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SO CONFUSED!!!!!
ok here's my story..see there;s this girl Danielle, danielle and i are like best friends and we have beemn for the past 4 years now..but my mom (who is btw VERY over-protective and judgemental.lol) REEEEALLY doesnt like Danielle and hates it when i hang t with her.. and this is often.. everytime Danielle is over my house my mom treatsher like crap...like she wont axctually treat her like crao but she treats my other friends WAY nicer).... so my mom doesnt understand that my life is SO much harder bcuz of her.. she hates my BFF and always tells me who i can or cant hang out with..what should i do to make my mom realize that im mature enought to pick my own friends.. i love my mom and eben trie dtellign her that i WOULD waaay rather her jsut nvr talk to me again!!! lol she totaly doesnt understand me..what should i do?!!??! xo Ari
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Try asking her why she doesn't like Danielle. If it takes her awhile to reply, just tell her that she is your best friend and nothing is going to change that so she really needs to get over it. Try to say it nicely, but in a way so she understands that you are serious. Besta Luck
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The way I see it, if a parent has a problem with their child hanging out with another certain child, obviously something is going on that you might not have mentioned in your story, but if theres no doubt in your mind why she doesn't like her, you've got to ask her and don't let her get away with "just because" tell her you want specifics, and if you can't have them, then you won't even think over why you shouldn't be her friend, but I am sure shes got a pretty well explained reason. If you need help going from there, just drop an email in my inbox, I'll be glad to help you.
-TheTeenGirl
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well first of all i walk talk to your mom about Danielle and why she IS your bff. try to make her understand and try having her see through your eyes. Tell her how you feel about her treating Danielle different when shes over. Just make your mom see, i mean it cant be that hard for her becuase she probably went through the same thing. Maybe even (while your talking to your mom) ask her what she was like when she was your age. Talk to her and try to have her open up to you and do the same to her. Just really try to make her under stand that Danielle isn't a bad person.
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