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(15/f) Okay so my bestfriend and I are on the tennis team and we're doubles partners, and we do really well in doubles. Earlier last week she told coach that she had a dermatologist appt. *wich she did* so she wasn't able to go the the tournament. So when she told me i already was like what?! You can cancell a dermatologist appt and re-scheudle it. And you just don't not go to a tournament for an appt, it's just not done! But now her appt. is cancelled but she says that she already bought tickets for a concert and isn't going to tell Coach that she in fact is able to go the the tournament. Basically, when coach finds out she was there the entire day she can and most likely will be suspened for the rest of the season from all tournaments. So that leaves me w.o a doubles partner. Basically, should I tell her this is a bad idea? And how!? Adn should I tell coach?! Ah sorry for the lengthy-ness!!! Thanks! Any help is greatly appreciated!
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yes and yes tell her she's being a flake and give ddetails over how this puts you in a bad position ]
dont tell the coach, give your friend some time to figure out what to do. and tell her how you feel about it and dont forget to mention that you would be without a partner. talking is best. ]
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