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I'm Marcia. Somehow, even though I'm only 15, I've changed enough over the past year for my entire lifetime. I've been through a lot, and I've seen a lot. I've dyed my hair horrible colors, I've gained & lost best friends. I've had idiot boyfriends and amazing boyfriends. I've fallen for friends, I've had my heart broken, and I've done the stupidest things. Almost anything you can think of, I've been through it. I never seem to do the right thing on the first try myself, but I learn from that- that's probably why I'm good at giving advice. I want to be a psychitrist when I'm older, and I think this is as close as I can get for now (: LINKS:
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Well lately, I've kinda been feeling left out by my friends. Like I've been hanging out with them, but I keep getting the vibe that they don't want me there. Like I was talking to one of my friends on the phone this morning, & we tried calling our other friend to see what he was doing, but he didnt answer. So me & the friend i was talking to, decided to get ready & go for a walk. But then our other friend called so we 3-wayed him in. And it ended in, he went to her house & i had to stay home & wait until they called me to hang out. Well that took about 4 hours. And, like the guy friend, hasnt hugged me goodbye in over a week. But he'll hug my other friend. And please don't say that they like each other because i already know exaclty whats goin on in that situation, and they dont like each other. So any ideas to whats going on??
Honestly, the best thing to do would be just to talk to your friends about it. Because you'll never know how they feel until you ask, and nothing can ever be fixed unless it's out in the open.
Hope that helps :]
i have this christain boy friend, whom i dream alot about" do u think that there is a love connection between us? "or is it just our friendship? that why i dream of him alot. or maybe am inlove with him? or his inlove with me.? what do u think?
Personally, I think if you dream about him & everything, then you probably do have feelings for him. But only you can figure out your true feelings. Also, if he has a glow about him when he's with you, it's definately a potential sign that he likes you. I take a chance and ask him to hang out. Good luck! :]
I have two really great friends. Rachel and Megan. Rachel is like EXACTLY like me(we like the same stuff,same everything) and have the same "moral standings". But Megan is exact oppisite of me. She has pretty much no morals at all.
Well one day in Volley ball we had to choose partners and i automaticaly go for Rachel. And in Science, and History and Math i do the same thing. Idk why but i really don't ever pick Megan, and i feel horrible about it. I just don't like the way she goes about things. She is a bad student(gets C's and D's and sometimes F's) and Rachel and I are straight A's.
I don't know how to envolve Megan and idk if she is even like a friend to me.
How can i envolve her. And in your opion am i being a bad friend? I don't want to be that way anymore. HELP
I know how you feel. I think if Megan's important to you, you could include her the same way you include Rachel. Maybe you helping her & including her will help her become a better person & student. I'm sure Rachel wouldn't mind if you picked Megan to be your partner every once in a while, and Rachel could also help you include Megan, so then nobody would feel left out.
Hope that helps :]
i need advice on my best firend...
I was going out with this lad i liked but i best firend went out with him..!! and she was givin me a few tips on him.. but now were over and she thinks its all because of her and it anit and other people have started getting invode now and i think i'm gone loss my best firend..!!
What do i do..!?
I think you should let your best friend know that YOU know it's not her fault, and the opinions of the other people, or the boy don't matter. Also, let her know that she's more important to you than any boy, and that you would absolutely hate to lose her. I'm sure your best friend will come along, you just have to give her time.
Hope that helped :]
hi. i've read a lot of your answers to questions and they were all really good, which why i'm asking you specifcelly.
well me and this girl have been friends for about 6 years, and we always called each other BFFs and everything. but lately it just seems like we don't talk as much, and when we do it's just really boring. i think it's because we've gotten into a ton of fights this year, and its all like building up. a couple days ago she told one of our other friends thats a boy that i liked him, and it makes me really mad. i almost just wanna give up. what should i do??
Well, I can relate to your situation. I don't think you should totally give up on your friendship yet, especially since you two have been friends for so long. I would talk to your friend, and tell her how you feel about getting into all those fights, and her telling your secrets. You two could agree to just start over new, and forget about the past. If that doesn't work, then maybe it's just time for you two to split up. Yes, it sucks. But sometimes the hardest thing and best thing for you to do are the same.
Let me know how things go :]
My friend lies and gossips about me all the time and steals guys and everything so i got fed up and told her we weren't friends anymore. I also got the vibe she was a lesbian because she always like would touch my leg and id be like "what the hell are you doing?" and all this other stuff. & she was like "alex i miss you please please forgive me!" and she even told her MOM i hate her for no reason which isnt true because i hate her because she'sa lying two faced mean girl who also purposely is ditzy. I've never said anything bad about her my life but then she goes telling lies. Also she said im a goody-goody which im not trust me, and she shouldn't talk because she is, she's like afraid of everything and now she's acting like such a slut. she talks about getting high and she poses like a slut even on myspace pictures and talks like she wants to have sex with you & she even said shes not a virgin but SHE IS. and it so bugs me, and shes like "alex please come back to me!" and im like "NO!" i don't know what to do! should i befriend her but not talk to her? or ignore her? im not the gossiping type but she's like everywhere and she flirts with my boyfriend non-stop HELP! if your gonna say this is stupid or diss me or something like other girls did, then don't bother answering, i need advice, ill send feedbackk too. ANYTHING will help. thanksss :]]]]
So this girl sounds like she has some serious problems. If you really don't want to have anything to with her at all, then the best way to do that would probably just be to ignore her. She'd probably get tired of chasing something that isn't going to happen, and just give up.
By the way, I think it's a good idea that you're not wanting to chill with her anymore. She sounds like she has some serious problems, and you probably don't need that.
Good luck :]
my so called good friend called up my other friend and was just talking crap about me. but thats not what really bothers me because she says stuff about EVERYONE she ever meets and im used to it. but then she also told my friend she read my journal/diary whatever u want to call it and thats just like a big violation of personal space. and she called my friend up when i was on vacation and then today she called me and acted like she did nothing since she doesnt know that i know what she did. so shes being two faced. what should i do??
Well I think you definately have to talk to this girl, because she sounds like she has a big problem. Two-faced people are the hardest to deal with, because you never know what they're going to do. I've had to deal with something similar to this, and it wasn't fun. But talking to the girl is the best thing you can do. You should let her know that if she doesn't quit soon, everyone will realize how she is, and she'll end up by herself. I'm not saying you should stop being friends with this girl, maybe just look at things differently & talk to her.
Also, you should NEVER have to get used to someone talking about you behind your back. Nobody deserves that.
Good luck :]
how can you make a guy your friends with benefits with,
see you as more than that,
getting him to like you?
tthanksatonn!
Hello :]
Obviously, if you're friend with benefits with this guy, he has to see as SOMETHING more than a friend. I would start paying more attention to him, and showing him that I care, so maybe he would start to come around. You have to give boys time :]
I been hanging out with this girl for many months now. We had are up and downs and where okay. Well, she was told by her best-friend, who told her i was no good and all the bad shit and she stop talking to me for about a month and half(ended in june). Then, we went out starting back this month, after which all the feelings we had for each other came up when we didn't. I got emotionally after we hanged out and told her I had feelings stronger for her than friends, but before i can say anything, she tells me the same thing first! So, i am cool but now she likes doesn't talk on the phone much after that. But she hungs me and gigles and gets goofy when I am around and she tells my mom stuff and i be listening on the other phone, like she likes me and her heart is fine where it is with us and all that. Can someone give me some good help! I desparate, please can we chat on yahoo messenger or something. I need some answers.
thanks
First of all, this girl sounds like she really likes you, and I don't think you have anything to worry about :] Every relationship that's important has ups & downs. I had the same problem after I started dating one of my good friends. Basically, I just talked to him about how I felt, how it was weird and everything, and things got better. He started calling me more & asking me to hangout, instead of things being awkward.
Hope that helped & Good luck :]