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Ok theres these 2 girls I used to hang out with and they replaced me with another girl sure we still hang out but not like we used to Any advice??????!!!!! I need help
~Dani~

Maybe try to talk to your friend and just tell her that she cant replace you and what not.
My fiend did the same thing to me... but i just started to hang out with my other friends but still treated her like a friend even though she dumped me... but h.i.h!
Nat*

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Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..

Signed
Scared 15-f

that sux... but try talking to her about your feelings and tell her that you don't want your friends ship to end because of some stupid guy... but serioucly, talk to her about it. and hopefully everything goes good for you two!
wish u luck!
Natally*

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ok one of my best friends has really strict parents. theyre making her go to military school cuz she got one D on her report card! shes leaving next year and i dont know if i can take it. shell be at school all week except for the weekends. i dont know what to do shes the only person that makes school a little more fun. im really sad. how can i get over this?

Well the best thing to do is to just keep in touch with her. Make sure you still talk on the phone and try to hang out with her even though she's going to a differnt skool.
h.i.h.
xonat

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ok here's my story..see there;s this girl Danielle, danielle and i are like best friends and we have beemn for the past 4 years now..but my mom (who is btw VERY over-protective and judgemental.lol) REEEEALLY doesnt like Danielle and hates it when i hang t with her.. and this is often.. everytime Danielle is over my house my mom treatsher like crap...like she wont axctually treat her like crao but she treats my other friends WAY nicer).... so my mom doesnt understand that my life is SO much harder bcuz of her.. she hates my BFF and always tells me who i can or cant hang out with..what should i do to make my mom realize that im mature enought to pick my own friends.. i love my mom and eben trie dtellign her that i WOULD waaay rather her jsut nvr talk to me again!!! lol she totaly doesnt understand me..what should i do?!!??! xo Ari

well first of all i walk talk to your mom about Danielle and why she IS your bff. try to make her understand and try having her see through your eyes. Tell her how you feel about her treating Danielle different when shes over. Just make your mom see, i mean it cant be that hard for her becuase she probably went through the same thing. Maybe even (while your talking to your mom) ask her what she was like when she was your age. Talk to her and try to have her open up to you and do the same to her. Just really try to make her under stand that Danielle isn't a bad person.
Natally

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okay this might sound a little stupid...but i ahve a best friend and i love her with allll my heart but lately she;s been getting like tons of BF's and crap and this might sound a little stupid buutt i was feeling kind of jelous because she kind of "stole" the guy taht i REALLY like... and she knows i like him but she flirts with him ne ways... i've tried speaking to her about it but she just got into a fight about it (and i HATE fighting over boys!)the one thing that REALLY bothers me is taht she goes through guys like they dont even matter to her, and i know this might sound stupid but i think she;s trying to get with the guy i liek to amke me jelous....what should i do?!?! i;ve already tried talking to her but no matter what she doesnt give a damn!!..lol please help =(
thnx . xoxo Ariella*

well thats not very nice... maybe shes going through a tough time or shes just trying to see how many boys she can get, but i mean thats just plain rude. if talking doesnt work then try hinting her with body language.
There's alot of things you could do to stop her but to many to mention lol.
hope i helped though!
Natally*

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What are some good party ideas for a girl who is turning 14 this summer, has friends that'd she like to invite aging from 12-16, and will have guys and gals at her party? I want to throw a really cool party for her, but I'm not sure where to begin. A Suprise Party is not an option, and we don't have a pool. I'd like something fun, original, and not boring. THanks for your ideas!

what about a night at a hotel? thats always fun! and they usually have pools :)
or just a simple party with games and activities, at my 14th bday prty i had a BBQ and a swim party. and a sleep over. we played music and watched movies and danced to music and swam in the pool. but thats all i got right now.
h.i.h.
good luck!

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My two friends and I are the best bff's in the WORLD! But one of my friends has two other friends and at school she acts like her two other friends are her bff's and never talks to us at school. But when it's just us 3 she's normal and says were her bff's! How so we get my other friend back to the group in public and private?

Maybe you should talk to her about it. Or... confrunt her about how she always ignores you at skool. want more info IM me at xdxrxuxmxmxexrx
Nat*xo

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okay well today at breck fast at school..i was talking to this kid Pat..and i was talking to him...and my good friend that im in t fight with and i love...was trying to talk to me and i sceam to him DOMINIC DON'T EVER TALK TO ME AGAIN!!! it sliped out and i don't no what to do..now he wont talk to me!

PLEASE HELP!! I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH!! I RATE HIGH!!!

aww... well try talking to him about it. Explain how it just slipped out and beg him for forgivness.
natxo

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hey everyone--- sorry this is soo long...

well there's these two girls brit and breanna that keep bothering me.. and well i told my friend kim that breanna does drugs.. and well breanna told me.. so i thought it was true... and it wasn't so now brit and breanna keep saying all these mean things to me.. what should i do about it?

just ignore it and pretent like you dont care... their probably just jelouce of you.
h.i.h.
xoxo

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i asked my friend if he was goin to the school dance and he he said because he had no one to go with i really like him should i ask him to go with me ? or maybe wait to see if he asks me to the dance ? and what should i wear ?

if you like him ask him. but if ur shy to go alone with him maybe ask if he and som of his buddies would like to go with you and yours.
good luck and h.i.h.
natally+

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Well as yall know valentines day is coming up.. I have no clue as to what to get my boyfriend. Hes really into his truck, but all that stuff is really expensive. Please give me some ideas!
Emily

get him a truck magazien or give him a truck model or one of those he can build. anything truck related really. you could also make him something that has a pic of both of u with sweet hearts around it describing things about ur relation ship.
Good Luck!

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Hi my friends old friends live far away from my new house and i dont go to the same school anymore. I'm 13 and i wanna know how we can stay friends for 3 more years (so we can drive to each others houses). I know it will be hard but what can i do??? Please help me!!!

Well you can write to eachother by letter, email, and IM, or also by phone... and maybe everyonce and a while you all could meet each other on the weekends. Thats besically the only way that would keep you in touch.

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Well, i have this friend and she thinks i am annoying and said it behind my back to one of her guy friends. I asked her to sit with me that day and she came over. We talked about normal stuff and i didn't find me annoying at all. I was really sad becuase my friend and i are really close and she is ALWAYS taling behind my back. Does a real friend do that...talk behind your back. And what should i do cuz i don't think i am annoying?? SHould i hang out with other ppl that don't think i am annoying?

Real friends DONT talk behind your back (unless it's something good about you) But yes i'd talk to her about how she thinks that you're annyoing, and maybe it would be good to hang out with ppl that don't consider you as annoying! but just try to talk to her about it.

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im really shy when im around people i dont know very well, how can i get out of that phase?

haha im the exact same way! but what i did was just push my self to not be shy cuz i hate it! but it still happens now and then. I always think to my self that i'll never get anywhere if i act shy. So maybe that will work for you too.
Good Luck!

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Me & my friends played a prank on this girl in my school that was picking on me, and she turned us in. Yesterday, I wasn't in school and the guidance conselor called all my friends down to the office, turns out EVERYONE was sayen I did it, even my best friends. I did do most of it, but not all of it. & I admitted to it. Are they real friends?

I'd say not. True friends stick up for you no matter what! and aparently they didn't... im sry.

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Hey ok well theres this dance comeing up and i really want to ask a friend of mine if he wants to go to it with me but, i cant dance, and i mean i dunno if he is a good dancer but even if he isnt i dotn want to make a fool out of myself. Also, i dunno, maybe it would be awkward if i asked him toit and he said no...cuz we are really good friends, i just want to go with him lol as friends.

Just randomly ask him if he wants to go to the dance. If he says yes then you could ask him if he knows how to dance, if he does ask him if he could teach you.
If he sayd no, just go with some of your other friends.
Hope you have fun!

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ya my friend all of a sudden ignores me and barely talks to me anymore..and she ditched me and ditches me in the halls..and forgets bout me..and we use to be bffs till xmas break..and then she talked behind my back..what should i do..

Well try to talk to her... thats about all i can say, but shes probably trying to become popular (unless she is already) or maybe she doesnt wanna hang with you ne more...
I had a friend do that to me last year and i just got over it... theres better friends out there, but i do hope that you guys get back as bff! Good Luck and hope everything works out with her.
Natily-

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i'm a freshman in high school. so is my friend, kendra. she's dating a senior at our school. they have been dating since the day after christmas.. i talk to kendra almost day, and all she talks about is her boyfriend. my friends and i can't take her talking about him all the time - like them having sex, and all this other worthless crap. we want to talk to her, but we don't know what to say.. ya mind helpin?

You can either just tell her to cool down on the bf chat or bring up something like going to the mall or getting a manicure... maybe things that you all used to talk about before she got her bf...
H.I.H.
Natally-

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ok well i have one main friend in my school----my best friend------and i'm starting to feel lonely. And it's not the type of lonely where i feel invisible. No, it's much worse, a lot of people know me, they just don't want to be my friend and they're really mean to me. My best friend thinks they're haters. Like today, this one girl said to me when I was at my locker "o0o0o those jeans are cute....but they don't look right on YOU." She said that to my face.half the school year is over, but i still have to get through 2 more grades after this year and i cant stand it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Plz help me plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ok my answer i have is way to long so feel free to IM me later and i can help you out!

but some times only having 1 or 2 friends is good because they could be your true friends and stick with you forever as for the other girls their probably jelouce of you so they try to make u feel bad... but please talk to me later so i can help you more...lol

nat~
AIM - xdxrxuxmxmxexrx

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There is this girl Amanda at my school. She is one of my really good friends. But sometimes I think otherwise. When girls usually go to school they try and get all "dolled up" for the guy they want to impress. I get all "dolled up" so Amanda wont tell me that I don't look good or that my hair looks bad. Is she a real friend or not? What should I do?
Thank you;
Jessica

well if she treats u like a good friend yea... but... if she doesnt take u for who you are (including : not getting dolled up and just acting like urself) then i would say that she isn't a good friend.
Hope every thing works out with you and amanda!
natly-

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