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Q: hey guys. i can never seem to get a bf. like i have a lot of guy FRIENDS. just FRIENDS. im always the friend, never the girl. i cant FLIRT! can anyone give me some flirting ways/tips/techniques? i love anyone who helps!!
i just cant open up so easy to guys i like and then when i do its like hey your funny and im like.. eh heh.. yeah just funny! it never turns into something more. last year (6th grade) i got a TON of guys! but this year im more friendly and brave and open.. ugh
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Hey hey common, if the guys don't want you as the 'nice, funny girl' they aren't looking for a 'real' realtionship, they just want girls who they can 'do' stuff with them! Just be yourself and the right guy is going to come!!
Love Always,
Marielle*
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Q: I need to know what to do in this situation,i went on a date and i told one of my guy friends about it and then he told another guy that the guy i went out with fingered me and then that guy asked the guy i went out with and he said no and told him it wasn't true...but the worst part is that he lied and said that i was the one who said that he did it to me when it never happened...the guy who started the whole rumor is suppose to be one of my best friends what should i do or say to him.... please help...thanks
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Dump that friend! If he is spreading roumers about you, you shouldn't even think about being his friend!! You deserve better!!
*Marielle*
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Q: As my title says, my friends tend to be really mean to me. We had a free Spanish period today because there was a substitute, and they ignored me the whole time. They were making plans to go shopping for bathing suits, and go snowboarding with each other, and didn't ask me to join them. One of my friends just randomly tells me to shut up, and she thinks it's just a joke. They tell each other stuff and don't tell me, and then they talk about it right in front me. Basically, they treat me horribly, and I really don't need it from them. What am I supposed to do??
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If you think THOSE are your friends...wow.. you need friends that will respect you and will invite you places!!!! dude.. get some new friends! you dont deserve them, you desever SO much better!!!
Hope i helped!!
*Marielle*
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Q: I have some friends and every time they move out of my class they dont talk to me but when i am in there class im there bff. Why dod they do this?
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cause they just want to fit in with other people and look cool.. its what almost any girl wants.. they will do anything just to fit in with *the* group, even if it means losing their other friends. id say if they were really your friends, they would respect you more and be your friends inside and outside of class.
Hope I helped a little
*Marielle*
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Q: my friend is one of those people who is geneticly(frakishly)super skinney. no matter how much she eats or how lazy she gets she stays the same size. she is a great friend but sometimes she can be very inconsiderate of other people's feelings about their weight.she dosnt know how it feels to be fat or to feel fat. and she makes fun of people who look fat or chubby to her. this really makes me mad but being the quiet person i am i never say anything.im afraid if i confront her she will get upset with me because she dosnt understand.how do you think i should talk to her about it?
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Just tell her for God's sake!! She isn't going to hate you for doing it!! Maybe she will get a f'in clue!! Just tell her what you feel!!
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Q: O.K. well i think that if shes going through problems, tell her that you are there for her like all the time, and if it is very bad, tell your parents they WILL help!
This was your answer to my last advice question.
I asked my parents to help, and so this morning, they talked to her, and I was listening to the whole conversation, and my mom told her everything she thought and was worried like me, but she won't listen to them.
Now what?
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do her parents know? if they dont you should have her parents and their parents sit down and have a talk about it.
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Q: One of my really good friends is going through a really hard time and is having a lot of problems. Whenever, I try to help her, she just immediately contradicts me, and tells me that if I was in her place I would feel the same way. Which I know I would, but I totally think she is handling this all wrong. My question is: How do I get through to her?! I'm so stuck, because we have been best friends forever! I'm also afraid that she's going to go and change and make bad choices...because we're both going to hs next year, and she's not going to my school. How do I help her?!
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O.K. well i think that if shes going through problems, tell her that you are there for her like all the time, and if it is very bad, tell your parents they WILL help!
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Q: My best friend invited me to this great waterpark in the Dells, but she made me promise I wouldn't tell anyone. My other friend asked me if I was going somewhere with her, because we were leaving school at the same time early, so I said no, because I made a promise to my best friend. Then that friend gets all mad at me because later, she finds out I really DID go on a trip with my best friend, so she won't talk to me because I lied to her. Then my best friend gets all mad at me because I told her, even though I really didn't- I don't even know how she found out! I've tried to talk to both of them, but now both of them won't even talk to me...it's hopeless...and it's weird because these two friends have like totally been trying to pull me their way, like fighting over me, and I'm ALWAYS stuck in the middle of their fights. I've tried talking to them, but it won't work...what do I do?
Thanks,
Sick of all these fights
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Dear Sick of all thesse fights,
I think that you should get them both together, like ask them to go over to your house and if they dont tlak to you say im serious! i NEED to talk to you! then when they get there or wherever, tell them that you hate being in the middle of their fights, and tell the friend who you lied to tell her that you are so sorry but you couldnt tell anyone. then if your other friend thinks you told her about it say you didnt, i know that you already have but keep trying! I hope i helped a little! *Marielle*
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bio
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*xo*I tear my heart open.
I sew my self shut.
My weakness is that I care to much.
And our scars remind us that the past is real.
I tear my heart open just to feel.*xo*
O.K. well to start off..
I'm a 13 year old girl, I'm in 8th grade, I have blond hair, blue eyes, 5'6, and 105 lbs.
*WHAT I LIKE TO DO*
-taking pictures
-listning to music
-watch movies
-Hang out w/ my friends
-shopping
-dancing (even tho I suck at it)
-play volleyball
-play softball
-run track (BEST SPORT EVER!!)
-play basketball & soccer even tho I suck at them
-watch football
-snowboard
-water ski
-and mostly.. giving advice!!
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Wisconsin Occupation: Student Age: 13 AIM: MSN: Cheerchic1289@hotmail.com Member Since: August 6, 2004 Answers: 80 Last Update: April 27, 2005 Visitors: 8343
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