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Firend i don't know what to do with...??
i need advice on my best firend...
I was going out with this lad i liked but i best firend went out with him..!! and she was givin me a few tips on him.. but now were over and she thinks its all because of her and it anit and other people have started getting invode now and i think i'm gone loss my best firend..!!
What do i do..!?
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I think what you meant to say was this:
"I don't know what to do with my friend.
I need advice about my best friend...
I was going out with this lad that I liked, but my best friend went out with him before me, so she was giving me tips. But now we're over, and my friend thinks its all because of her. It isn't, and other people started to get involved. I think I am going to lose my best friend.
What do I do?!"
See, writing correctly goes a long way!
Why do you think you are going to lose your best friend? Because she thinks that you guys broke up because of her, and others are getting involved and choosing sides. Did I understand that correctly? If I did, here's my advice.
Explain to her the reason the two of you broke up. Be honest. Then ask her why she thinks your break up was her fault. Comfort her. Tell her that you lover her, and still want to be best friends, and no guy is going to stand in the way of that. Hang out with her more than usual, especially in front of those people that are getting involved, so that they see there's nothing getting involved with.
~Maria, 16
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Obviously you want to talk to her somewhere private. Tell her that it really wasnt her fault. She is not the one who made yall break up and their isnt any way. She might have given you tips about him but that doesnt mean that you HAD to take him. Everything you did was your decision and she should know that. She was just trying to help I guess and its your decision what you do. Just let her know that its all YOU. Also tell her it doesnt matter what others think as long as you and her know the truth thats all that matters.
Mkay hope that helps.
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Talk 2 her. Tell her its not her fault. but its all up to YOU thats the most important thing in life if u lost ur bff cause of a boy dont sweat it! just call her or sit her down face 2 face and talk 2 her!
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I think you should let your best friend know that YOU know it's not her fault, and the opinions of the other people, or the boy don't matter. Also, let her know that she's more important to you than any boy, and that you would absolutely hate to lose her. I'm sure your best friend will come along, you just have to give her time.
Hope that helped :]
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