If I were you, I would tell her how I felt about formal, and that I really wanted to go. Arrange a lunch date or something on her birthday, or around it, and have a get together for just the two of you. About gifts, I have no idea. I usually give gifts from my heart, like a framed poem on pretty paper. Hope I helped and I hope your friend isn't disappointed.

It is the guy's job to make a move. Don't seem too available, but also try to flirt just a little bit. Maybe provoke him a little bit. Like, "accidentally" touch his hand just a tiny bit. Go with the flow. Good luck.

I doubt it's what you want to hear, but you need new friends. No one deserves to be stabbed in the back by their "friends". It just isn't fair to you. I urge you to think about it before you make a decision, but if they don't care that they are hurting your feelings, they aren't much of friends.

play "truth" where you basically just ask each other really intense personal questions. facials are always nice. makeovers. fix each others hair. manicures and pedicures. go rolling [toilet papering].just do whatever you feel like doing.

*Staying up late
Sleeping in
Hanging out
Partyin'

*Late night chats
Talking about boys
Laughing hard
Making noise

*Boyfriends
Heartbreaks
Hard times
Stomach aches

*There for you
Till the end
I love you
My best friends

she needs you more than ever right now. it's the true test of friendship. if you really care about her, you'll stick by her even when everyone else is making fun of her. true, they may talk bad about you. but think about what could happen in you turn your back on her. i'm not saying anything would be your fault, but you could save her life. or the baby's life.

lyke omg lame, lets dance baby, suga im fine. gah im so lame.

i have the same problem. don't try to make them get along because they will just hate each other more. hang out with each of them seperately. if one starts talking about the other, simply tell them to stop. if they're really your friends they won't get upset and leave you. it worked for me. and my relationship with each of them is better than ever.

no it wasn't the wrong reason to forgive her. it is definitely the right thing to do. Christians do things to please God. if your friend is going to be against God in that way, you have to make a decision. 1.stop hanging out with her or 2.witness to her. it's easier for someone to pull you down, than for you to pull them up.
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i know exactly what she's going through, and exactly what you're going through. most likely she is doing it for attention, because when you're depressed, you just want someone to be there. be as good of a friend as you can be. sit down with her and tell her how much she is worrying you and how much you love her. even if she does annoy you, don't leave her side. what she needs more than anything is a great friend. but if it gets really bad, tell her parents or a teacher or something. she wil probably be mad at you for a while, but sooner or later she'll thank you for it.
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yes. it is. they do kill the baby.
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seriously most people aren't going to remember by tomorrow. don't make a big deal out of it. if someone does say something, just tell them what happened. unless you're in like 5th grade, most people shouldn't care.
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are yous serious? ok. abortion is the expulsion of an embryo or of a fetus. like when a woman is pregnant, they will go in and use one of several methods to remove the baby. one method is the vaccuum method, where they suck the baby out. it's sick and wrong. what is abortion? it's murder.
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if you asked home many times you crossed my mind i'd say once.. cuz you never left.

force a smile.. and blink away the tears.

the hardest things to say.. are the words that mean the most.

if you lost the key to my heart.. knock.. i'll let you in.

life is like a pen.. you can cross out mistakes.. but you can't erase them.

when i'm with you, it's like nothing else matters.

you'll never see the stars if you're always looking down.

the bad times last forever and the good times don't ever seem to last.

if you love her.. tell her she's amazing, pick her flowers from people's yards, throw rocks at her window at night, make her laugh, slow dance with her even when the music's fast, kiss her in the rain.. but most of all.. just tell her.

i will never stop loving you until my heart stops beating.


--some quotes by me--

anyone can pick up a knife... but it takes a strong person to put one down..

i don't get the whole dumb blonde thing... it doesn't matter what color you hair is cuz if you're stupid, you're stupid!

give me two things and i'll stop ticking you off... MiDoL and lots of cHoCoLaTe!

hugging you is like taking forever and holding it in my arms.

if i told you i love you, would you hold me in your arms forever?

funny how you can give up something that means so much to you, for something else. then you end up losing both, and regretting it all.

ok i went through that phase of wearing black and wanting to skateboard all the time. she probably just wants to be her own person. i know i hate fitting in. i think she`s trying so hard to be different and to be noticed, that she`s taking it too far and pushing you away. i think you should talk to her and just tell her you want her to be an individual but you don`t want to lose her. if she`s like me she should understand. and by the way.. there`s nothing wrong with wanting to skateboard all the time. :)
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let her know you`re there for her. when i used to cut myself, i felt like no one cared about me. when i realized how many people loved me and cared about me, i stopped. let her know that it doesn`t solve anything and just be there for her, listen to her, and talk to her.
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honestly i think you`re trying to push each other away so it won`t hurt as bad when you leave. but guess what.. it`s gonna hurt no matter what. you have to swallow your pride and apologize. just tell her how you`re feeling and let her know you love her and you`re gonna miss her so much.
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my testimony:
i was raised in church. i was taught to take a dollar to sunday school and sing when the choir sang. i was taught to bless my meals and respect my elders. when i was 4 year old i got "saved". being 4, how was i supposed to know what i was doing? i never fully understood what serving God, or being on fire for God, really meant. at the age of 13, i began slowly slipping away from my Christian background. i began cussing and i had thoughts of suicide and overdosed once. then on december 6, 2003 i met a guy on the internet named joseph. coincidence? i think not. he introduced me to the real meaning of being a Christian. months later, i began slipping away. it was like a cycle. i would slide back, then go running to God. eventually, i got to the point where i cussed, smoked, drank, slit my wrists, and overdosed 2 more times. i knew something was missing. i even knew what it was. but still, i couldnt seem to grasp the idea that i needed God. i became a horrible person. not caring about anyone, not caring about God, not caring about myself. then on December 31, 2004 i went to Hargis retreat with my youth group, along with 2 other churches. we had service just before midnight. something clicked in my mind, and in my heart. i desperately needed God. at midnight i got on my knees and prayed for forgiveness. i had demons inside of me. not the kind that scream and go crazy. i had demons that tried to make me depressed, that tried to make me lie and be the horrible person i was. at midnight, i felt them coming out of me. i felt myself be FREE for the first time in a long time. i will not slip away again. i will not be the person the devil wants me to be, the person i used to be. i will be a witness to those who do not know Christ. i will be a servant for my God. i will go where he wants me to go. i will be who he wants me to be. i am a full blown, on fire for God, Christian. i will not give into temptation. no turning back. no more smoking. no more drinking. no more drugs. no more depression. no more suicidal thoughts. i will be a proud witness and servant for Jesus Christ.
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if you`re really trying to be a friend i think you should let her bring her grades up. if you really want to hang out though.. become friends with someone else that her parents don`t know about (don`t use or abuse anyone) and she can say she`s going to hang out with that person. then you and your friends show up later.
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ask her kind of in a playful way. i totally know what you mean cuz that happened to me. it turned out to be nothing. if ya`ll are good friends it shouldn`t be hard cuz ya`ll can talk to each other about stuff. don`t approach her like in a bad mood and don`t be too sarcastic.
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I'm Katelyn. Not Katie Lynn.

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