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okay so im going to start out with the fact that my friend ashley is so awesome. but there ARE some bad points of knoeing her. she tells me everything and then when people ask if i know something that they dont they get real mad because the answer is so totally yes. shes my best friend. and some of this information is dangerous. im scared ill tell secrets that are supposed to stay unknown.
HELP
my best friend tells me too much,
victoria♥
It's not a bad thing though if she tells you a lot of things, she really trusts you. Just tell the people it's none of their business & if they want to know something about her than they should ask her, they shouldn't get mad at you. Don't tell them something she doesn't want them to know about her because if she finds out, it could ruin your friendship & who would you rather have.. those people that get mad at you for no reason or your best friend?
my friend lets call her "S"
well she gets mad at me for likeing guys that she dosnt approve of and my last boyfriend dumped me because of what "S" said to him i felt like i was falling in loved with him but "s" messed up every thing
should i still be her friend even though she messed up whati had with him
She just might be trying to be a good friend & look out for you or she might be jealous. Than again, that was totally unfair about what she did to you & your ex boyfriend. Just tell her nicely that you need to talk to her & tell her something like "i know you want to be helpful but I can make my own decesions & I don't need your help when it comes to guys." If she doesn't stop, I'd stop being friends with her.
these 2 girls got in a fight..k and e. k is the one that they are mad at for no reason. e got one of her friends and then she got involved. at lunch , and friend that got involved pour a whole container of milk of k 's head and her friends' head. i was friends with all of them. now, the involved friend with e called and asked if i was mad and if i still wanted to be their friends. i said i was mad so now they are mad at me!!! wat do i do.
im friends with k... not e
If you're not friends with E, forget her & her friend. That was so mean to pour a whole container of milk on their heads & they don't even have a reason why they hate her. Even if they did have a reason, that's not right. If they're mad at you just because you said you were mad about something they did, that's just being immature. You could tell your councelor what happened or just let it go. I think you should still be friends with K, she didn't do anything wrong.
Is god real im confused
Some people believe God is real && some don't. It all depends on what you believe in or what your religion is because everyone has a different view on God.
Mike was one of my best guy friends. Our relationship together was going really good,and nothing was akward. I know that he used to have the hotts for me but i never felt the same way. Well as time went on i started to like the guy, and made the mistake of telling him. When he found out everything between us became akward. Now he has a girl friend and we havent talked in about two months!! Ok im going crazy! What the heck did i do wrong! or what can i do to make things normal between us again?
You didn't do anything wrong. I told one of my best guy friends that I liked at the time that I liked him & he was weird about it, too. After I got a boyfriend, he acted normal towards me again. I asked him why he acted that way & he said he didn't like me like that & he wanted to go out with this other girl & it wouldn't be fair to me. Your friend, Mike, is probably acting weird because he doesn't like you like that anymore & he probably thinks you still like him. Just tell him you don't like him like that anymore & you guys want to be friends again. Good luck!
y friend has a new bf and they have only been togther for three days and they have already kissed and well when she hangs around him she pretty much ignores us and well when she is older and she meets a guy then i dono she is 12/f and i am 13/f when she is older i hope she makes the rite decisions with a guy cause if she goes this fast when she is this old then well think about when she is older i just need some advice the guy is 13 and is a grade older than her and he is going to break up with her and she never got broken up with before i need advice on whether if ui should warn her or what
I would warn her about it. She'll probably be mad // shocked because she'll think you're trying to break them up, but she'll see. Tell her you're telling the truth & you were doing it to be a good friend, you didn't want her to get really hurt by her ex. Comfort her after the break up & tell her to take it slower with her next boyfriends. If she goes really fast like that with all her boyfriends, than she's gonna regret some things later on.
Well.... I found out 4 people hate me... 3 my friends and me... I'm starting to wonder if there is any more friends that hate me. I'm feeling really down... so you have any suggestions? I just really wanted to tell someone that. That already made me feel better.
Aww, don't hate yourself. If your three "friends" hate you than they aren't even real friends so don't worry about them. Everyone is hated by someone, so just forget about them. Listen to your favorite songs, watch tv, talk or hang out with your true friends, do anything that you like to do. It'll make you feel better. Hope I helped you & that you feel better soon. ♥ ♥
One day, lets just say "Bob", he wrote me a note saying 'hey, and somehow we got into a sexual conversation. He was asking me ?'s such as, who did you make out with and did you ever give head? Later that week, we started talking online alot. We started liking each other. While all this happening, he had a long term girlfriend, although they broke up about 9 or 10 times. They broke up about 2 weeks ago, and have stayed broken up. I talked to a few people and they said that he might be trying to get a fast fuck. They said this because it was a little weird that he just now started talking to me. Before this we never spoke. Do you think that he is being truthful or is he trying to use me? (hes called me several times and has asked me to hang out)
well any advice would be helpful. thanks
If he kept asking you those kind of questions while he had a girlfriend, then that's not good. He might have used her for that stuff. If you never talk to him & he asks you questions about sex & he wants to hang out with you out of no where, than he's more then likely trying to use you.
My friend Melissa is having a HUGE party at her house tonight..
but she didn't invite me.
We're friends..but not BEST friends..like on a scale of friendship..(10 as BFFs)..We're like a 5-6...you know?
Do you think I should ask her why she didn't invite me?
*One time, I confronted her about another party that she had..and she denied she ever had one.
I've never been over her house; vice versa..
Her parents like me though..I think..Why wouldn't she invite me? I thought we were friends :(...It's a HUGEEEE party..I'm sad.
It all depends. Maybe she doesn't think you guys are that good of friends or she might not like you that much because you confronted her about a different party & she denied she had one. Ask her why she didn't invite you. If she says she didn't have one, than I think you're better off not being friends with her because she lies too much.
how do you deal with crazy friends?
right now i am going out with a guy that one of my best friends dated, and i mean DATED. i started to like him like months before i told her, before i really told anyone because he is one of my close friends too. they dated for a year and a half and broke it off this past june. at the end of november he had a short relationship with another girl but that didn't work out. when i had a really good feeling that something was going to happen between us i told her and she told me that i was crazy for being afraid to tell her before, but she was really cranky and jealous over his last girlfriend, i it's think because she broke up with him and hasn't dated since. but now we date and it's only been for 2 weeks now and all i have gotten from her are dirty looks, whispers to friends and mean comments about him. what can i do to get her to stop acting the way that she said she wouldn't act in the first place?
sorry that it's kinda long.
She's obviously jealous that you're going out with him. If they went out for a year & a half, I don't think it was the best thing to go out with him in the first place because she would still like him after that long time. Even if you asked if it was okay, your friend will never be okay with it. I'd be heart broken if my close friend did that to me. If you care about your friend more than the guy then you need to dump him & tell her how sorry you are & try to fix your friendship,but if you pick the guy over your friend, than your friendship with her is gone.
okay me and my friends are trying to decide what to do on new years eve we dont want to be home. Theres going to be kids rangin from 14-16 in the group. We live in Fairfax,va if any of you live there you know how boring it is in fairfax this time of the year when theres nothing to do. We dont want to go to the movies or mall. Any suggestions? i rate high..preferably ppl who live in or near fairfax/manassas u get the point. Thanks!!
I don't live near Fairfax but maybe you could do this.. last New Year's Eve, a couple of my friends went to a park or someplace outdoors & watched the fireworks then had a party // sleepover afterwards. Sorry, that doesn't help much but that's the only thing I can think of.
16/F.
My 2 best friends have been going out since the summer (don't worry, it's a guy/girl....) I'm really happy for them & all, but sometimes it gets annoying, because whenever I do get to spend time with either one of them (since they're constantly with each other), we always end up discussing the person's bf / gf. They are always asking, "So what does he/she say about me??" & I always end up having to spill the juicy, mushy details of all the "oh she/he's so hot" & all that. I feel less like their friend & more like their spy now! It really makes me feel used. So, my question is... is it wrong for me to want them / encourage them to break up (I know that seems kind of selfish, but....) or what am I supposed to do about this? I rate 5's for non-crap answers. ;)
No, I don't think it's selfish of you. Some couples aggrivate me when they do that stuff & I want them to break up, too, but if it's one of my friends I'd talk to them. Talk to both of your friends seperately & tell them how you feel & that you don't like being in the middle of their relationship because you feel used. They're best friends with you so they should understand how you feel.
Hey everyone. Well for New Years me and my one friend want to get drunk. Well, not drunk with alcohol but like maybe a caffeine high...play it safe. What are some drinks that have a lot of caffeine in them or any other drinks that get you really hyper...almost as if you were truley drunk. haha Thanks for the advice!
Any soda with caffeine [ Mountain Dew has a lot of it ], coffee, Red Bull, Bawls, AMP, Sobe.. basically any energy drink besides Gatorade. That's all I can think of.