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can jelousy take ova
ive been really really close with my friend emily from 4th grade....i've also been friends wit another gurl chelsey since 1st....emily hated chelsey...then one day this year i invited both of then ova hopin they'd become friends...they did...now they hang out moa than i've hung out wit both of them....i cant tell emily a secret wit out her tellin chelsey and vise versa...sadly i think im jelous(:-(....i dont want to lose them!..what do i do!
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omgsh .
that has happned to me .
its like you want them to be friends but not enough for them to forget about you.
you know??
well 1st off you should try talking to emily 1st.
then to chelsey 2nd .
and then both at them at the SAME time .
tel them you fel left out...
follow yer instincts..youl know what to say.
hope everything works out .
-trina [:
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well i think itz great that there both friendz now...But jus talk to both of dem n tell dem dat...But you kno you can have more den 1 bezt friend chika!
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well that sounds like its confuseing but there is always something you can do like try to invite one at a time over and get close then invite both of them over!! if your worryed about them tellin your secrets make SURE to let them know that you dont want them to tell, but things tend to slip out when your haveing a good time so dont tell anything too important. hope i helped
JeSSiiHaLL
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Jealousy is a natural emotion. The best way to deal with it is to be honest and talk to your friends - stress that you like them both and are glad they get along, but explain that you miss spending time alone with each girl and want to be included more. It might be a difficult conversation to have, but good friendships are built on honesty. I hope it goes well for you.
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you sjud tell them both that you feel like a third wheel now and ask if things could just got back to normal....i mean they dont have to hate each other but just ask if u can hang out w. them more or just have them hang out less...<3
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i think u should tell them how u feel and c what happens
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Well I guess what you have to do is tell them, that you are beginning to feel left out. Maybe you should remind them that they used ot hate eachother and if it weren't for you being the middle man and helping them to become friends they probably still would. SO, it is wrong for them to exclude you like that. As for you not being able to just tell one of them a secret... there are 2 ways you can handle this... you can just from now on tell both of them your secret... or if you just tell one of them, make it clear that you do not wany ANYONE to know, not even the other one. Good Luck!:)
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You need to tell both of them how you feel. They will understand if they are your true friends. Hope everything works out ok! If you have more questions you can always ask me!
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wat u do iz try n be like ok u cant be tellin emily wat i say when u tell chelsey a secret same wid when u tell chelsey a secret i mean u cant stop them from bein friends or nuttin u kno but juss get the 3 of use togetha n talk to them n be like ever since use became friends i feel like im the 1 bein left out now and we dont chill as often as we used to u kno juss be straight up wid them and get it off your chest!!!
Hope my advice helps~!
.*.>> Caitlin <<.*.
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