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my ex-best friend! [helpp]
My friend lies and gossips about me all the time and steals guys and everything so i got fed up and told her we weren't friends anymore. I also got the vibe she was a lesbian because she always like would touch my leg and id be like "what the hell are you doing?" and all this other stuff. & she was like "alex i miss you please please forgive me!" and she even told her MOM i hate her for no reason which isnt true because i hate her because she'sa lying two faced mean girl who also purposely is ditzy. I've never said anything bad about her my life but then she goes telling lies. Also she said im a goody-goody which im not trust me, and she shouldn't talk because she is, she's like afraid of everything and now she's acting like such a slut. she talks about getting high and she poses like a slut even on myspace pictures and talks like she wants to have sex with you & she even said shes not a virgin but SHE IS. and it so bugs me, and shes like "alex please come back to me!" and im like "NO!" i don't know what to do! should i befriend her but not talk to her? or ignore her? im not the gossiping type but she's like everywhere and she flirts with my boyfriend non-stop HELP! if your gonna say this is stupid or diss me or something like other girls did, then don't bother answering, i need advice, ill send feedbackk too. ANYTHING will help. thanksss :]]]]
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I went through this exaccct situation! And I have been for a while. And you know that? I am happy to know that you are the mature one in this matter. You also don't sink down to her level. It's believable to know she wants attention..And denies everything that is true..Because I am sure you're right most of the time about the things she does and why she does them! But if you guys were best friends once you should atleast talk to her about it before you end it. She might explain herself and you will want to understand it. I wish you luck and I hope this helps..Somewhat :]
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So this girl sounds like she has some serious problems. If you really don't want to have anything to with her at all, then the best way to do that would probably just be to ignore her. She'd probably get tired of chasing something that isn't going to happen, and just give up.
By the way, I think it's a good idea that you're not wanting to chill with her anymore. She sounds like she has some serious problems, and you probably don't need that.
Good luck :]
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Just ignore her.
Another solution is to try to talk it out with her. If she is really that phony then don't bother with her.
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