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ok in this highschool im goin to its a REALLY bad school lol its ghetto..and yea anyways im not pretty or anything im over weight and yea u get the point but my question is how do i get more boys as friends? thanks! ( im really shy by the way ) (link)
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lol well I always find a good girl buddy and who ever she knows as a friend, I start talking to them on aim or something cause I'm kinda shy too. Anyway, I hope I've helped.
P.S. never try to get hooked up with your girls crush or boi, even if you are "just friends".
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im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go? (link)
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No matter what, parents are parents, it's their job to be in your buisness. Think about this, if you run away, where are you going to run to? Who will take you in? How long before your loving parents figure out that your gone and have the world searching for you? What will you wear, eat, sleep... No matter how you see it, you are lucky, you have parents that care about you. Talk to them, if they still don't hear you, get help from someone you trust. Hope I've helped.
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I have this one friend who is always flirting with my friends boyfriends, and even mine. We get mad at her all the time, and she tries to make us forgive her by giving us presents and stuff. We're sick of her! Whenever we get in fights with her she gets her mom involved too. It's starting to get on everyones nerves. Also, she always thinks we're talking about her behind her back, but we're not! HELP! ASAP!-Bethany (link)
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Okay, your friend sounds like a real piece of work. Try to avoid her as much as possible; and when you can't just try to ignore her completely. I have a friend sort of like this too and the only reason she flirts with me and my friends boyfriends is cause she is jealous and she knows that she can't get a good boyfriend for herself. You said that she always gets her mom involved; well, it sounds like she can't fight her own battles.
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(note: anyone who answers this will get rated by me)
Anyways, I just met this guy out of the blue by chance online. He's my best friend's boyfriend's friend, so I know he's not some sweaty old perverted guy pretending to be someone else online. It seems like we're both pretty interested in eachother; however, he just broke up with his girlfriend recently and he's been having a lot of trouble recouping from his past relationship. They broke up recently so I had no clue if they were going to get back together again soon, so I had decided to not get involved. But then he started calling me pretty and asking if I wanted any gifts cuz he wanted to buy me something... etc. Now I'm not sure what to do. Should I get involved in his recent relationship with his ex gf? should I just stay away from him?(there's no harm in that because I've never met him in person) Well, I'm planning to meet him in two weeks, and I need to plan on what to do. Please help! (link)
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hum...I think if he is your best buds boyfriend (or was) that it's good to stay away from him unil you best friend gets over him. If she is already over him then I say go for it! Ne ways, I hope all goes well for you and "the guy". Hope I've helped.
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what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do? (link)
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Tell your parents, or, tell someone (an adult) who you can trust. You need to see a doctor. If you are depressed you should get medicine to help not feel like you want to kill yourself. I know it doesn't seem like the best advice, but trust me I've been there and medication is still really helping me. Hope I've helped some.
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I used to be popular with a lot of friends but now I gave all that up about a year ago cuz the people were so stuck up. And now I have like no freinds....I dont even know if I have one and I have a boyfriend who I love soooooo much and weve been together for 7 months and I wish i had some real friends tho.... I am so fed up with the people in my school tho and I think I want to meet people outside of school I just want to make friends who I dont know yet....I want to start over.... what do i do?....should I stop being "friends" with the people Im sick of? i have been so stressed out lately and I dont know what to do about my depression! (link)
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You should try to make new friends, there are probably a whole bunch of people you don't know at your school. If your fed up with everybody, try going somewere like a skating rink or something were other people that aren't from your school hang out. I'm really happy for you and your boyfriend, however, I know no matter what, friends are always nice to have. I hope you get the new friends that you need and deserve. Hope I've helped out a little.
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this is a poem I wrote and i wanted to get feed back from peopel i dont know please tell me wat you trully think about it and you may not use it unless you give Ruperts_gurl credit thanx :
Sucked you up
I sucked you up
into a world of heart ache and pain
i told you what you wanted to hear
things i took for granted
I fooled you and myself
into believing i was good
good and caring enough
for a healthy relationship
you believed i cared
and i did until
i realized that i corrupted you
i sucked you up
into my drama queen world
i brought you into the prison of my life
i watch your beautiful tears
stream down your face
as i walk away forever
i love you
but i am spitting you out
so i dont hurt you any more
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I love your poem and I think you have great talent. You should send it to poetry.com I have a really sucky one in there (emily willcox). Hope I've helped some.
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Ok, I have this friend who isn't really nice. Whenever I invite her over she makes my room messy like she is Godzilla or something. Well whenever she invites me to come over she may invite one other person and then I am invisible the rest of the time that other friend of hers is over and she yells at me for nothing blames me on stuff to my parents even though she did whatever and everything is all about her. She is so selfish. What should I do? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel! Next time she comes over, tell her a list of rules. If you can't do that or she still doesn't follow them, then try not to invite her over to your house anymore. Hope it helps.
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Well, me and this guy blaine have been best friends since the seventh grade. I mean best friends, i know everything about him, and he knows everything about me. I also have this best friend named Tanisha and she was the first person i told when i started having feelings for blaine. I never said anything to blaine, but in the eighth grade Tanisha told me she liked blaine. Blaine said that he only likes her for her body, and now they're together. I still like him, but i feel like neither of them cares about me any more. Everyone keeps saying just find sum1 else but its not that easy. What should i do? (link)
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You can't help who you like/love and even though it seems like your best friend shouldn't have done that, what would you have done in her shoes. If this guy is really worth it, trust me you'll get your chance to be together with him.
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I have a friend who is kinda in movies and t.v. shows, what gift should I send her. (link)
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Try sending her a basket of stuff, make movie's the theme. Put in a blockbuster's card or moviegallery or whatever is around, a bag of popcorn, a box of her fav. candy, and whatever else. Be creative!
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hopefully i can make this as short as possible, so here we go (by the way i am a male and am 15 years old, going to be a sophmore next year); the person i like to portray myself to be is a really nice and caring guy who is what some people would call not as much a guy as guys are, but anyways, there is this girl who is really really nice, and really really fun and energetic, she is always "bouncing off the walls" and also has a great sense of humor and is really fun to be around, i really enjoy being around her. here is some more information: i didnt know how to let her know how i felt about her, because i look up to her as a rolemodel as the person i want to be like, funny, smart, and just plain fun and not perverted or anything, like she never curses or says sick jokes or anything like that, so anyways, one day after school i stopped her and told her that i thought she was really cool and she in turn said the same thing to me, and i told her that i never thought i would meet anyone else like her. to finish off the information- i am moving in about 3 weeks, leaving state going off to somewhere else because of parent complications and what not, and now i just want to get to know her better; she did give me her email, but knowing her she doesnt check it except every month or so, so that it does not get deleted, because it is a hotmail account, so if i am lucky she will see the email i sent to her asking her if she would want to go for a walk and talk sometime so we can get to know each other better, but i dont think that will work. so anyways, here is my question- i want to find a way to ask her to do something with me (and by the way she doesn't want to date anyone or get into a relationship, that is why i want to ask her on a walk), but i dont know what to ask her to do, i thought of asking her for i walk, so we can talk more, because i want to get to know her better, so i dont know what to ask her, and second of all i dont know how to contact her, so far i have just been waiting to see if she will reply to my email, but i dont think she will, so i want another way to ask her, and i am not so sure about calling her house or knocking on her door and asking her that way, i only have 3 weeks left before i am gone and will not be able to see her again, so i just want some advice (and by the way she doesnt use chats either), so i would really appreciate it if someone could send me some advice, thanks a whole bunch if you do! (link)
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Try sending this girl a letter, or try calling her. As far as what to do, ask her to dinner with your family, or the walk sounded nice. If your not willing to risk it all, then its not worth it :) Hope everything goes your way before you leave
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i babysit this child whom is eleven. She is a very impresionable child, she goes on to the internet to meet boyfriends and cuts herself.what should i do? (link)
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You should try talking to her. If that doesn't work then you need to tell her parents. You might not be her favorite person for a while, but she will then thank you later. I hope everything turns out well.
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what do u do when ur best/f wants to kill herself and u cant do anything about it bc u dont live any where near her any more?
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You can always try talking to her. If she is your best friend then she will listen to you. Try talking to her parents and getting her help. Anything is better then knowing that your best friend might kill herself.
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hi guys, this is a question to all the people who have lost a BFF. well this girl in my class is my bff. and she is going to a hole neew school and i really am going to miss her. WHAT SHOULD I DO.
singed POORSADTHANG:-..( (link)
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Theres nothing you really can do except wish her goodbye and keep in touch after words. I know it's gonna be hard but you can always visit each other.
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ok well i have this friend and shes awesome i love her soooooooo much and like one day i was gonna IM this guy that screwed her over and mess with him and i ended up calling him and i bitched him out for a while then like somehow i started to really like talking to him and i knew if she knew she would be soooo pissed and well i told her that i had talked to him and that i wanted to keep talking to him and she got really mad and said she hated me and wouldnt talk to me for a few days then i told her id never talk to him again but i have, i talk to him on the phone every once in a while and he wants me to meet him in person but i no i shouldnt but i still like to talk to him on the phone, only if she knew i still talk to him shed prolly never talk to me again and i dunno what to do, I REALLY LIKE HIM, i know its sick, and i know i shouldnt like him cuz he really hurt my best friend but i still do and i cant help it :( what should i do????? (link)
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You can't help who you like, your not supposed to. No matter how hard you try you'll probably still like him. Your friend can't see this right now, but in time she will. For the moment, try talking to her. If you loose your friends trust, she will feel there is nothing left. I hope everything goes well for your relationship and your friend.
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Ok, there is this guy and we are really good friends. We are such good friends that it almost out does any of my other friends that are girls. We talk about everything and you can never split us apart. But he has a girlfriend and i am not jelous or anything its just that he spends more time with me than he does with her. I want them to be together and ever since they started going out he has kinda ignored me until now! Once summer break hit so did he. We have done somethin every single night this week and i really like the attention but i dont want his girlfriend to be mad. Now we are going to Grand Rapids together to watch his girlfriend perform. What do you think i should do just keep goin along with it or ask him why he never spends more time with is girl friend. Help me
Signed confused (link)
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You have a good heart, hopefully this guy can see that. You should just ask him why he hardly ever spends time with her. Don't forget to mention that you like to see him happy and that you appriciate all the attention. Since you two have been such good friends for so long he will be able to talk to you about why he doesn't. Hope everthing goes over.
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whats up wit this whole poser thing i just dont get it people r age r just tryin to figure out what they want ot be like im 14 and a girl and i recently start going out wit my boyfriend he is so sweet and so funny and hes what youd call a skater and yeah i like all that skater kinda stuff like punk rock and metal music and sk8tbording and all that but i dress in ambercrombie and ae and armini and goochie and all that kinda stuff but all that pop music and crap just hurts my head now people are starting to get mad at me cause im going out wit my b/f sum of the bikers at my school are all like you shouldnt be going out wit him hes not a biker ( my last boyfriend was a bmx biker so i know all the bikers) and then all this people have started calling me a poser cause this girl saw me in zumies wit my friend and b/f and it jsut makes me mad its not like they have any say in what im doin but I jsut wanted to know why do people think its any of there bisnnes
thanks bunchs
~*~ Me ~*~* (link)
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I never have been able to understand the whole label thing. It seems to me that you didn't ask to be labeled, everyone did it for you, so in my opinion, if you want to hang with your boy at zumies do it. Like you said it's really none of their busines.
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Hi it is me amy again. i am really still sad. i really hope you guys will help me out. Well this is my problem. my best frienmd chose her Boy friend over me i am really getting sad. i wishi knew what to do. so if you can help me send me an email at amyBelle101@AOL. com or just answer it here. thanks a million. amy (link)
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Boy friends will come and go but best friends are forever. If your friend doesn’t see this now, in time she will. Just try stay strong for the time being and always try to do the right thing and you will come out the better person.
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