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♥ Hey everyone, my names Michele and im 17 years young. I love to give advice to everyone and i usually have the anwsers to almost any question! Please dont be shy (I wont bite) and ask any question that you need anwsered! Feel free to IM me if you have a question you really need anwsered fast. The picture i have is not of me its just a regualar picture that i pimped out!!
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okay so your BEST FRIEND tells you that she does not want to be your friend anymore. how would you react? please help me. quickly if possible. thanks...
This happened to my not to long ago.. i will tell you what i did and for me it worked out because now we are better friends than ever
1) i asked her why and she told me some stuff that was totally out of my control and she also told me stufff i could change
and i vouched to change the things she thoguht werent good.. but i didnt change who i was these things were things like (being two faced..or jealous)
2) SHe kept telling me that things couldnt work out but i kept telling her how much she would miss our friendship and how i would seriously do all i can to be friends
3) i kinda made her feel bad by telling some of my friends that were firends with her how bad i felt and how upset i was.. they told her eventually
My friend eventually came to her senses and told me what she did was stupid
I hope this helps and i hope you and your friend can reconcile
If you need anythign more just ask
Askme247
I have this friend who I said something to (not thinking) and she got all mad at me.I know that I'm to blame but i need to find a way to get her back.
Alright i think that u need to just explain to your friend what is going on i mean you just need to apologize and keep reapologizing that all you can do
I'm worried that my friend will tell my biggest secret! If he does I'll be the laughing stock of the school. I'm not sure what I should to convince him otherwise. Please help.
Well i think that if this 'friend' will do something like that to you then that person isnt a true friend... but the perfect way to stop this person from spreading this rumor is to talk to them about it and ask them not to do it and tell them that if he/she was really your friend they wouldnt tell.... also if he or she refuse hold one of there top secrets against them and say if you tell ill tell people...but i think if he does tell people against what you say do not deny it but mabey your other friends will back you up and your true friends are the ones that wont laugh at you and wont judge you ... i just think you need to talk to this friend.... OR if none of this works you can always try to bribe him but i my advice is to try not to do that cause then you know he/ she isnt your friend at all but they are just using you... hopefully he/she will understand and keep there mouth shut
I Hope i helped
Askme247
ok..i have like some friends that i just cant seem to stay out of fights with..they are always taking everything personally or misunderstanding wat i say..but instead of coming to me and asking me wat i meant they just get pissed off and treat me like shit..now dont get me wrong i want to be their freind and stuff but i dont know how much more i can take!!! wat should i do?
I think that if your friends cant come to you if they have a problem with you then they might not be your honost to god TRUE friend.... there is a differnece between a true friends and just a friend I cant tell you what you would consider you true friends because that is somehting you have to find out.... but if more drama starts with your friends you have to confront them about it and you have to be the one to make it better... as weel as just talking to them you have to SHOW them how much they realli are your friend... like when someone asks you for advice regardless of whether or nto you mad at them, give them the advice..... I guess thats all i can do for you
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Askme247
I want to tell my friend something..It's a problem I've been having and it's kind of serious. I've never told this friend anything this serious before though. How do I know if she'll accept me and keep it a secret?
Wl the way you are talking this is very serious i think you should tell her a very less serious secret first to build up her trust and see what she does... thats the only true way to find out
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Askme247
Hello. I am a 14/m. A few months ago I made a REALLY bad choice and it got me arrested. :-\ Now everyone of my friends parents hate me.... except for two. Those are the two who have met me. The ones who have met me like me. All the others hate me for no reason at all. Half of them have never even seen me and they hate me. They won't even give me a chance. I regret what I did. But i think I deserve a chance. It just pisses me off so much. Is there anything I can do?
OK... well i think that if you really want to change the way they think then you have to show them to their faces that your differnt than what they think.. When you go over to your friends house be polit to there parents and ask them how they are.. shake tha dads hand if you want you caneven start a conversation with them....And if the police thing comes up tell them it was a bad misake but you changed the way you act...If you be poliet to one parent they will tell the other parents that you are a poliet man and mabey they will think different about you and the things they heard... Tell your friends to tell there parents good things about you and noice things youve done so when you meet them they will think good of you
I hope I helped you!!!
Askme247
Hey everyone. Well for New Years me and my one friend want to get drunk. Well, not drunk with alcohol but like maybe a caffeine high...play it safe. What are some drinks that have a lot of caffeine in them or any other drinks that get you really hyper...almost as if you were truley drunk. haha Thanks for the advice!
HAHA!!! Thats the way to celebrate new year right there... Well Red Bull any energy drinks... like the 1 mountain dew came out with!! Umm LOTS of soda!!! IF you like Coffee you can drink that!!! BUT if you want to you can just eat surgar!!! it works!!!(trust me!!)Also if you get soda and put SWEET 'N' LOW in it you will get an extra kick out of it!!! HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
Askme247
14/female
I'm always jealous of other girls because I I know that their so much prettier than me. I'm even jealous of my friends. One of my friends is like so perfect: shes pretty, all the boys are like in love with her.. her life is just perfect all together. and i am SOO jealous! I reallly want to get over it but i dont know how. I'm constantly comparing myself to other people .. and i think that brings down my self-esteem.
i just want to stop being jealous because it just makes me feel worse about myself..
how do i stop being jealous? and is there anyone else out there who feels the same way ?
AWW!! its ok... i feel the same exact way!!DOnt look at your flaws look at you high point .... other than looks.... I gareentee u have an awsome personality!!! let it out !!! Thats what i did!!! i became the funny girl adn i was excepted with my friends!!! Then i stopped looking at my flaws... look at there flaws!!! there is bownd to be at least 1!!!
Jealousy is something all teenage girls have to deal with and i think that this is the best way to get over it !!!
Hope i helped
Askme247
15/f
i have never had a boyfriend. Is that like pathetic?? I want everyone to be honest like if you think thats stupid then say it i wanna know your honest opinion i wont get mad at anyone...unless you go like wayy overboard.
5 for anything.
HECK NO!!!! in my honost opinion i think you just need to wait for the right guy to come....DOnt worry about it .. He will come ... I promise
Good Luck!
Askme247
I hang around guys all the time. I don't have any close close girlfriends. I do but they really aren't close because they are all two-faced. If I tell them something, they tell another "two-faced" ""friend"" and then they tell their Friends. Behind my back or to my face it don't matter.. they will call me a slut because whenever I am around them at a party or in school I am usually with a bunch of guys. I am close friends with these guys and I love to be around them because they are so fun and there isn't as much drama. They think that I do things with the guys and I don't. But the bad side of this is that all the guys just want me to "flash" them or do crap with them. I don't because A. I am a classy person. and B. I have a boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I have people thinking that I do things. Like the other night I wrestled a guy and took him down (it was fun too) but then he pinched me in the chest and it hurt! All the girls were like "oh you liked it. Gah your such a slut" and all that I was like WTH! Then I stayed outside the rest of the night because I was soo mad. And there I was outside with 3 guys and me the only girl. One of the guys was sitting in his pickup and told me to get in cuz it was warmer. I was like no "I don't want people thinking I am a bigger slut than I supposedly am" He was like "F them. Don't worry about them. They are just prude B's that are jealous." (one of them were this guy's Ex.) I don't know how to get through to them that I am not a slut,whore,tramp,or any other name they can think of. I have never done anything not even with my boyfriend if that tells you anything. Please help me find a way to tell them.. Jst so you know I am a shy person so I don't particually like "chewing" them out.
Well if those girls arent your frind in the first place then you shouldent worry... but it you are really wanna resolve this then i think you need to tell one of the "two-faced" friend.....(just one) that it is all a lie... its better to do it to one becauser then all the girls cant gang up on you/.... just tell her that the boys are JUST your friends andf you have never did anything with them or two them... andf ask her to tell the other girls not to start rumors anymore... hey mabey even that girl will get along wit u and you can become firneds(you never kno) but if that doesnt work then i really dont thikn there is any way to reslove it because girls will be mean!! jusy dont swaet it !!!
GOOD LUCK!!
Askme247
What does it mean to "fall for someone" i get the general idea but could anyone explain it better for me please? thanks i'd appreciate it!
When someone says 'im falling for him' it means that he or she is likeing that person more than a friend!!! i think thats a good way to put i t!!
ok....im not a very social person, at least not anymore, see...i used to go to this awesome school where i had like tons of friends and stuff but then i had to move so now im at this new school and its sooooooo much different. now i dont have that many friends. i mean like its not like im a nerd or anything, like people like me but theres only like 4 or 5 people that i can really call my friends. all i want to do is just make more friends but i dont really no how. HELP PLEASE.
HAVE A PARTY!!!!!!! you can get to know a lot of people at parties....... and 4 or 5 true friends are always better than 20 fake friends please keep that it mind!!!!
Keep the friends you have because if you lose them than you would have nothing!!!!!!
i just found out my best friend is pregent, she is about 5 to 6 months along and is due in january and she is going to make the kid call me aunt because we are so close, like sisters. i feel totally shocked because she is only 17 while she is gonna marry the guy, i know its gonna be hard for her, and im just not sure what to do for her right now, i just need some ideas because i am completely in shock.
Be there for her!!! i know your in shock but comfort her..... go to her house and see if she needs help(espessially in her later months) talk to her about it... just dont ditch her because thats the worst thing anyone can do !! hope i helped if you have anymore question please ask and i will anwser them A.S.A.P.