent things, & the experimenting is a very common thing to, I wouldn't worry to much about it, unless you start having feelings for Marie, then you could possibul become lesbian or bi, because some people if they experiment to much then they start having emoshins for these people, but some people don't, so don't worry unless you start having feelings for her
hope I helped
-Cameron
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I am old enough to have consensual sex, I am 100% sure. I need to know "how" cause it is my first time with a guy, and I want to make it special, not random and how it feels when we begin. I will rate high if you answer in detail! (link)
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well... umm... I don't really know exactly what to say here... but, I'll try...
just let him do what he wants, there is really nothing you have to do, other than follow along with it, sex is randome, unless your the one who is directing it, then you know what you want, but since this is your first time, I think it would be best if you let him choose what he wants, I don't think you'll be doing anything to "wild" since this is your first time
& as for how it feels... since this is your 1st time its going to hurt, so be prepared for that, but if it hurts to bad, then tell him to stop
& thats all I can really say
I hope I helped, I'm sorry, I'm not really an expert on these things
-Cameron
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my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.
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well... tell your boyfriend, & then call the police, cos if he raped you then thats a really serious crime, & he can't do it again since he'll probolly be sent to jail, so stay clear of him, & right after you tell your boyfriend call the police
I'm very sorry about that, its a tragic thing, I'm very sorry & I hope my advise helped
-Cameron
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