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two faced
my so called good friend called up my other friend and was just talking crap about me. but thats not what really bothers me because she says stuff about EVERYONE she ever meets and im used to it. but then she also told my friend she read my journal/diary whatever u want to call it and thats just like a big violation of personal space. and she called my friend up when i was on vacation and then today she called me and acted like she did nothing since she doesnt know that i know what she did. so shes being two faced. what should i do??
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gettin back at her wont help. so my advice to you is ignore her. dont answer her phone calls. dont waste your time with her. she trying to be cool wit you so she can find more things to talk bad about you. just ignore and she will get the picture and leave you alone. hope this helps.
♥ Stephanie
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=( Aww Im soo sorry. Well, first you might want to sit down with her and talk it out. Maybe its an understanding or maybe it isn't. She could be jealous of you or just honestly a mean person with insecurites. (Thats why a lot of people do it, they're insecure and need power). If she doesnt want to-thats a bad sign. Second of all you shouldn't consider her a friend or at least a good/close friends. Friends dont do that to other friends. You shouldnt put up with it. Just have a "whatever" attitude and people who know you will probably know the truth about you and for people who dont, maybe one day in the future they will see that she was wrong. You might want to start distancing yourself from her. Girls are very catty. Good luck! =)
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Ok, your first reaction would obviously be anger towards the girl who was doing that stuff, but after thinking about it I was wondering, does the good friend )who told you about what the other friend was doing) like the friend (the friend who read diary/ talked about u to her)? Is it possible that the one friend might have made up stuff about what the other friend did because she's jealous? I'm not trying to judge either of them, but since you weren't there to hear it yourself, maybe you should sit down with both of them and have a calm discussion allowing each of them to tell their side of the story so you can get the record straight. Try not to take sides to keep it fair and based on what they say, you'll be able to figure out which (maybe both) is a true friend.
Good luck, girls can be viscious.
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Well I think you definately have to talk to this girl, because she sounds like she has a big problem. Two-faced people are the hardest to deal with, because you never know what they're going to do. I've had to deal with something similar to this, and it wasn't fun. But talking to the girl is the best thing you can do. You should let her know that if she doesn't quit soon, everyone will realize how she is, and she'll end up by herself. I'm not saying you should stop being friends with this girl, maybe just look at things differently & talk to her.
Also, you should NEVER have to get used to someone talking about you behind your back. Nobody deserves that.
Good luck :]
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