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Battle of the Sexes
I hang around guys all the time. I don't have any close close girlfriends. I do but they really aren't close because they are all two-faced. If I tell them something, they tell another "two-faced" ""friend"" and then they tell their Friends. Behind my back or to my face it don't matter.. they will call me a slut because whenever I am around them at a party or in school I am usually with a bunch of guys. I am close friends with these guys and I love to be around them because they are so fun and there isn't as much drama. They think that I do things with the guys and I don't. But the bad side of this is that all the guys just want me to "flash" them or do crap with them. I don't because A. I am a classy person. and B. I have a boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I have people thinking that I do things. Like the other night I wrestled a guy and took him down (it was fun too) but then he pinched me in the chest and it hurt! All the girls were like "oh you liked it. Gah your such a slut" and all that I was like WTH! Then I stayed outside the rest of the night because I was soo mad. And there I was outside with 3 guys and me the only girl. One of the guys was sitting in his pickup and told me to get in cuz it was warmer. I was like no "I don't want people thinking I am a bigger slut than I supposedly am" He was like "F them. Don't worry about them. They are just prude B's that are jealous." (one of them were this guy's Ex.) I don't know how to get through to them that I am not a slut,whore,tramp,or any other name they can think of. I have never done anything not even with my boyfriend if that tells you anything. Please help me find a way to tell them.. Jst so you know I am a shy person so I don't particually like "chewing" them out.
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Hmmm.. I think you should tell your guy friends that you are not gonna flash them or any other crap like that. Make it plain and simple for them to understand. Then tell your girl friends that you have not done anything with the guys, be serious and calm about it. If they dont believe you, then screw them. Haha. It really doesnt matter what they think, if they are THAT two faced, like you said. I know thats sometimes hard to understand, but its the truth.
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Ignore those assholes! Who cares? Obviously they are just jealous! You are probably a wonderful, decent person!
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Well if those girls arent your frind in the first place then you shouldent worry... but it you are really wanna resolve this then i think you need to tell one of the "two-faced" friend.....(just one) that it is all a lie... its better to do it to one becauser then all the girls cant gang up on you/.... just tell her that the boys are JUST your friends andf you have never did anything with them or two them... andf ask her to tell the other girls not to start rumors anymore... hey mabey even that girl will get along wit u and you can become firneds(you never kno) but if that doesnt work then i really dont thikn there is any way to reslove it because girls will be mean!! jusy dont swaet it !!!
GOOD LUCK!!
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