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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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advice

But one of my really good guy friends birthday is coming up on the 31st. I was just wondering what I could get him. Any Ideas? I'm totally clueless. Ill rate!!

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You could get him a CD he wants or a hat if he's into that, clothes, belt buckle, guy stuff! you know...well hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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your boyfriend goes away for 2 1/2 months and cheats on you with 3 other people ... what would you do if you where 5 hours away from each other that long and you found out?

I'd dump his sorry ass! you should be able to trust your boyfriend when he goes away places but i guess you oviously can't so i would just end it because if he did it once but with 3 ppl he's bound to do it again! hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin♥

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what do you do if a person gets mad at you while a friend is there? But acts all buddy buddy when hes alone?

I dont really understand wat you are asking but maybe i will answer it i dont kno um.... i mean if when others are around the person acts all nice then when they are gone that person is mean to you then you should talk to them and find out why they act like that. I mean i dont kno if i answered your question or not if not then just ask it again but try and be more specific so i can get a clue about wat your talkin about okie dokie*

-Caitlin*

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im a really shy person, any advice on how to get out there a little more?

Just try and be more open with people and jsut be yourself! hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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Theres this girl whos my age and stuff. I'm 14/f. And my best friends grandmother just died today so she wasn't in school, and this girl actually told people she was glad her gram died. and I FLIPPED. One of her friends was like, you shouldn't flip out, it's not like it's your grandmother. & I'm like dude wtf I know, but she's my best friend, its not like I'm just going to let her say that. I'm doing the right thing, right? I'm not going to tell my best friend what happened because I don't want to get her upset. But, yeah. Thanks

You are doing the right thing you should be like why the fuck you saying mean shyt like that how would you like it if i said something like that about you or one of your friends. Then if she gives you any shit i would recommend whoopin her stupid ass. Hope i helped if you need any thing just ask*

-Caitlin

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Ok, well, as of now I want to have a girl boy party for my 13th birthday. I want it to be something fun and out of the house. Not that corny spin the bottle and 7 minutes in heaven crapp. I live up north so it's gonna be cold. I'm really not interested in a swimming, ice-skating, or dancing party. Please help me! I need an idea asap! Thanks for your advice! : )

Well maybe you could get your parents to rent a hall for you or have it at like a bowling alley or somethign corney like that I mean I'm sure where ever you have it you will have a good time. Sorry I couldn't help you more butif you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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yes, i know this is wierd subject but belive me by the time i explain this, if your a girl at least, you can see why i'm pissed. My best friend just so happens to be one of the girls with, well, big breasts. Well i'm starting to "catch up" to her, and every tiem i tell her my size she laughs and says with sarcasm and disbelief in her voice, "thats not your size, that's almost MY size!" And for some reason alot of times we'll get in a conversation, and she'll bring up her boobs! it's so annoying how do i show her that what she's saying is really bitchy w/o her freaking out because belive me this girl is a huge drama queen

well i would juss be like i can see that your boobs are big but u dont always hafta talk bout them to make me feel like crap cuz mine arnt that big!!! trust me i kno how u feel my best friend use to have like nuthin then all of a sudden BAM she has sumthin a very big sumtin and she iz alwayz sayin stuff bout them and callin me flatty n shyt so juss tell her to lay off and stuff hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*

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My friend, lets call her Sarah, is completely obsessed with her ex boyfriend. Ive been trying to tell her forever to try and get over him! Hes been such a jerk to her, and he broke up with her to immpress one of his friends. How low is that? How can i get it through her head that she can do better, and stop wasting her time dwelling on the past?

Juss be like your to good for him and he duznt deserve a girl like u there are plenty of otha fish in the see so juss try not to thing of him cuz he iz a real jerk and he iznt worth your time and u shouldnt cry ova sum stupid guy like him!! well hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*


Caitlin*

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hi! ok well i just started highschool . and my best friend goes to dif. school then me . and were allowed to talk to much cuz her mom dont like me and its a long story . well she sneaks phonecalls to me . and ovr the summer we would talk bout dif. things and she was totally dif. ( good dif.) b4 she started this new school. and she called me 3 days ago and she was acting REALLY preppy , and her voice sounded fake . and she kept bragging bout her new friends and her boyfriend she has ( boyfriend , its only been 1 week since school started) . and like she'll talk to me for bout 5min. and she'll ok i hav to go , and she just hangs up and duznt evn say bye and she duznt evn giv me a chance to talk . and its pissing me off a lot!!! i dono wtf happned to her , shes totallly different and wen she called one time i missed the call cuz i left my phone in my car and i got it and i saw the # and called it bak and her NEW friend answers so i ask if jenna was there and her NEW friend sez " jenna! its ur lil friend" i was like WTF!! and its pissing me off and i dono what to do . do i sound jealous?? i dont wana sound like a bitch but she's turned INSTANT POPULAR PREP!!! help plz!!!!!!! :(

well i dont think u sound jealos i personaly thin that she iz the one bein a bitch to u and like avoiding u n shyt thaz not kool juss cuz she iz at a new skoola ndhas new friends duznt give her a reason to juss forget about you and treat u like crap so juss confront her and be like wat iz up wid u, u have changed a lot since u gut all these new friends and your at a new skool and stuff i thought we were suppose to friends and see wat she has to say bout it!! hope i helped if u need n e thing drop 1 in my inbox k!!



Caitlin*

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OK Caitlyn...I really like this guy..lets call him Miguel. MIguel and I have been friends since kindergarden.....Jus the ohter night he asked me if i new anyone that would go out wit him or tht liked him...so I told him that I liked him because I do....He told me that he thinks its kool that I like him. I asked him if we were jus friends still and he said to me that we could be more than jus friends. Like we could do stuff 2gether. But not go out yet cuz he wants to hang wit me more before we go out. So i said that it was ok wit me and i invited him to the movies since it was his birthday. And when we where at the movies he didnt sit next to me and he was talkin about all these hott girls that we there. And I dont know what he is thinkin now..Plz Caitlyn can u help me....IDK wut to do.

Juss be like y were u tlakin bout all them otha girls at the movies when u sed u wanted to stay friends for a lil longer then prolly go out if u wanna go out wid me u shouldnt be talkin bout otha girls cuz that gives me the idea that u dont wanna go out wid me so wats the deal!! well good luck and if u gut n e more questions drop 1 in the inbox

.*.>> Caitlin

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My birthday is coming up in november and i really want to have a party..does anyone have any ideas of what kinds of parties i could have? I would want a lot of my friends to be able to come!

you could have a sleep over i mean it mightt sound lil girlish but its a good idea then u play games and do u kno girlie stuff!!
Hope i helped


.*.>> Caitlin

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ok...i live in st.louis and my b-day is this november...well i want to have a hole bunch of friends over but i have no clu what to do at my party! like i dont want to get in truble for beaing to loud or anything.....but wuld be some good stuff to do and i cant do a pool party cuz i dunt have a pool :/ i need good ideas! plz help

You can play games and liek watch movies u could have a sleep over i mean it might sound like lil girlish but its a lotta fun!~!!
Hope i helped


.*.>> Caitlin

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ive been really really close with my friend emily from 4th grade....i've also been friends wit another gurl chelsey since 1st....emily hated chelsey...then one day this year i invited both of then ova hopin they'd become friends...they did...now they hang out moa than i've hung out wit both of them....i cant tell emily a secret wit out her tellin chelsey and vise versa...sadly i think im jelous(:-(....i dont want to lose them!..what do i do!

wat u do iz try n be like ok u cant be tellin emily wat i say when u tell chelsey a secret same wid when u tell chelsey a secret i mean u cant stop them from bein friends or nuttin u kno but juss get the 3 of use togetha n talk to them n be like ever since use became friends i feel like im the 1 bein left out now and we dont chill as often as we used to u kno juss be straight up wid them and get it off your chest!!!
Hope my advice helps~!


.*.>> Caitlin

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i really need help please help me. ok here's the story..ok me and my friend were just getting tyte we were doing a lot of stuff together and we told eachother everything and then she goes to our other friends house that she didn't like too much and then she comes home and then all the sudden they're best friends so the other friend kinda took my place. and i'm soo sad i think i lost my BEST friend! i don't know what to do cause i can't talk to her bout it i've never been good at that i freak out and i just can't do it. and i cried when i found out that she took my place! please help i dunno what to do!!??

She didnt take your place they are juss hangin out more u kno and u kno u can have more then juss 1 best friend so try n talk to her n make plans for use to hang out more n stuff like dat!!
Hope i helped!!!!



.*.>> Caitlin

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Ok Caitlyn I really need your help. There this friend of mine and me and him have been really good friends ever since we were little little kids. But jus the other day we where talkin and he ask me if he had ever broken up wit his girlfriend if i would give him head. And i really dont know what to do. Cuz we have been friends for a really long time. I said maybe So I wouldnt hurt his feeling but I really dont know what to do cause i dont wanna do it and then after a while not be friends any more..and it get around that I did do it and then be called a slut or anything like that so can you help me plz. Thx

Juss be like im sry i only see you as a good friend and we have known each otha n been friends for such a long time that it would be extremely weird and maybe kinda even gross u kno if u kno him so long u might see him as family or like a brother and it would be so wrong and it might make u feel uncomfortable and stuff so juss be straight up wid him!!
Hope my advice helps!



.*.>> Caitlin

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Okay...i have this friend who is bein a bitch lately im so scared that if i tell her she is being like dat she will get mad @ me n we wont b friends...do u kno a way i can tell her n not hurt her feelings!?!?!

Well i dunno maybe she iz bein this way bacause theres stuff goin on in her life that u dont exactly kno about n thaz why she seems like she iz bein bitchy juss ask her wats goin on n let her tell you her side of the story im sure i will still be friends and when u ask her wats goin on be like you have kinda been bein like snappy lately n i dont want u to act like that so juss try n figure out why she iz bein the way she iz bein!! hope i helped

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Dear My Greatestest Friend,

What do you do when two of your so called bestfriends would rather hang out just them and dis-include you and they say i would rather just hang out me and her and then i get upset and they say oh well?

Love Always,
been left on the side of the road

PS you know who i am

Well i would tell them that they shouldnt leave u out like that when your all friends but if there not actin nice to u then oviously they arent very good friends!! hope my advice helps


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i dont no recently during the summer all my friends like abandoned me.. i have like 2 rly good friends but we like never hang out i dno.. what should i do?? all my friends ditched mee..

call them up n see how their summers are goin so far be like n e time u wanna hang call me so we can chill and do sumtin!!! thaz my best advice for ya. Hope i helped

~xoxo~ Caitlin

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Ok.. i have 2 best friends.. thay are always together they invited me to the movies.. but it wuz with them n there boyfriends n there boyfriends 2 friends.. thay are always busy with them.. is it right for me to be mad?? oo ya my friend slept over my house n then tha next day.. i wuz suppose to s.o n go 2 canobie lake park.. but she cancelled cuz she wuz "sick" but then she went with my other friend.. what should i do

well yea it iz right for u to be mad cuz u oviosly feel some wut left out while they have there boyfriends around!!! and it wasnt right that she lied to u and sed she was sick and went with some one else. if 1 of my "friends" did that to me i wouldnt consider them much of a "friend" any more your friends shouldnt lie to u to get out of thing like that. so wat u should do iz confront her n be like y did u lie to me u could have juss told the truth. i dont really appreciate the fact that u bailed on me to go with anotha friend and give her a second chance but u should only give her so many chances and if she screws up to much your friendship could end.
I hope my advice helps you!! GOOD LUCK!


~xoxo~ Caitlin

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one of my best friends wants to go out with the guy that i like and she knows i like him. what should i do?

tell her top back off cuz you liked him first but kinda try n be nice about it!!! lol


~xoxo~ Caitlin

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