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Most people think I am slow and I dont know much less, understand why. How do you know if their telling the truth or big fat liars (just to make you feel bad)? (link)
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some times i tell my cousin or friends that but i just be kiddin' around if you think they not playin' and they tellin the truth then you dont have to worry if you dont catch things on so quickly because not everybody does if theyre making you feel bad then tell them if they are your friends if theyre people you dont know then fuck them you dont need any negative people trying to lower your self esteem hope i helped a little
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Heyy. I have tons of friends at school, I know practically everyone, and that is a ton of kids, 4 grades. (Highschool) In school people always talk to me, ask me to hangout and such, etc. But then we get to Winter Break, and I am bored out of my mind. All Thanksgiving break I called ppl to hang out, and my mom would have to drive because I had invited them. (Only a Sophmore) Anyway, I'm tired of inviting people. I want to be pursued, hah. If so many ppl ask me to hangout in school, why don't they take the time to call me? Why do I have to call everyone first? It annoys me so much, I just gaaah can't stand it. Maybe help me figure out a way to make this stop happening to me. Thanks. (link)
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well maybe they dont have time to call you but its good that everybody wants to hang out with you so you know that you're not alone you can always call somebody when you have a fight with your parents or siblings or something... maybe they dont do it on purpose the way to make it stop like if you dont feel like hanging out just tell them you dont always have to call them if they wanna hangout with you they need to tell you or call you hope i helped a little
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My friend Cindy, is kinda always the center of attention. well she don't get that much attention but... Ok! She sometimes asks me to come somewher with her and so i ask my mom and she said yes, so i go with her, she said we were going to her uncle's house who is a famous foot ball player. We were ther right so, an insy bit of her family is there, and some other people were there, so this 1 time music was playing and everyone wanted her to dance, and she all shy and said she din't want to. then all of a sudden she goes up ther and sart doing the chicken head dance.But my piont is, I don't want to go anywhere with her if she just going to end up every body pays attention here. Cindy also acts the same, thinking she the center of attention. But if she tells or writes me a note asking me if i want to go any where else with her,and some of her family, and her family's friends are there then what should I say? Right now I am almost close to not being her friend because I hate the way she act, Cause she also think she pretty and act like she....OOOOOOOOhhhhhh!!!! Ok I'm just saying she's REALLY starting to PISS me off right now. (link)
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it sounds to me like you're a little jealous of your friend. but that's normal, everybody is jealous of somebody else. but anyway, you should probably get her to hang out with your family and dance with her. she shouldn't be the only one having fun, you should have fun too. that way you both are happy. if you're not a party person, then maybe you should find out what cindy likes to do that you like to do. then maybe you two can stay friends and you won't be annoyed with her.
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This lad at my school has been spreading rumours that my dad beats me we used to be best friend but i never told him that the only thing is that he did see my dad hit me once and its because i was being rude to him. but now everyone looks at me like im some freak ive talked to him and he just says im speaking the truth what should i do? (link)
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if you wanna get even, spread something about him that's a lie. if you wanna make it right, then tell him and other people to mind their own business and set the story straight. but if you really dont care what other people say, then just ignore them.
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ok well, theres this girl that like hates me and i didnt do anything to her! can anyone think of a reason why she hates me so much? shes really annoying, like shes pissed off at me because my best friend((whos a guy)) like loves me and he calls her a bitch all the time. Also another reason why i think she hates me is because me and her best friend have become really close, and shes mad. what can i do so i dont KILL her?
and also, i feel really bad because the best friend i was talking about earlier, he is sooooo good to me, he always sticks up for me and no matter how mad i think im making him he never gets mad at me, and when i told him i liked him a little while ago he still wanted to be around me. how can i get over it? (link)
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well first off you need to take a deep breath or do something that relaxes you so you won't harm the girl. and second, you need to see how your guy friend feels about you before you make any moves. see if he shows that he likes you back. if he doesn't, then you're probably better off as best friends. and the girl you're having problems with, see what's her deal and why she hates you so much. if she doesn't respond or gets an attitude, dont fight her. get even. that way you won't be breaking any rules (not like that's important, people break rules all the time, especially me) or doing something you'll regret. hope i helped at least a little.
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a girl at my school has been going through a very tough time lately. her dad left 3 weeks ago and she just found out that she might be pragnant. this would be much easier if she WASN'T 13!!! but she is and we are best friends. im the only one that knows about the pregnant thing. what do i tell her i rate high for a real answer
thanx (link)
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That does put you in a difficult position because you're a guy and you need to be there for her. And you need to show her all the support you can. Best friends don't tell secrets, so you should keep it to yourself until she's ready to come clean with her family. You must really be a good friend for asking advice on your friend that you care about so much.
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I'm 16 and I have this friend I have known for like 5 years. She's like a sister to me and I love her to death. The bad thing is that I feel like I can't trust her. I went to my ring dance and I didn't want to go with my ex-b/f who still likes me and I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I didn't tell him. Well I told her and my other best friend not to tell him or mention anything about the ring dance to him. Well they didn't and everything was ok and all then he came up to me at karate class (we take karate together that's how we met.) and told me that my friend had told him I went to ring dance with someone else. I couldn't believe she told him then she was talking about me to this other guy that I didn't like but he liked me. I stopped talking to him cause he was bad news and all. I don't know what to do with her. Please help me.
~confused chica~ (link)
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Don't fight her talk to her. She might have a reason she told or maybe not. If she's a real friend she'll have a good excuse. But do you even know if she's really the one that told him. He could be making that up. But you should definitely check it out. Because after you lose a friend, it's hard to get them back.
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my best friend well that is what she says that she is my best friend but she keeps hangin out with tiffany my other friend and she just leaves me out when she grabs tiffany away from me or like if a am standing by tiffany she get right in the middle of us. And she is not good sercet keeper wut should i do should i till be her friend even though she leaves me out of stuff and the only reason i and her friend still is because the school is a cathoic school and there are only like 13 kids in a class. what should i do (link)
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you should ask her why she's coming in between you and tiffany. and tell her what you're feeling about the whole situation. and ask her if she ever feels left out when you're with tiffany. i bet she does otherwise she wouldn't pull the two of you away so much. why can't all three of you be together? just ask her
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my friend is one of those people who is geneticly(frakishly)super skinney. no matter how much she eats or how lazy she gets she stays the same size. she is a great friend but sometimes she can be very inconsiderate of other people's feelings about their weight.she dosnt know how it feels to be fat or to feel fat. and she makes fun of people who look fat or chubby to her. this really makes me mad but being the quiet person i am i never say anything.im afraid if i confront her she will get upset with me because she dosnt understand.how do you think i should talk to her about it? (link)
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you should ask her how she feels about it. and if she gives you a smart remark, then come up with some super skinny jokes. i know it's mean, but it shows her that you can really hurt people's feelings. if you're not comfortable with the joke thing, then talk to her about it. if she doesn't listen, then she's not a good friend anyway. if you want to crack jokes, they have a lot of them on www.jokes.com. it works.
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I need to know what to do in this situation,i went on a date and i told one of my guy friends about it and then he told another guy that the guy i went out with fingered me and then that guy asked the guy i went out with and he said no and told him it wasn't true...but the worst part is that he lied and said that i was the one who said that he did it to me when it never happened...the guy who started the whole rumor is suppose to be one of my best friends what should i do or say to him.... please help...thanks (link)
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ask him why he's sellin you out like that. when you didnt do anything. and if he gets an attitude, theres no way hes still a friend
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(14/f) Hey. I'm having lots of problems with one of my friends at school. Ever since she had joined the school play about a month ago, things have been going downhill. Her and I, including 3 others, were such a close group of friends. We sat together at lunch every day and talked about everything. Get where I'm coming from? I was totally happy with school and it was the only place I could go to get away from it all.
I thought I would do the right thing and not say anything about the new part of her life and let it just blow over and everything would go back to normal. The play's been over for awhile, but even still she's been paying more attention to everyone that was in that little play of hers than to any of us, and I feel its primarily us two that are drifting apart the most. Every conversation seems to wander to how the play was "so fun" and how she misses it. Me and the others just feel like we're horrible friends and we aren't good enough.
She's a member of NJHS (a group that meets after school and during lunch sometimes) and today she had a meeting. She came back in about half way through the lunch hour, put her backpack down where we were sitting, and just walked off and talked to her acting pals. I was really hurt and I felt like I was gonna cry.
I've tried confronting her about it and she just thinks we're being protective. I'm sick of them planning things right in front of our faces and I just want my old Taylor back!! Please please please, give me some help. I'm gonna die without her!
-Nicole (link)
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you gotta tell taylor how you feel. shes not gonna automatically assume whats going on in your head. if she is as good of a friend that you think she is, then she'll talk to you about it.
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(15/f) Okay so my bestfriend and I are on the tennis team and we're doubles partners, and we do really well in doubles. Earlier last week she told coach that she had a dermatologist appt. *wich she did* so she wasn't able to go the the tournament. So when she told me i already was like what?! You can cancell a dermatologist appt and re-scheudle it. And you just don't not go to a tournament for an appt, it's just not done! But now her appt. is cancelled but she says that she already bought tickets for a concert and isn't going to tell Coach that she in fact is able to go the the tournament. Basically, when coach finds out she was there the entire day she can and most likely will be suspened for the rest of the season from all tournaments. So that leaves me w.o a doubles partner. Basically, should I tell her this is a bad idea? And how!? Adn should I tell coach?! Ah sorry for the lengthy-ness!!! Thanks! Any help is greatly appreciated! (link)
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dont tell the coach, give your friend some time to figure out what to do. and tell her how you feel about it and dont forget to mention that you would be without a partner. talking is best.
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Ok well theres this girl(will call her lucy) and shes liked me for about a year. I want to go out with her but i guess i get shy and i never asked her out. Well now im going out with this girl (will call her choppy) and i like her becaues she reminds me of another girl i went out with and i cant really explain why i like her its just something you have to look into my eyes to understand. Any ways i dont know what to do because i like both of them and the other girl "lucy" has liked me for a very long time and we have a pretty goood relationship. So, what do you think i should do? (link)
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i think that you should talk to your friend lucy and get to know her better. and maybe you should talk to your girlfriend too. see what qualities you like in the both of them. and which ever one you like the most, call them up and tell them your real feelings. im not telling you to leave your girlfriend, but you should find out if there's anything else you need to know about her before you make your final decision. and if you do decide to go with lucy, try to remain friends with your girlfriend.
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whenever my friend talks to a guy i get really jelous.. its really wierd. and its only with her and nobody else. i don't get it. do i like have a crush on her or something or am i just a little protective?? help.
-confuzzled (link)
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your just being a friend. theres nothing wrong with showing a little jealousy, it shows you care. you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel.
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ok, whenever my best friend hangs out with someone else, i tend to get really angry at her, i mean i love her to death, but, i dunno, i just get mad. I know that your can have more than one friend and all, but since like a few years back, its only been me and her hanging out, very rarely has it been with other people. I love her to death and i dont want things like this to change us!! How do i make this stop? please help!! (link)
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its probably not jealously. its concern. it happens to a lot of guys--even girls. its normal. i guess you're so use to hanging out with her by yourself that it just gets to you when she's hanging out with somebody other than you, and especially if it's another guy. so just talk to her and tell her you're feeling left out. because if you tell her that you just dont like her hanging out with other guys, she might not want to hang around you again.
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my friend steels stuff from stores, and it really bothers me. I'm afraid that if im with her when she does it ill get in trouble for it too. She trusspasses onto peoples property too. I dont think that she is a good friend for me, we get along really well and always have fun when we're together but i dont want to be her friend when she does that stuff. What should i do? (link)
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you should talk to your friend and ask her why she's stealing and trespassing through other people's property. if shes straight foward with you, then you should tell her how she can fix it. but if she does it just to be doing it, then you should tell her how you feel about it. if shes calm about the way you're trying to handle the situation, then she's a keeper. and if she snaps right away before you can put in your two cents, then shes a bad friend and you need to be searching for a new friend. hope i helped.
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how can i like.. "come out of the closet" to 4 of my best friends.. i tell them EVERYTHING and i just hate hiding from them. they know i'm in a relationship, they just don't know its with another chick. please help. (link)
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the first thing about friendship is honesty. and if you're not honest, then you would lose friends. so just be honest with them.
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I am a thirteen year old female and I have a close male friend who is also thirteen. We are very good friends but we don't have any type of sexual relationship at all. Today we were having a discussion about soul mates and I decided that I think that he might be my soul mate, as in a friend not a lover. My question is, do you think it is possible to find your soul mate at thirteen? We are really good friends, I tell him everything and we are always together. (link)
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It's possible, but you should still keep on looking to see who else is out there.
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I have a friend and his really special for me, his a guy. And I want to help him , cause I care for him. He smoke weed. I keep telling him to stop but he wont. what should I tell him to stop. Please help me. (link)
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Yeah, you gotta let him know that you care by telling him to stop and if he doesn't listen to you, find somebody he will listen to.
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ok... i have this friend and this year we've been getting into soo many fights... we just had one like 2 days ago but we got ova it... then when i went to her house with a bunch of other people last night... she was acting all mad so i wasn't talking to her a lot and then she just left us alone in her house and went in her room and like her whole house was pitch black and we didn't know where the light switch was... then today she was like i am mad at you because you barely talked to me yesterday and i was like thats because you looked all mad... and i mean not a lot of people were talking to her in the first place and i am the only one who is getting the blame... and me and my friend have this inside joke that we are lovers (its a joke not for real) and she is like thats gross and i was like i don't care what you think me and anna think its funny... and i don't know if i should still be friends with her because this is like the 50th fight we've been in and yea... help pleaz... sry this is long... i'll rate 5's for everyone who answers thanks (link)
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Yeah if she can't accept you and your friend then she needs to walk. And since you have inside jokes, maybe you want to fill her in or maybe include her some stuff. You know what I'm saying? But if you still argue, then maybe it's best if you two don't be friends.
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