Question Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 11:24 pm
okay this might sound a little stupid...but i ahve a best friend and i love her with allll my heart but lately she;s been getting like tons of BF's and crap and this might sound a little stupid buutt i was feeling kind of jelous because she kind of "stole" the guy taht i REALLY like... and she knows i like him but she flirts with him ne ways... i've tried speaking to her about it but she just got into a fight about it (and i HATE fighting over boys!)the one thing that REALLY bothers me is taht she goes through guys like they dont even matter to her, and i know this might sound stupid but i think she;s trying to get with the guy i liek to amke me jelous....what should i do?!?! i;ve already tried talking to her but no matter what she doesnt give a damn!!..lol please help =(
thnx . xoxo Ariella*
Erica answered Friday February 18 2005, 5:50 pm: First of all, you sound like you really like that guy! :-) well, this is what i would do, first you gotta show that boy that you like him! next you gotta flirt with him! Finally, tell your friend that you are already going out wtih him ", your not really", tell her, &qout, get together with him!!!!!!! hope you take my advice!!!!!
EpAsh2010 answered Friday February 18 2005, 3:56 pm: Either Flirt With Him Just As Much As She Does...or Start Hanging out with Him and be friends! Ask Him If He likes Her..then You'll know if he'd ever be with her...
DrummeR4LifE answered Friday February 18 2005, 2:18 am: well thats not very nice... maybe shes going through a tough time or shes just trying to see how many boys she can get, but i mean thats just plain rude. if talking doesnt work then try hinting her with body language.
There's alot of things you could do to stop her but to many to mention lol.
hope i helped though!
Natally* [ DrummeR4LifE's advice column | Ask DrummeR4LifE A Question ]
XoxBroKeNxoX answered Friday February 18 2005, 12:11 am: hmmmm, thats really mean, tell her that!!!! try telling her "how you feel", what kind of things oes she say? maybe you should say "i dont like it when you flirt with the people i like because...." and i dont know what else, sorry :( why do you call her your "friend" if she does that to you? a good friend wouldnt do that!! orr you can try giving her a taste of her own medicine, by flirting with the guys she likes, or if you're not the kind of person then you shouldnt, it would probably make the situation worse :(, or tell other friends about that maybe theyl turn out to be better friends than hr, or just talk crap about her!!!! nothats bad, sorry about that. im not that bright, so..good luck!*-Me [ XoxBroKeNxoX's advice column | Ask XoxBroKeNxoX A Question ]
Sherry answered Thursday February 17 2005, 11:40 pm: Just tell her you dont like him anymore (lie!) and that your trying to find new guys to like. If she stops flirting with the guy you like then she just did it to make you jealous. But for now, say you dont like him and see what happens from there... [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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