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Hi, I'm natalie and I'm 15 years young. I'm an extremely happy and positive person (most of the time). But lately, I've been feeling really sad and I've talked to friends about it - but they all say the same thing. It would be nice to hear someone else's opinion. So here's the deal: I have a friend named Michelle and she's really cool. She's wild and crazy and great to have good laughs with. But Michelle is different now. She doesn't talk to me the way she use to, she gives me the meanest looks ever as well. I kind of know why too. See, i have a boyfriend, Joey, and I've been dating him for almost 3 months now =D. Michelle has a little thing for him. I know she does, just by the way she looks at him. Well, she was flirting A lOT with him. It hurt me.. so I told her to stop. she said this: "oh, okay". She didn't stop, so I talked to her again about it. She said: "omg nat! i hate it when friends think that. i'll stop. i mean, it will be hard but i'll try" She doesn't flirt as often anymore but the angry glances she's been giving me are startin' to get to me. Everyone tells me this: "if she was a real friend, she would respect your feelings. She wouldn't get mad at you for this. You and joey look really happy together and you shouldn't let michelle get in the way of that. we're here for you anytime you need us. just -- relax, let her be like this." I know they are right, and only your real friends will stay with you til the end, but i just wish i could have something to say (to myself) or something to think that would make this feeling go away. Oh and another thing about Michelle is, well, she is obsessed with every guy possible. She flirts with everyone (which is why i didnt get too upset with her because she does it to every guy). And I know she is really interesting in Joey. But definitely not looking for a long-term relationship. She isn't that kinda person (she told me herse;f). So, out of all this: any suggestions on what i could do, to make me relax. I just want these uncomfortable feelings to go away. So any advice, suggestions, comments will help! thanks in advice! =)

*`Nat.`*

Hey Natalie!

It's great to know that you still have true friends by your side showing their care for you and your situation between Michelle and you.

Honestly, I believe your friends are right. Don't let someone like Michelle get into your way of having a great relationship. Even after flirting with him so much and telling you she would stop but doesn't really say what she means.

The best I could say for you to do is to talk to your boyfriend, Joey, about this. Tell him you don't like how Michelle is always flirting with him and such, maybe he can tell her to 'back off' and that he's completely happy with the relationship he is with you.

To me, Michelle sounds like an untrustworthy friend. She should be happy for you and Joey, not trying to make matters worse. But honestly, if she was a true friend you thought she 'was' she shouldn't be doing this to begin with.

Maybe try ignoring her, show her the real deal.
Even though she is your friend that's wild and crazy, she also needs to know when she needs to be serious and stop.

Hope I helped you, Natalie.

Much love,
MADLYxINxLOVE
A.K.A. - Alex

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ok. well my friend & her boyfriend have been dating for a year. he broe up with her a while ago..
well, yesterday, her boyfriend told me that he likes me. dont like him back& i told him that. well myfriend found out that he likes me& now she thinks i was the reason they broke up&she's mad at me. i've told her multiple times that i dont like him& that im ot going to date him. but she stil is mad& wont even talk to me anymore.
this girl is my best friend & i need serious help with this problem.

Apparently your so called 'best friend', isn't a good friend after all. You two are best friends and she chooses to believe someone who just broke up with her over someone who she turns to to hang out and tell secrets too?

Maybe she's just a little stressed out, depressed, or just angry of the fact that she's just gotten out of a relationship that lasted a year.

My best advice would be to stay away from him. Don't even talk to him or look at him. Maybe he'll get the picture that what he's doing after their break up is wrong and that you don't like him in that way. And because of him, your friend doesn't even want to talk to you.

Give your friend about a week or so, so she can clear things up.

Before you know it, she'll probably turn to you to talk to and wants to keep her ex-boyfriend out of her mind.

But if she ignores you or doesn't want to talk to you, thens she wasn't a best friend after all.

Good luck!

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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ok, so theres this guy who i went out with, but i broke up with him, cuz i never really liked him. so he calls me bad stuff behind my back, but according to his friends, he still reallly likes me.

whats his deal?

I think his deal is that he's mad at the fact that you two dated then you broke up with him.

Maybe he's just saying that kind of stuff out of anger? or just as in an 'whatever' type of attitude.

But then again, you can never know unless you confront him about it. Maybe all that things his friends are saying aren't even true.

Find out the truth and talk about it. Be friends like you two were before you two dated. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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my best friend's grandmother is dying...what do i do...i dont want to see her sad :(

Well... you can't exactly do anything to help her. Everyone has to die someday.

But the best thing you CAN do is cheer her up, hang out at your house, make plans. Then maybe the two of you can hang out with her grandmother (that is if she's not in the hospital) and have a great time.

Most importantly, be there for her. She's lucky to have a friend who cares.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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I txt msg to the guy I like (he knows I like him, and i'm not sure if he likes me) to go out last friday night. No respond, no call, nada. After 5 days, he sent me a txt msg said he was sick that night and didn't feel going out.

I guess it's good to know, but after all this time, he all the sudden thinks he SHOULD tell me he couldn't make it?!

WHY did he wait this long to explain to me he couldn't make it on friday???

He most likely has forgotten since he's been sick for the past 5 days you sent him the text message.

At least he called back, right? Make plans with him some other time when he's feeling better.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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