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i have no friends
ok....im not a very social person, at least not anymore, see...i used to go to this awesome school where i had like tons of friends and stuff but then i had to move so now im at this new school and its sooooooo much different. now i dont have that many friends. i mean like its not like im a nerd or anything, like people like me but theres only like 4 or 5 people that i can really call my friends. all i want to do is just make more friends but i dont really no how. HELP PLEASE.
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i moved too and had the same problem. its allwwaayyysss hard making friends but you have to try reallly hard. a best friend mind you cant just pop out of thin air either, it takes time to relate to someone but i no you can do it good luck
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Hey!
Well, there was a time where your reputation started in your old school. Now that you moved, you have to start it all over. I have been to 32 different schools and I'm only 14. It sucks but you have to make the best of it. Make a bad situation into a good one.
In my oppinion, I think the depression from moving is still with you and it's jusrt hard for you to focus on things that you normally focus on. I think that's stopping you from making friends. No matter who they are, everyone has friends. Just don't be so negative. You have to think that you can do it and you can. I know it's hard. I understand exactly where you're coming from and what you're situation is so I can really relate. I'm really sorry! There are possibilities though! Just talk to people... you still miss you're old friends and your old school but you have to eventually come out and start making new friends. Start your reputation all over. It's hard and will take a lot of time but you can do it.
Email me if you wanna talk (x_pink_x109@yahoo.com)
I'm always here!
♥ Kayla
Best of luck!
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just be yourself. I no what you mean that happened to me but then i was my normal self all hyper and now i love my life. You will make friends as time goes by dont worry
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First of all, thanks for the stereotype that nerds don't have friends. Nerds have nerd friends, bitches like you have bitches for friends. Congratulations, your ignorance has made me not want to answer this.
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HAVE A PARTY!!!!!!! you can get to know a lot of people at parties....... and 4 or 5 true friends are always better than 20 fake friends please keep that it mind!!!!
Keep the friends you have because if you lose them than you would have nothing!!!!!!
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More friends isn't always a better life style. Honestly if you have only 4 or 5 people that's more than enough. This decreases drama and such between you guys.
But okay, if you want friends, you're going to have to go out on a limb and start talking to someone who you think would be pretty cool to hang out with. It's not the easiest thing in the world to do, but people aren't always going to come to you.
So lets say you have class with someone, you find someone that may be friend material.. just start talking to them about class to get the bond going. Then you can talk about personal life and such and bam. You have an aquaintence. Then maybe ask them if they want to hang out after school. Then you start the entire 'friendship' thing.
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You probably spent a lot of years at your old school. Most of those friends weren't made overnight either...just seems like it.
Give it time. Find out where the kids hang out and go. Talk to people. One friend usually leads to meeting others. You will make lots of new friends in time. :)
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