hi guys, this is a question to all the people who have lost a BFF. well this girl in my class is my bff. and she is going to a hole neew school and i really am going to miss her. WHAT SHOULD I DO.
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MotherJune answered Thursday June 10 2004, 11:51 pm: Many times in life, we have close friends that move away and we feel a sadness and a loss. However, the best way to keep a friendship is with contact. I have friends spread out all over the US and at one time, my dear friend moved to another COUNTRY! Email and talk on the phone and don't forget a personal touch like a fun card or written letter with a photo or two. I plan trips to get together with my buddies and even travel together. One summer as a special birthday treat, we flew to the same city and met at the airport, then rented a convertible and drove to a small artists' town to explore and sight see. We had a blast! There isn't any reason that you can't get together for a day or two and spend time together over weekends, holidays, or summer break. It is the quality time that you spend together, not how often or how much that keeps a friendship going. Remember to share important events and keep up with what is happening in your life. You and your friend will make new ones, so don't become jealous if they mention new buddies. You will always have a place in their life if you include them in your own. [ MotherJune's advice column | Ask MotherJune A Question ]
ShudaBeenAbLonde answered Thursday June 10 2004, 9:24 pm: I know you're going to miss her but you just have to let it go. I'm sure you'll still stay in touch but you just have to understand that you're gunna lose people in your life. It's going to be hard, but I know you'll make it. [ ShudaBeenAbLonde's advice column | Ask ShudaBeenAbLonde A Question ]
Gabi143 answered Thursday June 10 2004, 9:05 pm: Look, it doesn't mean she can't be your bf anymore. My friend isn't on my floor in skool anymor and I never see her, but i call her and she's still my bf. so try to keep in touch
-gabi143 [ Gabi143's advice column | Ask Gabi143 A Question ]
GC_rox_my_sox answered Thursday June 10 2004, 8:42 pm: It depends on where she is moving to. If she is moving to a new state, then you may not be able to see her as often. It's important to call any time you can to keep the friendship. Try to arrange to meet on your birthdays. If she is moving only an hour or 2 away, then you don't have much to worry about. You won't see her monday through friday, but the weekends are the best time to hang out. Go to movies, parties, whatever. Plus, you get the oppurtuntity to make some new friends from her school. One of my best friends had a close friend who moved away, and she now has double the friends she used to have, and a boyfriend, from her friend's new school, and her and her friend see each other almost every weekend. [ GC_rox_my_sox's advice column | Ask GC_rox_my_sox A Question ]
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