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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.



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how can i get my eyes to look like this: http://static.flickr.com/29/40095827_1e4d6f8f06.jpg AND LIKE THIS http://i.timeinc.net/instyle/read/bestbeautybuys/2004/images/bb_hs_02_260304.jpg (NOT the mascara -- the eyeliner) also, anytips?

thanks ♥ ♥ ♥

Simple. You need liquid eyeliner to do this. Or just regular eyeliner, but the point needs to be sharp not dull.

If you never used liquid eyeliner in your whole life then :

only search advicenators.com


You have to put a VERY thin line on your top eyelid close to your eyelashes. Then at the bottom, you apply the eye line[where you put eyeliner almost all the time], but then you put a THIN line UNDER your bottom eyelashes.

http://static.flickr.com/29/40095827_1e4d6f8f06.jpg

Notice in that picture that the eyeliner is UNDER the bottom lashes. That's what you have to do. ♥


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where can you get those cute sweatpants that say "pink" on the butt? like i heard you can get them at victorias secret but idk. thanks and i rate!

Everyone else said Victoria`s Secret.

And that is correct. :] ♥

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what are some like really good hair straighteners? not too expensive but work really well and don't damage your hair as much.
also what are some good shampoos/conditioners that would help with people who straighten their hair like almost every day?
thanks♥♥

Well I'm not good at these types of questions. Sooo. Don`t get mad if I suck. :o]

Anyways, people said that the Chi's straightener is good, I'm guessing. Since half of the girls said it worked miracles. :] I don`t know exactly how much they cost.

For the shampoos. You can ask a salon near you. They might tell you to get something that says "for dry or damaged hair", since straightening your hair damages it. So go to a salon and ask.

Haha. Hope I helped. :]

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well right now my hair is short and blonde heres the pic: http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a92/Linds1819/121212.jpg but it has more blodn highlites in it now

would it look bad this color? :http://photobucket.com/albums/a92/Linds1819/?action=view¤t=yuvthishaircolor.jpg

with maybe bleach blonde highlites over it or underneath? orrr dark brown underneath? thankss

Hmm..Well..

I like your hair color as it is now. But for the color that you chose to show me, it`ll look good. As long as you have something blonde in there. That color is just too red. No offense. But maybe you should just try like, a light brown if you want. That`ll look so cute. :]

But if you like that hair color[i like it too!] then get some blonde highlights in there. Not too bleached.

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Hey! This is my first attempt to buy a mini skirt and i was questioning the way they should fit. On the one i bought, the skirt fits around my butt, but then is loose under the butt area. Is this how it should fit, or should it fit like a pair of jeans, tight all over??

It`s suppose to be loose around your legs. If it`s comfortable, then buy it. But don`t buy ones that are too tight. Then you won`t be able to move. :]

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ok, i really need a strapless bra but i cant find one anywhere. and i dont mean the kind thats just like, a strip of spandex. i need one that actually works! my sister got a good one from limited too, but they sont have them anymore. does anyone know where i could find one?
thanks

Wal*Mart, K*Mart, Target, Mervyn`s, Victoria`s Secret[even though they are quite expensive, they are really good]. Just places like that.

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Ok, so I have hightop converses, and I want to wear them friday, but the only thing is whenever i walk, they make like this weird rubbery noise, sounds like a farting noise actually. Anyone know any ideas on how to fix that? Thanks.

It`s because your feet are sweating. You probably need to wear thicker socks. But if you just got them, they will do that for like a week. Trying putting baby powder in your shoes. It kinda works.

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where do you get all your clothes? you always have such a cute style

Abercrombie, Hollister, Charlotte Russe, Forever 21. Stuff like that.

The grey thin sweater I got from Hollister. The brown top I got from Forever 21. And the skirt I just had which I probably got it at Abercrombie.

Thanks. :]

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i want to get side bangs and i have a hair appoitment in 2 weeks, but i wanted to get them after basketball season ends(which is in like, 1 month) because i dont want them in my face while im playing. are there ways that i can keep them out of my face(somehing good cause i dont want to be rebounding and have someone rip out some big clip) lol
thanks

Hairspray kind of gets a bit flaky & makes your hair dry out. I say get Bobby Pins. Just pin them into your hair. They are hardley noticiable. And if someone is grabbing your head & ripping your hair out, then that`s a foul. Duhh..So i don`t think some idioic girl would do that. :o]

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Okay your hair in that pick looks omg so cute!

I was wondering if you could tell me how you did that?

I have hair like yours... and omg your hair is to cute!! Okay sorry, Im not trying to copy you or anything. I just need more ideas for hairstyles than.. Ponytail,and wearing my hair down. Dont say scrunch it because. I look horrible when i do.

Thanks a bunch =D ♥

Thanks :]

I answered a question like this, so I just hope you don`t mind if I just copy & paste to what I said.
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My friend Annabell did it for me, but i`ll try & describe it. :]

What she did is let my whole hair loose down, and then took the middle part of my hair[not all of it]. It`s basically a half-up half-down look, but she took my bangs & seperated them to the front & let most of my hair loose; then she poofed it up my hair that`s up by using a big brush & hair-sprayed it so it can stay.Or you can just pull the hair thats up, so it looks poofy, but neat. Friggen A ; I suck at describing stuff. Sorry if I couldn`t make it clearer. :\


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okay ive died my hair like 4 times in the last 3 months and my hair is kinnda unhealthy like i put stuff in it about once every 2 weeks and i do straighten it. what can i do to make it more soft and healthy?(dont say dont straighten it because i have to)

Honestly, you don`t HAVE to straighten your hair, you just do so because you WANT to. And your going to lose hair if you straighten your hair. You`ll become like..bald [no joke.] You need to stop straightening your hair so much. Straightening your hair heckkaaa damages your hair & it burns it, so that is bad.

Go to a salon near you & ask for something that you can use to put in your hair that won`t really damage it. Try changing shampoos,too. I heard Pantene makes you lose hair because of all the chemicals in it, so I don`t really reccommend Pantene if it`s true.

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what dose the tre in tre-cool mean

It`s like three. Like triple the coolness...lmao . I know lame, but it sounds wayy better when you say it.

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I know that 13-year-olds shouldn't be wearing a lot of makeup. Is colored lip gloss ok? (mine is dark purple)

It`s fine. But like the other girls said ; dark purple lip gloss can go really bad if your skin is very light. Try like a really light pink lip gloss. Don`t try putting things on when it`s too dark ; it just makes it look bad..

EDIT ANSWER::

Well since you didn`t say what type of skin color you have or anything like that BEFORE we answered the question, we would've been helped you alot better now. But since you showed your description, dark purple is good for you.

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we all know that air force ones (aka uptowns) eventually get a crease across the front of the shoe. i wanna know A. how to slow down this action and B. know which type of uptown this affecits more, mid tops or low tops

Lol i agree with the bottom person. Get chuck taylors.. But anyways .. to stop creasing your shoes, whenever you sit down, leave your feet FLAT on the ground. And everyone basically gets creases on their shoes because when you walk ; they cause creases. Soooooo .. yea

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okay, my hair is very very curly and frizzy and thick its nasty!! i sometimes put hair gel in it and it looks fine and then other times i stirghten it but it still gets frizzy easily. I use hair serum and this one spray to control the frizz but hey im always lookin' for something better can you guys suggest anything?

Don`t brush your hair. Comb it, not brush it. Brushing makes your hair even more frizzier. I have friends that have curly hair & they say not to brush it because then it becomes all .."poofy". Put any type of mousse in your hair because mousse adds volume, and for curly ; you need alot of volume.

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just courious,approximatly how long is beauty sleep supposed to last ? ;p,thanks
*rates to 5*

If your 15 years old, your suppose to get 8-1O hours of sleep. So if you want "beauty sleep", then sleep for 9 or 1O hours.

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I just bought these new earrings and I just cannot get them to close.


http://www.claires.com/product.asp?name=prod&color=gold&rcid=31&id=2125&scid=32


They're like those up there. The part that is in your ear has to go into the hoop for it to close. Only mine are alot smaller than those--they're about 1/2 in.


When I try to close them I just end up spending 20 min for nothing and irritating my ear so bad that it swells because I keep messing with it.


Does any one have any tips for that type of earring?

Omg how weird ! I have those small silver ones that come in a packet of 3 of those right?! Holy shit..

Well anyways, I had the same problem. Honestly, I just left them open in the back because f*ck..it was such a hassel. Sometimes I got it to close, but that`s because i had to bend the earrings so it can close. Ugh. Those earrings sucked for me. If you just have the guts to NOT hook them together, then do it. It'll solve your problems. It did slove mine for sure.

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I have choir pictures tomorrow and I don't know how to do my hair. I have dark brown hair that goes like 4 inches under my shoulders and it's kind of layered and naturally pin straight. Should I curl it or just leave it straight or what? pictures would be nice but if not then that's alright! thanks in advance!

Having curly or scrunched hair right now is totally in && tre-cool.

I would give you some steps on how to scrunch hair, but I`m kinda lazy. BUT! I do have a site that has steps on how to scrunch hair =)

http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art4077.asp
http://wiki.ehow.com/Scrunch-Hair

The first one has a couple of pictures on how you should do it. The second one has tips && all that good stuff.

You can also just do loose curls. Get a one inch curling iron && curl your hair. To shape your curls so they can stay, use hairspray. Not alot though.

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The Winter Ball is coming up on Friday and I have an idea for my hair. It's wavy and black, and I want to straighten it and make it curve inward at the end. I think it's called a "J-curl" but I'm not sure. It looks a little like this:

http://www.royalimex.com/Product/image/medium/CO_CO_J_CURL.jpg

only not quite as curly at the end. How do you do hair like this?

Honestly, what the person down there said was good, but if you really don`t want to wait, then use a curling iron. The less hair you put on the curling iron, the smaller the little curly on the end will turn out. Get what I`m saying ??

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what are the best solutions for frizzy hair.

brannnds? products? i want something i can pick up at a drugstore or target, that won'ttt make my hair greasy.

++ any good acne products? which products give you the speediest results?

Putting mousse in your hair will add extra volume. Try Finesse BeautiFULL Volume Mousse($3 at drugstores)

You can also use products like

1) Pantene Pro-V Smoothing Comb-In Treatment($4 at drugstores)
2) Tresemme Anti-Frizz Secret Smoothing Creme($4 at drugstores)
3) Paul Mitchell Extra-Body Daily Boost($14 that you can buy at SALONS!) I know, but it'll give you volume. Kinda like mousse.

To NOT get greasy roots or anything greasy, try using Alberto VO5 Quick! Hold Fast-Drying Hair Spray ($3 at drugstores).

Tip : Don`t use a lot of products in your hair, it`ll cause major damage !!

For acne, well these are kind of expensive, but maybe you should just try these. If you want.
Try Andrea Gentle Microdermabrasion Complete Kit($13 at drugstores).It cost so much because it removes dull skin as it absorbs oil & it`s just really powerful. If you decide to buy this, be sure to READ && FOLLOW the specific directions on the boxes.Some cheaper products that also might work good are Neutrogena or Clean & Clear, or Biore. Any product from them cost $3-5 at drugstores. Just be sure to look for the right ones.

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