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My rude Friend
Ok, I have this friend who isn't really nice. Whenever I invite her over she makes my room messy like she is Godzilla or something. Well whenever she invites me to come over she may invite one other person and then I am invisible the rest of the time that other friend of hers is over and she yells at me for nothing blames me on stuff to my parents even though she did whatever and everything is all about her. She is so selfish. What should I do?
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That is not a friend. That is a selfish user. Does your friend have problems at home with her family? That could be one reason why she acts the way she does. Tell your friend that you do not appreciate the way she treats you or your belongings. If that doesn't work just tell her that she is going to treat you with the same respect that you treat her or that your friendship isn't worth saving. SOmetimes it is rough, but friends do not treat each other that way. before you decide to stop talking to her try to find out if she has family problems and then try to talk to her about it. Talking is the key to an everlasting friendship. Trust me, I know!!! I am here if you need to talk. Let me know what happens.
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Tell her straight up you have the all out right to do so she shouldnt treat you like she does or maybe you could go for a lil payback and do it yourself and if she asks why you are acting like this say its because she treats you like that-trix ((please rate))
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if i was you, i would ditch her...she is obviously using you ofr her own sick humor! dont put yourself in that position.
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Talk to her. I know you must hear that a lot, but really that is the first thing you should do because it is the most respectful thing you could do for your friend, even though she doesn't really deserve it. Tell her how you feel and that you feel left out. Explain that it takes you a good hour (or however long it takes you) to clean your room and you would appriciate it if she didn't mess it up because you don't want to have to clean it again. If this doesn't work, take a good look at the importance of your friendship. Is a messy room and being egnored worth loosing your friendship, or did you just think you were good friends? Look at the good things you have in common and then the bad. Go from there and good luck! Let me know how things work out!
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ok here's the blunt advice:
ditch her
if shes really what u sed she was then you really dont need a friend like that, so wat are u waiting for? get rid of her!
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It's quite simple. Stop hanging out with her. She obviously isn't very friendly. Why continue the torchure?
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I think your friend isn't really your friend. But, you can try talking to her about how she is, if it results in an argument, ditch her, she isn't worth it. Maybe one day she will come to her sences and then things will work out.
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I know exactly how you feel! Next time she comes over, tell her a list of rules. If you can't do that or she still doesn't follow them, then try not to invite her over to your house anymore. Hope it helps.
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