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MY FRIEND COPIES EVERYTHING I DO!!!
Please help me!
Ive been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and all she does is copy me! Im gettin so annoyed because everytime she copies something i do i always have to change just incase people will think im copying her or that we are trying to be twins or something! I really hate her now shes doin my head in, i want to smack her. I know you will probably say 'you should feel flattered' but i DONT! She takes everything away from me!!!
Ive told her i dont like it when she copies me but she still carrys on. PLEASE HELP ME!!!! thanx by the way im 13 and im female
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Amazing! I am in the exact same boat as you are! Dont ever tell your friend to stop cause then it would just be weird between you two forever after that. I would suggest just going about yor life and try not to tell her what your up to.
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Hi! I am in almost the same excat situation as you! I get called a sheep, like I'm following my friend because she is very loud and outgoing. Everyone thinks she is smarter/more creative now! I'm still searching for my own answer but I though it might be good for u to hear that u are not alone!
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She obviously admires your style so instead of getting mad at her why not suggest you both come up with a suitable style for her. Tell her that you like being you and would rather she was different so that you could compliment each other. It sounds as though she lacks the confidence to make her own choices so helping her would be a good start. Get some fashion magazines and cut out things that you reckon would suit her. She could then begin to see alternatives for herself. I hope this had helped you some. Good luck.
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Tell her exactly how you feel. If you don't tell her to stop, she never will. Explain to her how you are both different people and that you want to be an individual and that she should too. That she needs to develop her own style instead of taking yours. Mayybe you should try and find out exactly why she is doing this, and if it's just simply because she likes your taste, go shopping with her and help her pick out clothes that do not make you twins.
If talking to her directly doesnt work, you can try and talk to your parents about it and see what they have to say or just stop being her friend.
Good luck :)
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flat out tell her
"What the hell are you doing??! Leave me alone! You are a freaking retard...get away from me"
welll maybe you shouldnt be sooo harsh.....unless you think she is really that annoying
either that or just wear stuff that looks totally redicualous and wear you're hair in a really horrible looking way
then she if she copies you
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Well I think you should tell her to stop, and if she doesint youll never talk to her again, or somthing along the lines of that..
i hope this helps a bit ^_^
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