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Q: Has anyone read the book Catcher in the Rye? What did you think about it?


I also was going to read Friday Night Lights. Is it as good as the movie?
the catcher in the rye is very very good, ive read it twice and love. it has, to me at least, a very profound meaning to it and you just learn and realize more as you read it and for me the second time i read it. go buy it and read it, you most likely like it.

and yes, friday night lights was a pretty good movie.

:D

Q: Hey everyone!
For some reason I feel like reading I would really apreciate if you people would recommend some of your favorite books and a little bit on what it is about =)
Thanks,
okay im not gonna go into what theyre all about but, theyre all awesome times 2. i assure you. [teen books]

the perks of being a wallflower
thirteen little blue envelopes
the lovely bones
running with scissors[i just stared that one.]
the gaurdian
pretty things
confessions of a boyfriends stealer

theres some. have funnn!

Q: what do you do when your in a bad mood?
i have so much homework to do and its stressing me out and i just dont wanna do it anymore
do what i do. give up.


:)

Q: ok so im getting braces this thursday but before that i need to make a decision whether to get the clear or colored ones. the clear ones are NOT invisilign just to let you know the clear ones are basically the same as the colored ecept they match the color of you teeth. now the thing is with the clear ones if you eat something like chocolate, your braces would turn brown which i dont really want to happen but they say it doesnt happen if you brush your teeth a lot (which i do) but like in school if i have like a chocalate bar or something i cant brush my teeth in school and the other thing is pratically all my friends have the colored ones and i really havent seen many people with the clear ones.
can someone help me figure out what to decide?
thank you so much
sorry its kind of long
definetly get coloured...like me. my cousin has the cleart ones you are talking about and it just looks like there is a bunch of crap/plague on your teeth, it doesnt look any better, and it isnt less noticable. if you dont want that much attention drawn to your mouth, dont get bright coloured bands.

p.s. braces suck, and hurt, buy lots of applesauce + yogurt + pudding!

good luck♥

Q: okay, so i am a 13/f, and i wanna get my belly button pierced.
my parents said it was okay in the begining, but then my sister 16/f, didn't get it so now they are not allowing me for a few years.
so i wanna know what i can say to them to change their minds, or things that won't happen if i do get it pierced (they are afraid something bad will happen to me)
so pretty mucht he pro's not con's of getting it pierced, anything else about it will be apreciated!
thnx a bunch!
pros:
-very cute
-you can show it off

cons:
-the cost of the peicing job itself, and the jewely
-infections if you get cheap jewelry
-if you dont like it after awhile, there will be a scar
-that is something your parents can take away if your in trouble (along with the tv and phone and such, you get my point)


so i would say wait a while, dont rush it because chances are you wont even like it after a while.



*after feedback*

yeah um...there arent anymore, not my fault, sorry.

Q: i know this is weird but is the best tampon to use..i'm a beginner at his..and how do you one...
and how long doesa pierod last...please help
well since you dont know how long a period lasts(about 3-5 days, but it varies by the way) you are probably a beginner, and since you are new to this, it is best for you to use pads, tampons are better after a few months experience, and personally always is the best brand, and then pick the size that is best for your flow. but if you really want to use tampons, tampax pearl is the best, and there will be directions in the box.

Q: does anyone know of a website that you can post your poems on and get feedback?
www.zenhex.com
www.quizilla.com

they are odd but try them.


ok fine www.everypoet.com (its more normal, loser.)

Q: 15/f

What does it mean if a guy wants to "holla at you?"
thanks
he wants to talk to you, most likely because he likes you. but if a guy talks like that, even if he likes you, dont date him...please?






hey i just got your feedback and im sorry if i offended you, i just said what i was thinking, haha.

i wish you the best with him then!

Q: Hey I need some icons could you guys help me give me a few websites with icons !?
www.iconator.com
www.buddyputty.com
www.originalicons.com
www.buttybuddy.com


kay?

Q: OK so to get rid of stretch marks, whats that stuff called? And whats the brand, and where can i get it? Thanks in advance
mederma(not the kids brand) you can find it at mostly any drug store, no prescription needed.

Q: before you get all eww...this is kinda gross...

i lay on the deodorant twice a day: in the morning, and during pe (5th hour). but i still hyave b.o! its not awful, but its kinda gross. what should i do?
btw im a 13 yr old girl
you need to make sure you are using DEODORANT and not just ANTIPERSPIRANT.


BaM!

Q: Hello, I'm a 17 year old female. Who is interested in taking boxing class.

I've heard somewhere that if you take boxing classes and get into a street fight, you'll be arrested and charged with weapon possession because they would consider your fists as a weapon. Is this true? Or am I the only one that has heard about this?

Another thing is, I get into a lot of physical fights, so if what I said above is true exactly what do you think would happen to me?

Thank you.
eh sure take the lessons, isnt getting arrested/fined better then getting your ass kicked? think about that one.

Q: How old do you have to be to get a tattoo? I am a 16/f and I live in WI. If that matters.
you have to be 18 if you do not have a parent or gaurdian present when you get it done. if you have someone over 18 that is there you can be under 18.

a tip-be sure youre going to want this all your life because tatoos are harder to get off then they are to get on.

Q: alright i didnt know what to put this under. But im going back to school tomorrow and vacations over :-(....for the past week i have been staying up late and sleeping in late like...like id go to bed at 1:30 and than wake up at 12..well now that schools starting i need to go to bed early but im not going to be tired...what are some good tips to fall asleep earilier?

ILL RATEE !
i have the same exact problem

when i read i go to sleep reaaaaal quick usually unless im totally tired.

the best advice i can give is to not sleep late on weekends so you are used to not alot of sleep, but if you feel really tired alot then just try talking to your doctor about sleeping pills.

Q: i want to gage[?] my ear hole to a 14 or 16..but i wanted to know how bad it hurts,from when you stated out[i think a 21 gage]to a 14 or 16..thanks
well im pretty sure a normal earring is size 18 and they go by 2's, so going from 18(normal) then to 16 might be a little painful because your just starting, but if you wait a good amount of time before going to 14, it shouldnt hurt that bad.


good luck!

also some tips:

*make sure you are doing this because you really want to and not because all your friends have it.

*if you go to a 14 or bigger you have to leave an earring in at all times, otherwise your hole will close completely.

*putting an 18 in after youve had a 14 or bigger for a while, your hole will close around it and be normal size again.

*i think a really good place to buy them is hot topic, if you have one near you.

Q: OK i used to get all my myspace layouts from this one chick on myspace and the url was like awesomelayoutsbykt. but now it's GONE! does anyone know if she got a new layout site or what happened? and if she doesn't have a new site can someone please tell me of a good layout site they know of only for myspace? thank you. 5's. XO

www.whateverlife.com

click on the link for myspace stuff

click on the link for layouts

TAH DAH!

Q: anybody know any inresting, websites for realy bored people?
www.bored.com
www.ebaumsworld.com
www.holdthebutton.com
--and this on is
random a n d sad but:
www.bonsaikitten.com
(check that one out
its HORRIBLE.)

Q: Can you give me some websites that sell cute clothing. not hollister,abercrombie,american eagle or old navy. Thanks alot i dont know where to shop with my christmas money lol!
delias.com

Q: I think i did soemthing wrong, well i know its wrong...i just need someone to tell me...what i should do after i just did something....i just drank a few sips of voldka...my dad is sleeping and everyone else was out at the bar...so i figured i'd try it....how should i feel now?



TooYoungToDrink
thats not HORRIBLY wrong...its not like you got totally wasted and emptied out the whole liquer cabinet(by the way...NEVER do that) you just took a few sips because you were curious...you shouldnt feel quilty and you dont have to tell your parents unless you really feel the need to. just dont go around being all "im so cool i drank vodka" and DONT go for more next time.

hope i helped.




Q: hey everyone im not sure if this was on the show family guy or not but i have been trying to figure it out.... someone says like, "im fine" and they give a meaning like it stands for Freaked out, Insecure, Nerotic, and i was wondering if anyone knew it, and if you could let me know thanks!
i've heard two forms:

fucked up. insecure. neurotic. emotional.

-or-

freaked out. insecure. neurotic. emotional.
(from the italian job movie)

hope i helped. bye.

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