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I have little red bumps on my legs, I'm pretty sure they're from shaving. Is it because I shave up my leg instead of down?

And how could you get these to go away? (link)
razor burn, everyone gets it. but i shave up instead of down. but you can also get razor burn from shaving when you have goose bumps, or when you shave dry. make sure you don't do that. and put lotion on your legs after you get out of the shower. hope that helped =D


My bedroom is white and boring. I've been thinking about redecorating it. mostly painting the walls. I just have no idea what color to paint it. My favorite colors are pink and black. I'd be scared to paint it black and plus, im not allowed. but im not sure if i wanna paint it pink. Please help.

What colors would you suggest to paint a bedroom.

I'll rate 5's for anyone that tries. (link)
same thing with me, well pink and black arent my favorite colors, but im redoing my room since the walls are also white and boring. im doing my light blue with dark blue seaguls on it. and im making my room all beachy and tropical with all differant kind of lights and scenary and such. hope that helped =D


I'm moving into a rental house and I was thinking I could REDECORATE!!! It sounds like fun but then its hard work. I dont know what style to choose but I dont want like "French, tropical, zebra print" or anything like that. What are some ways to redecorate? (In rental houses you cant paint the walls) Or a system that I could use for redecorating and moving things? Thanks for your creativity!!!! (link)
you can get a murals for the walls to make it look more fun and less plain. they have tons of differant murals, mostly of the beach(but you didnt want tropicla) but im sure they have more. hope i helped =D


okay. i have had my period for about two years now and it has always been regular. this month im about five days late so far. i have never had sex, but is it possible for me to get pregnant still?... when i suck my stomach in, there is a little lump there and like wehn i push on it, it feels funny... could i be pregnant?! (link)
don't worry, your not pregnant. plus, you could just be psming right now and you could be bloated. this always happens to me, and plus periods always run late, early, ect. =) .. hope i helped


I am very pale and I get very self concious when Im wearing shorts or skirts. The problem is I want to wear skirts and stuff because I think they are cute.

I guess my question is, is there any way to take peoples eyes off how pale I am or to make me look darker without tanning? (link)
use gergans tanning lotion. it's regular lotion and it gives you a nice tan without it being too fake, trust me i'm full irish and i dont like being pale lol


ok i'm 13 and i got a question. whats the white stuff that comes from your body...girls you hopefully know what i mean. is it bad, or good? (link)
discharge.. im 13 two, i get it alot. and it's normal, dont worry about it.



ok this may sound a bit strange but does any1 know about the average bra size 4 a 13 year old because i get really embaressed getting sized up!! (link)
Im 13 and im a 34A and 36A .. So im guessing around there. l.o.l.. hope that helped =)


well ever since 5th grade i have gotten more and more that i cant sit still in class and cant pay attention in class........well i have taken quizzes on it and there professional and they all say im ADHD positive but my mom doesnt beleive that i have it and wont do any thing bout it but i just dont no wat to beleive my mom or those things
well plz help me im a 13 year old grl (link)
im with you. im 13. ever since 5th grade i've started to become like this. And i had ADHD. i talked to a doctor and i do have it. i did go on the medication but it just made me drowsy,tired,and not have an appatite at all. just try talking to your mom about it. i mean i'd believe the tests only because people who made these tests have studied for like years on this stuff. or try talking to your pedeatrition.. (doctor) .. Hope i helped -


This question has been bothering me for quite sometime now...

If someone is depressed why wouldn't they want to reach out and get help?

Thanks (link)
i have depression..

well for me. i hate talking to people about my feelings because i get all embarresed and feel like its wrong. i also feel like if i tell someone somethign they'll tell people.

also im constantly crying. i feel sad and shut people out because i dont want anyone around me when im sad.


if someone says something mean to me, even if their kidding i get upset and cry. i mean i cant help it?. and if i tell people all the things that are bothering me im afraid they'll make fun of me


i dont know. theres so much more. i cant explain why i dont want to reach out to someone. i mean i do. but im just scared.

i hope that helped? -


K I need to know for my own personal reasons if, all these things i'm about to list, are sins or not. and if they are sins where in the bible can they be found.


! Smoking Pot
@ Masturbating
# Drinking alchohol (under the age of 21)
$ Giving/Recieving oral sex
% Looking or watching "explicit materials"


I'd really like to know, so please help me. Thanks sooo much.
p.s im 16f if that helps. (link)
smoking pot- sin.- all drugs are
masturbating- i dont think so because our sex ed. teacher told us it is okay to do that, its not wrong
drinking alchohol under age- yes
giving/receieving oral sex- having sex before your married is a sin
explict materials- dont think so

hope i helped =)


is it okay to have your period and go in the ocean wearing one of those wet suits and you DONT have a tampon on? or can you wear a napkin under the wet suit because i really like to swim in the ocean but i tampons. please help ill rate you high! (link)
well when you swim your period doesnt come out. but DONT put even a napkin in your bathing suit because it will get all nasty and soggy l o l . and just ew. ha. but yeah i hope i helped =)


hi everyone, i am a 13 year old female, and although i am an advice columnist myself, i cant seem to find a way around my problem...please gove me any help you can...

ok well here it all is, ever since i was young i have been scared of the dark, like i see shadows, hear noises...the usual. and when i was about seven, i saw this movie, something about a leperchaun, and it scared the shit outta me, like whenever i had to go to the bathroom, i would be on the toilet(sorry for the prude language, hahah) and i would just imagine there would be this like killer leperchaun behind the shower cutain. and that STILL kind of scares me. and another thing, when i am watching television, or am on the comupter, i always think there is someone/something behind me, that is going to hurt me. now, i want to be an independent person, i really do, but unless there are lots of people around, i cant really live, because im so scared. like at night when everyone goes to bed, and i am downstairs, i freak myself out wondering if my mom locked the door, and if there is someone in the living room, so i bolt...and i mean BOLT upstairs and run into my room (which i share with my sister, otherwise i'd still be scared) so what i'm wondering is...how do i get over my fears? will i grow out of all this eventually? how do i become more indepentent?


please!please!please!please! HELP ME! anyone and everyone. i dont trust anyone i know enough to talk to them about this! (link)
oh my gosh. im the same way. ( im also 13 female) . yeah ALL the time.. Whenever i go into the bathroom i open the shower curtain and shut the window shades(if at night) and when im going upstairs i run like crazy and even when im going down the stairs. and like i even jump halfway down the stairs and fall becuase i scare myself so much. i think its normal but i dont know hah. but even when im in my room i always look under my bed and in my closet before i sleep. and i always imagaine things coming in my room at night. i know its not gonna happen but i still think it. i know this probablly didnt help you but i want you to knwo your not alone l o l. =)


If you had to pick one over the other, would you pick diamond earrings or a pearl necklace?

earrings--http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=52U4&start_id=66&CategoryId=501&category=Diamonds&

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necklace--
http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57I5&start_id=91&CategoryId=66&category=Jewelry& (link)
neclace


I was wondering if any of you had any makeup tips you could give me to bring out my face more. Especialy my eyes. For some reason my eyes make me look like im high all the time but im not!

I have blonde hair green eyes fair skin and sorta small lips

any tips? (link)
Black Eyeliner( not too crazy though)
Mascara
Bronzer
EyeShadow(that matches your outfit)
If you put spoons in the Freezer for a while and then put them under your eyes it'll take the bags away

Hope I helped




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