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Hey, my names christine, and if you need any help or need a question awnserd feel free to ask me! you can e-mail me to! ... well theres not much to know about me exept im in the 8th grade, im mature for my age, somewhat tall... i love animals, im usually really funny, i suck school, and im wierd, so i pritty much fill all catigories, AND YES I SUCK AT SPELLING! so feel free to ask me anything!

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Please help me!
Ive been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and all she does is copy me! Im gettin so annoyed because everytime she copies something i do i always have to change just incase people will think im copying her or that we are trying to be twins or something! I really hate her now shes doin my head in, i want to smack her. I know you will probably say 'you should feel flattered' but i DONT! She takes everything away from me!!!
Ive told her i dont like it when she copies me but she still carrys on. PLEASE HELP ME!!!! thanx by the way im 13 and im female

Well I think you should tell her to stop, and if she doesint youll never talk to her again, or somthing along the lines of that..
i hope this helps a bit ^_^

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This might be long so sorry! Ok, I have a boyfrend lets call him Mark. Mark and me have been going out for about 7 or 8 months. Recently, all of my friends have been calling him gay and bisexual and they are telling me to break up with him because he is "Mr. Flirtacious". I love Mark sooo much and my friends just dont understand, and they kept bothering me about him so i told them that i broke up with him but i really didnt. Then i told one of my friends that i really didnt break up with him and she is REALLY mad at me!!! We arent really "friends" anymore and i dont know what to do. I know lying is wrong...but should i chose my friends or the guy? thanx for any help i rate high!!!

Hmmm, this ones a tough one... and it all really depends on you. =] you just have to think about it, who do you apreciate and love more, your friends or your boyfriends... and actually, you shouldent have to choose... i mean, if there your friends, then they should understand. you love that guy, but you love your friends too, if you explain that to them, they should get it. haha, sorry if that was confusing =], hope this helps you hun!

-cjAdvice

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well there's this stupid gurl who wants to fight me. she wants to fight me because i looked at her in a dirty way. that's a bunch of bullshit because i always say i to her whenever i see her and she's the one who's always giving me dirty looks! i'm not scared to fight her it's just that i don't want to get in trouble. so what should i do? should i try talking to her? please tell me what should i do?

well you could do 1 of 2 things, you could tell her to go screw herself, and beat her mean a## up (lol), or you could try talking it out with her.

and if you choose to fight (i would only use it as a last resort) only hit her if she hits you first...

hope this helps!

cjAdvice

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how do u get into the chat room
from, Julianne

Oh thats soooo cool! I didint know you became a advice giver! hey, if you want I can help you with your advice colum!

cjAdvice,.........lol

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I have always been a helpful person. Very easy going, but not happy. I always help my friends in any way I can. Luck? I have very little luck. That is if your a believer. About 3 months ago I went out with this guy. We broke up a month later and now were still friends. But I really like him. I sorta thought he liked me. But I think he likes my friend Amber. And everytime I think about it I cry. Everyone else has a Bf. Even the snobbs. I'm not Mrs. Preppy. I don't do happy. I just wonder whats so wrong with me.

nothing is wrong with you at all! trust me i dont do happy either, but i had boyfriends. BUT its just a matter of finding someone, so either wait for someone to find you or you can ask someone you like, even that guy! who knows second time might be the charm!

hope this helps!

cjAdvice aka christine

and if you ever want to talk, you can e-mail me at christine1012005@hotmail.com hope to talk some time! :)

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I had a dream about my best friend (he's a guy, i'm a girl) last night. It was really weird becuz he was naked and we were kissing. In my dream I was thinking "i didn't know he liked me like this, cool" but I don't know if I really feel that way. I don't really know if I'm attracted to him like that or not but since I dreamed like that...is that suggesting that I am? I'm not going to just let this dream change our friendship but i wonder what it means, if anything. Becuz in my dream I really liked it so wouldn't that come from somewhere? Soory so long. pleaze reply.

well it could mean somthing, but i wouldent be able to tell you that, you have to tell yourself that! :)
hope this helps!

cjAdvice

and IF i may say so i think you probably do like him as more than a friend! :D

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Well I have 2 best friends and we all use to goto middle school together until we got to high school cause all 3 of us goto different high schools. Well they made these plans leaving me out and I barly see them am I in the wrong to be mad cause I don't see them and on top of that they leave me out.should i be mad or am i wrong? I think one of them is mad because I told her that her ex and I have been talking alot lately and i think I like him. But i would never let a boy in between my frienships so am i wrong to be mad.
thanks for anyone who answers!

Hecksters yes you should! dude you are free to think whatever you want too! ESPECALLY if they are leaving you out! Why not find a new group of friends, that dont leave you out?

hope this helps!

cjAdvice

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I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?

prettykitty77723

Tell your friends to get over themselves! sheesh, are they really your friends if they treat someone you realy realy like that way? tell them that hes perfect to you and if they cant ecept that then its there problem!!

sorry if this sounded mean, i dident mean it to! hope this helps! -cjAdvice

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I need help. well actually my guy friend does. He likes this girls that lives in P.A. but she wont go out with him because of the distance. Hes been really sad lately(or at least i see sadness) and I never see him smile and he never hits me like he used to when we would play around. What can I do to make him happy again? I really miss him being happy. So if anyone can help me... please help. I miss him a lot... :-(



well, you could try to find him a better g/f.... or do somthing together that you guy's used to do that he really enjoyed! hope this helps you!!!

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is it wrong to think that u'r friends brother is good looking??????????????????????????

NO WAY DUDE!!!! You are free to think what ever you want! (espesually if its true!! lol)

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ok im a gurl and im 17..well my best friend is starting to get on my nerves because like she tries to control and run everything we do and it gets old..like she always has to take over everything...and its no fun when this happens cuz it makes me mad..and i have told her about it before but she keeps doing it its like she has to do everything herself or it isnt right and i hate it i jus dont kno what to do? its really kinda hard to explain but if anyone can help me and kno what im talking about please help! thanx! i give 5's for good answers!

Tell her the deal. You will not be friend's with her unless she stop's being a bossy person... I kno this sound's harsh but some times people need to here it. i hope this helps you out! and tell me the out come!

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my friends' mother isn't the nicest person in the world, she's verbally abusive and just slapped her across the face..now my friend is considering running away and i think she's overreacting..but i really don't know. is she overreacting? what should i say to convince her to stay? ..or what?

I had the same prob. with my mom, and know how she feels but just tell her if she does your house is open (if your parents are cool with it, allso try telling your parents what her mom has done) you can also tell her that she should reconcider because if her mom find out then she will be in a lot of troble.... hope this helps ya out

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My Best Friend Likes Me... i dont know what to do i mean hes a cutie and i love his personality and everything i guess im just afrid to like him because hes like my best friend and i mean i guess we flirt like he will tickle me and carry my books some times. Im Just scared if i say no im afrid he will be upset and if i say yes and we break up our friendship will be ruined. Please Give Me Some Advice

Tell him yes and if you two were ever to breake upi you would have to promicr to still be friends, it worked for me, so i hope it works for you too! :)

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I have a friend who is verbally and physically abusive. She called me and my other friend a**holes for stupid reasons, and she just us both (hard!). She's been doing little things like that forever, like calling me an idiot or stupid, and maybe hitting me a few times. I could deal with that, but now she's gone way too far. I know that's not how a friend is supposed to act. She doesn't seem to know that her behavior is mean and immature.

I'm avoiding her, but I know I can't do that forever. What should I do?

get your friend and confront her, tell her that if the abusive mean stuff doesint stop in the next few days thenyour not going to be her friend! plus you shouldent be treated that way!

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OK, One of my friends that I go out clubbing with is starting to annoy me. He is brilliant in every way, but everytime we go into the city, we take a taxi there and back and he always finds sneaky ways of getting out of paying for them.

For example, he'll say he'll just buy me a drink (and never does) or say he'll pay for it later, or just doesnt get out money to pay. Its starting to annoy me and it angers me.

We're going out again on Saturday but I need a way to make him realise that he has to pay and I'm not willing to, without seeming too petty.

Please give me advice!!

Well you could alway's say (first look throug whatever you are carrying mony in frantically and say with a worried expression) "I must have given my last *amount of $ * to my mom Im really sorry but I cant pay this one..."

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ok. my friend is making me so mad. she lost her cheereleading uniform and since the last place she was at was at my house, she keeps saying she left it here. so i looked and looked all over the place and it WASNT here and i never saw it ever. so like every couple days she blows up and starts these BIG fights all about her uniform. its so annoying because i seriously DONT have her uniform. what do i do?!

Tell her that if she doesint belive you then she can look for her self. Ive been in the same thing before and this usualy help's.

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I have a friend that just came here to vacation for three months from England. I've only known him for two years, and now I feel that he's taking advantage of me, my mom and my family. I truly hate how he schedules us to go places, not regarding our time or what we have to do. And now he's brought a friend, without the superintendent's permission, but leaves the burden on us in bringing the BOTH of them around Hawaii and things. Their like staying really far from where we live, and still they ask us to drive them back to our house for meals! We are not a hotel! Okay, I'm overreacting. But the main thing is, how can I conduct myself around him without blowing up, but showing that he should be reminded of his limits? Sorry for the length, but thank you very much...

Well to do it in a casual way, just call a "family meating" and sit evry one down and lay out the rule's and consicuences, if any of the rules are broken. he should get the clue. I realy hope this help's

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Whenever i like someone, I get really shy and i cant talk to him in person. Is the any advice that will help me not be shy and accually talk to him in person. i have no problem talking to him on the computer by the way. :-\

Well, as me being a super shy person to, just go with a friend, it always makes it esier. and when you feel comfortable enouph to talk to him alone tell your friend to stay near by, (just in case) ;) hope I helped!

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i have this friend and we get in fights all the time and i love her to death but it seems like were no supposed to be friends but i really want to be friends with her...whast should i do

-to hate or not to hate-

13/f

Sit down and talk to her tell her how you feel. and if she doesint listen then you diserve a better friend!

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What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"?

Well best friend's are people you can fully trust. people who you can tell anything. (hope this helps) =)

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