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cant get over my ex
Ive had a crush on this guy for like 3 yrs(ever since ive known him)last December he confessed to me that he admired me for 3 yrs.Thats when the relationship started. Things were fine until he started cheating on me with one night stend girls(more that once but different girls).I always forgave him cause i loved him and wanted him to stay around me.We broke up for real about two months ago cause he was dating another girl(no night stand girl but his actual girlfriend). so i made my way out. it hurted alot but recetly his friend says his missing me and that he loves me but he cant come back to me cause hes ashame and got to much explanations to do and dont know where to start. They said the reason he left was because he wanted sex and i thought we were to young so he didnt want to pressure me or hurt me so he left. i still do love him. I miss him. i may be fooloish but i have feelings that he does love me(according to me)im stating to have nightmares about him suffering and wanting me. i wake up often crying. but the real problem is that i have a new boyfriend now which i relay on as a comfort. I realy realy do love my boyfriend very much his a great guy and i dont want to hurt him. But its just that my ex is still in my mind and often drives me away from my boyfriend cause i think of him. i dont know what to do. I'm starting to hate everything. I mean everything about my life. I'm desperate.Dont ask me to choose cause i dont know what i want. Waht would you do if you were me? what will you say? Im still young and i dont want to live a life like mine anymore. just want to be happy
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well, i dont really know what to tell u. your evetually gonna have to choose. my girlfriend and i were going out for about a week when she dumped me for her ex. it hurt my feelings alot and i didnt want to talk to her. 2 days later he broke up with her now we r together again. in your case one of them is going to get their heart broke. your just gonna have to listen to your heart. i agree with you u r too young to have sex im 14 so i know what its like. who do you like more and who do you think will treat you better are some questions to keep in mind when you choose. im just here to give my opinion so you dont have to listen to me because im not gonna tell you how to live your life.
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well thats what always happens you break up with someone and they are still in your mind. Well the only thing i would is break up with my boyfriend now and not go out with neither of them... If it puts you in the place that you dont want the life you have now get out of it while you still can because if u stay in it its not going to help you
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First, I would sit down and think about who you REALLY like. I know you said that you don't want to, but you really should. If you pick your' current boyfriend, then take your ex aside and tell him that you no longer like him, but you could still be friends. If it's your current boyfriend that you are dumping, then you will hve to sit him down and explain to him how you feel about your' ex. It sounds hard, and it will be, but trust me, you will feel a lot better with the truth off of your chest. Make shure you pick the guy that you can trust most. good luck!
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