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teen pregnancy
ok i have this friend...she's 17 years old and she was in this religion where you can only wear skirts and you cant cut your hair and all that kind of stuff and she got pregnant so now she's no longer in this "religion" but i found out last weekend she's pregnant by a guy that i use 2 be so inlove with...i want to still be friends with her because we grew up together and she's like my sister and she has had a rough life but then i dont want to get a bad name for being friends with her!! What should i do? And should i forgive her for messing with my ex boyfriend because we promised each other we would never date another ones ex or anything because thats wrong...what do i do...HELP
15 female
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Yea forgive her.. you shouldn`t care about what people think.. ♥ Dez
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Okay, if she's your FRIEND, then you shouldn't be worried about getting a "bad name" by being a friend. That's ridiculous, and immature. Right now, she's going to need her friends. Don't abandon her just because you're worried about YOURSELF. If you're that upset about her being with your ex, then talk to her about how you're feeling.
♥ Melissa
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You definately forgive her. She really needs a friend now, more then ever. Being pregnant at 17... that really sucks. Try imagining yourself in her shoes. I'm sure that she's incredibly sorry for sleeping with your ex, and that she's regretting it at this very moment. Even though you both promised to not date eachother's ex's, I don't think that it's something to get that mad over. She's already payed the price of her sins; you should be there for her as a friend.
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so, you think the teen pregnancy stigma rubs off like cooties or something? who cares? she needs help, none of that gossipy crap matters now, there's a whole load of other fires that need damage control now. she keeping the kid?
in summary: help the poor girl out and ignore the background info.
-gunner
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she needs you more than ever right now. it's the true test of friendship. if you really care about her, you'll stick by her even when everyone else is making fun of her. true, they may talk bad about you. but think about what could happen in you turn your back on her. i'm not saying anything would be your fault, but you could save her life. or the baby's life.
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You shouldn't be her friend again. You would get a bad name, my friend was in your position before & luckily she got out of it before it was too late. People always talked crap about her as well as her friend who was pregnant saying that they both were whores & probably go out and have sex with each other to earn money. It was pretty stupid seen as my friend was still a virgin.
But, she ALSO gets pregnant by your ex-love?? That's stupid!! She's a fool. You should definitely NOT be her friend again. =P You'll probably be better off without her!
♥ naimee
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