Hi it is me amy again. i am really still sad. i really hope you guys will help me out. Well this is my problem. my best frienmd chose her Boy friend over me i am really getting sad. i wishi knew what to do. so if you can help me send me an email at amyBelle101@AOL. com or just answer it here. thanks a million. amy
ShudaBeenAbLonde answered Friday June 4 2004, 11:48 am: Okay, listen up .. I've been through this plenty of times .. And it's almost starting to be normal.. It really sucks to have your best friend choose her boyfriend over you and it's hard to get through it .. what I think you should do is just start hanging out with other friends .. get your mind off of that .. but I don't think you should not be friends with her or anything .. she still needs you .. you guys are still best friends and i'm sure she'd still come to you with her problems. It's tough to have a boyfriend and a best friend who both need you and maybe she's not trying hard enough to make time for you .. but she'll come to you .. because, that's what best friends do. Just be there for her .. and support her.. try talking to her again .. just go hang out with other friends. [ ShudaBeenAbLonde's advice column | Ask ShudaBeenAbLonde A Question ]
cr8zymonkeyluv07 answered Thursday June 3 2004, 8:07 pm: Boy friends will come and go but best friends are forever. If your friend doesn’t see this now, in time she will. Just try stay strong for the time being and always try to do the right thing and you will come out the better person. [ cr8zymonkeyluv07's advice column | Ask cr8zymonkeyluv07 A Question ]
roxanne answered Thursday June 3 2004, 10:38 am: if your mate chose her bf over u then she is not your real mate sorry to say ask he why she chose him over you make sure she knows how you feel about what has happened and how let down your feeling all my love roxanne [ roxanne's advice column | Ask roxanne A Question ]
hErEtoheLp answered Wednesday June 2 2004, 7:30 pm: Babe it's happend to me, i was heartbroken forever. But what happend was she began to lose more than just one person, and she then realized after losing her best friend that she was being stupid... and she aplogized, now i don't know if that will work out that way for you, but believe me, in time she'll realize what she's done and how she lost one of the most important people in her life. She'll come back to you, it just takes time, and it's going to be painful, but you still have frineds, and TALK to her if at all possible. A BEST friendship is definatly worth the fight, so don't give up and don't lose hope cause in the end it should work out. [ hErEtoheLp's advice column | Ask hErEtoheLp A Question ]
Danielle answered Wednesday June 2 2004, 7:20 pm: Talk to her tell her how u feel even though i really dont understand what the problem was in the first place why cant she have a boyfriend and still be friends with u any ways if talking doesent work just find a new b/f but i still thinks thats wrong foor her to have chosen a guy over a friend no guy is worth fighting for dont worry about it she'll come around [ Danielle's advice column | Ask Danielle A Question ]
Nicegirl06 answered Wednesday June 2 2004, 7:05 pm: Well, maybe you try talking to your friend and that why she putting guy between u to and choose who she wants. if she want be both ur friend she need to figur it out becouse it hurt what u guys have.. maybe trying ask her bf what she see in him make him choose him over you..
I Hope I can help I been same place before.. where my friend acted all different and being anoyed her bf around I like out in the cold..
send a comment plz [ Nicegirl06's advice column | Ask Nicegirl06 A Question ]
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