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13/f-i no this is kinda long but plezz read!!
well my best friend is like my sister. but we both like the same guy. ive known him for 8 yrs--since i moved here, and she met him thru me. ive liked him since i moved here--since hes my neighbor. im datin this guy, that i dont reli no. i always say if sum1 i like asks me out i will go out w/ him. and shes like your gonna dump your bf jus to go out with him? and im like yea.shes always so jealous and always talks bout him like shes gonna go out w/ him-shes like if u go out w/ him im gonna be so upset-i jus wanna be like accept it bitch!! but ugh...she can b a bitch...she always talks bout him n wen i do shes like shakes her head n makes a grin--i wanna fuckin shoot her sumtimes. god i like him soo much!then she talks to him online n doesnt tell me hes on. im mad-she always needs things her way!! o yea hes a junior n im a freshman. so i dont reli no wat my ? is but i need help!!!

Well, theres a couple of things you could do hear.

1) Dump your boyfriend, and go out with this guy. The only problem is that if you DO go out with this guy, i doubt your friend will ever forgive you for going out with him. and any relationship isnt worth giving up for some guy, even if you may be in love with him.

2) Limit your best friend as well (she said that if you go out with him shes gonna be so upset) Tell your friend the same thing. It's not fair that shes allowed to go out with him while you're not.

hope i helped!
Jenna

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Ok, when my friends all hang out and leave me out.. I get extremely jeallous and think "Oh they dont like me as much as they like each other." I know it isnt the case, but I can't help feeling jeallous. Is this wierd?
15/f

Not weird at all. If MY friends were leaving ME out, id feel jealous as well. tell your friends that what they are doing is hurting you. if you already told them and it didnt help, or you dont want to tell them, leave them alone for a while. either they're going through a phase, or they just want to get closer. dont worry about it. after a while, things will settle down. hang out with some of your other friends in the meantime. also trying to take each of them out, SEPERATELY (without eachother) so they focus more on you than eachother.

hope i helped!
Jenna

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ok this is gunna be rlly confuzing .. but here it goes....

my BFF n i became friends w. this girl who is really cool n all.. shes now like one of my bffs too. but the 2 of them keep leaving me out of things. like they would go to the mall when i cant go n like brag about what they got n stuff. they even went to 6 flags w.out me!!! n the guy i like was there also. n they even met guys at the mall. now one of the guys wants to hookup w. both of them n im letf out allot b.c they are allways talking to them. n making plans w. them. they have been hanging out n leaving me out even when i can hangout. so its not like i couldnt hangout. ((my parents have issues w. me going to the mall)) they have just been leaving me out. what should i do? they have been choosing to hangout w. other people rather than me! :( HELP!!!!!!!

((im a girl n im 13))

ok, i think you should tell them right off that what they're doing is hurting you. tell them that they have been ditching you lately. spend some quality time with one girl alone at different times (they will pay more attention to you if they are not together). you should also consider getting closer to some of your other friends. i also say forget about that guy. if he wants to hookup with both of them, then A)hes a player (because he wants to hook up with more than one person at a time) and B)hes not noticing you at the moment. try to do things to get him to notice you. but if he still doesnt, that means he just wants to be friends. try to stop liking him (yes, i know its hard) but he's just going to keep hurting you.
hope i helped!

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my boyfriend cheated on me & my best guy friend gave me a shoulder to cry on. while i was venting to him, he just kissed me. why he did this i dont know, but Im just really confused. did he do it to make me feel better or because he likes me or what? i'm really confused.

if he kissed you while you were telling him your problems, i think that he really likes you and he was trying to find an excuse to kiss you.
good luck! =]

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I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do?

just tell him how you feel. if he really kissed you, then he obviously likes you as well. if he likes you, he wont reject you. and if he does, who cares? at least you told him how you felt =]. you wont know if you dont try. if you dont try, you'll end up regretting it later.

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Im confused: someone who absolutely meant so much to me, my best friend (a girl. im a girl too) started to be a little (so for being harsh) but a jerk.. we would have plans made for a week and then a day before she would cancle and go out and do something with this other girl (lets name her "freeda" :-D... it even got to where if me and her had plans to go to the movies she would invite "freeda" without telling me (even though I thought it was just goign to be us) Its starting to get annoying and i dont know what to do?

confront her about it. thats your best bet. she may or may not know what she is doing to you.

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Is it weird to give a boy a poem in a frame to say goodbye?
If so how else can i give him the poem or somethign else to say goodbye? Something he will remember me by.
Thanx i need answers quick
~Mo

that is very cute, actually. not weird at all.
but make sure its a poem that you made yourself, and that you have handwritten it. you might also want to insert a picture of you somewhere in the frame.

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