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im asking this question for my friend...

one year ago, when my friend and her family were away, some little girl was walking through the alleyway. my friend's neighbor's dog is really big and scary, so the little girl ran, and jumped my friend's fence to hide from the dog, and as a result, broke her arm and needed surgery.

one year later, my friend's parents get a letter in the mail saying that they will be getting sued because it happened on their property. IT'S NOT EVEN THEIR FAULT. can they fight against this?

the little girl thourght the dog was scarry. you cant controlwhat anyone else thinks, thats imposible-and everyone who isnt living under a rock, knows that. also, if the dog was on a leash, then you are fine. its the girls fault really, because she got scared, of an inniocent dog, and ran over a fence, and broke her arm. and maybe she should have been drinking more milk because maybe thats why her arm broke (but that isnt a great point,its sounds sarcastic,but i am sarcastic lots) anyways, the dog didnt do anything, so they didnt do anything wrong. and thats just stupid. it isnt even worth the $ of getting sued, the parents of the little girl are just stupid I guess.

but i agree that it isnt their fault. if you need anything else, please leave one in my inbox, because i am sure that was sort of confusing!

also, it was the girls fault for being on their property, dur!!! so, its the girls fault, she shouldnt have been there in the first place.
and she should have known that climbing over the fence was a bad idea in the first place!!

thanks for letting me help you!
-Kels

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Well I don't want to join theatre because I don't want to be known as the dork on stage...But I'm hoping to be discovered by an agent someohow...God works miracles in mysterious ways..that's my only hope for now..but thanks for the advice..

okay, but who will "they" be calling a "Dork on Stage" when you are famous and in movies?!

And, Yes, God Does Indeed Work In Mysterious Ways!

Best Of Luck!!

Leave One In My Inbox If You Ever Need Anything!
-
Kels :)

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I really want to become and actor...but I haven't seen any agents or anything...I might want to do The Starlet or something or hopefully, someone will discover me because I really want this...does anyone know what you have to do to be an actress...besides memorize lines? Also, I need to know how to cry on cue..I rate..

try getting involved in plays and theater at school, and ask the drama teacher there for help, if you are no longer in school look in your local news paper, or check online for a drama center localy by you! also, try taking a creative arts class, with dancing and singing ect. that should help!

if you ever need anything else, leave me one! i would be more than happy to help!

thanks for letting me help you-
Kels :)

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Alright, well i'm doing a school research paper about Boston. I'm from Boston, so I can't really do it because I don't think we're different. Anyone from any other states that Mass, could you tell me some of the common Boston sterotypes? Thank you so much!

I dont understand but if you are asking for a common bosten sterotype, here are a few.

1- accent
2-broadway
3-dancers
4-either gang or rich

i think...

well, i sure hope i helped!
*Kels* :)

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I want to get really really tan.. preferably by tomorrow but I doubt that's going to happen (although I am already a little tan).. so I lay outside on my back porch and tan, but it gets soooo hot out there, and I can only stand it for like 10 minutes, and then I have to come inside. So basically, Im not getting very tan that way. What are some ways to tan FAST, like does olive oil really work?? And no, Im not going to go to a tanning bed. And no spray on tans either. Thanks!

use baby oil

uh, bring out some music, and some magazines, an ice cold WATER!! not soda, soda dehydrates you! and that should help!!! and maybe one of those spray thing that have water in them w/ a fan!! best of luck tanning!!!!

-Kels!

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what is the shampoo called that makes your hair a different color? not like dye but i saw a shampoo that brings out the color in your hair. one of my friends bought the one for people with red hair and didnt realize that it changes your hair color and she has really blonde hair and her hair turned like a strawberry blonde. so yea, does anyone know what it is called?

pantene, something. i use it, its awesome! :)

Kels

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Okay does any one know how to get stains out of a white purse! I already tried soap and water and it does get some out but not all of them. The stains are like pencil/pen/dirt on the bottom from the ground and stuff! My purse is a white corderroy! Please help me Ill give 5's :o)

put it thruogh the washer! :) try bleach, just be careful of your clothes!!1


kels

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I'm putting together a scrap book kind of a thing to give to my boyfriend for our 1 year anniversary (it's coming up in May). What I did was I put together a few pictures of us to sort of tell a story about us but all of the pictures are saved on my computer and when I go to print things, it takes up SO much ink. My printers ink cartridges cost 30 dollars. I want to have these pictures be a very good quality but I need them printed out! Is there anywhere I could take them so they could print them out for me?

wal*mart, 27 or 37 cents a picture!

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i am a 6 ft 15 yr old female and i was just wondering, is being tall a turn off? i have a thin frame and get called 'hot' sometimes, so excluding looks is being tall a bad thing? through a mutual friend i have with my brother i found out what my brothers mates were saying about me 'imagine having sex with bozzas sister what a tall freak forget that I'd rather have sex with bozza' (LOL, note: that was the cleaned up version)

dont listen to what other people say!!! Being tall isnt bad, how do you think the tall guys feel? being tall isnt bad!!

those kids saying taht stuff, they may like you, or something! they have nothing better to do than talk about you! so, feel honored, that you are the high-light of their day! and they love to tal about you!! *high-Five!*

Your Beautiful, Just the way you are!

and your guy is out there some where for you!!

Hope I Helped-
Miss KelC

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Hey, my family might move from here in Wisconsin to Florida. I want to sooo bad for the weather. But I just can't leave all my friends here. i love em all to death. And my best friend and I are really close and it will be so hard for me to leave her, and everyone else. How can I not miss her so much??

well- this is a horrible thing-

but i know, from this site it has happened to other people, and my best friend did it to me too!

my best friend got in a huge fight with me before she moved- and i thought i was going to miss her like crazy! but i dont miss her at all, i actually am realizing, how much better off i am with out her, and how bad she made me, but i know this may not be the same in your case.

and now....*drum Roll*...for a better answer...

*drum roll!!!!!*

Write to her every day!! and mail her letters, and pictures ect, and e-mail her, and i/m. visit her! have her come stay with you!! and vice versa!!

write her notes in class as if she were there, and mail them to her!

depending on the money situation- you could have a note book, and you write in it for one week, then mail it to her, then her write in it the next week, then her mail it to you.

or, you could each have one, and mail them to eachother on, i duno lets say wednesday! lol, and then you could each be writing back and forth!! it could be pretty cool!!


Hope I Helped-
Best Of Luck!
Miss KeLc

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How do you make a ring out of a dollar bill or something? I tried searching on google but I couldn't find the steps.

http://members.cox.net/crandall11/money/ring/


it has PICTURES!!!!!!!

its sooo easy to follow! :)

HAVE FUN!!!

MisS KelC

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The country that I live in is debating the Death Penalty. I Do not understand the understanding that the death penalty is ok. You are killing someone still aren't you? I realize that the people scentenced are usually murderers and other things along that line. I just want to know both sides of the story. I looked it up on Google and it is not what i am looking for. I want opinions on BOTH side.

well, we did a debate on it last year.

they say that if you kill Joe BoB* then he wont go out and commit other murders, besides the one he already did to Mary Sue*.

And there are cases where people like Bob BoB* have excaped from prision and Killed more people.

but i still think that killing some one, anyone is in-humaine.

I think that they should have to live the rest of their life in a high-security prision, and then they will have to think about what they did and know that what they did was wrong.

also, a lot of people who have been killed and even put on death roe- were actually inniocent, and have spent like 30years in prision.

if you make a mistake, and get the wrong guy, you can take him out of prision, you cant bring him back from the dead.

Pro:
http://www.prodeathpenalty.com/

http://sun.soci.niu.edu/~critcrim/dp/pro/pro.html

This Site Below- has 1000+ Links on the death penalty!

http://www.clarkprosecutor.org/html/links/dplinks.htm

Random Death Penalty Sites:
http://www.dpinfo.com/dpnews.htm

http://www.thepubliccause.net/DeathPenalty.html

http://www.plu.edu/~libr/web/deathpen.html

Pro/Con:
http://justice.uaa.alaska.edu/death/procon.html

http://www.seattleu.edu/lemlib/web_archives/DMW/procon.htm

http://library.trinity.wa.edu.au/issues/capital.htm

Con:
http://justice.uaa.alaska.edu/death/debate.html


I Hope I Helped- Or Some Of These Sites!!

Best Of Luck!

If you ever have any other questions about anything, leave on in my inbox!! Leave me a responce in feedback please, I wanna know if this is a good responce!!

Always There-
Hope I Helped--
MisS KelC

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I was babysitting at a place over an hour away (I was spending the night there too), and I was charging my cell before I left, and I guess I forgot it was on and charging, so I had left it at home when I left (accidentaly) and it was charging until about noon the next day... maybe later, so if I estimated it would have been from 4p.m to maybe 12:30p.m, not quite 24 hours, but about 3 and a half hours less.

2 questions...
Is it bad to leave you cell on when you're charging (my cell will still charge)
And is it bad to keep it charging for so long (even if it was on accident) Thanks!

well, i usually leave mine on when charging, and charge it over night

the only thing is, if it starts to be going really slow, turn it off then on again, but its not bad, all it means is that it hasnt been turned off in a while, and it needs to be turned off then on again!

:)

MiSs KelC *

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ok my head is like 23 in. all the way around.. and it bothers me so bad.. and to make it worse some kid called me big head.. i have like obsessive cumpolsive disorder.. when people tell me whats wrong with me.. i never stop thinking about it because it bothers me so bad.. i mean is having a big head bad and would you make fun of someone for it.. i have friends and guys have asked me out.. but my self esteem is just so low and i need to stop.. i also have a small mouth and these 2 kids call me stone faced because i barely smile and it annoys me so bad and they know it does but people in my school just love to make fun of people.. its basically the only way they can be funny. just tell me what you think.. and if your gonna leave something ignorent DONT PISS ME OFF

well, so what if you have a big head? i mean, everyone has something wrong with them

Sally might have big ears
John might have a huge nose
Melanie might not have a chest yet'
Chris might have really hairy arms...

it doesnt matter, everyone has something they dont like about themselves, or that someone else doesnt like about them

but- those people who criticize you shouldnt be your friends, and if they are, you should get some new friends.

you need to look in the mirror and be like " Hey BEAUTIFUL!!!" "Lookin' Good!" "Nice BootAy!"

Or, find some friends that will be "confidence boosters!" some good, nice, sweet, compationate, loving, caring friends!!

:)

Best Of Luck!
-MisS KeLC

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Hey i've been working with the same SN since 7th grade almost and now i'm a 9th grader...i want a new sn heres somethings about me or words i want in it.

Icy
Figure skater
Pink
silver
16
18

thats all i can think of right now i hope you guys can help me. THANKS IN ADVANCE!

IcySilverSkater

*(thats 15)*

IcyPinkSkater16

IcyPinkSkater18

FigureSkater16

FigureSkater18

SkatePink16

PinkSkater18

SilverFigSk8r

lol it wouldnt all fit.

Anyways- I hope I helped!!

*-KeLs-* :)

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Okay, so! I'm 15/female and I met this guy last week and he seems pretty cool. He likes me and all, and I like him too. It's just that, I dont like him like boyfriend/girlfriend. He's a great person and all, and I'd be happy with being friends but other than that, I'm confused. See.. I'm not hott or anything, I'm average, but he sees me as beautiful. And I desperatley want a boyfriend because I havent had one in over a year and I'm getting lonely. But I dont want to go out with this guy for the wrong reasons. Should I go out with him once and see what happens or what?

well, i would say- be his friend and then see what happens! and i bet you are attractive, us girls are really critical of ourselves. lol.

No worries!!

its all gonna be okay!!

Try being friends first, and see how it works out! sometimes him as your friend is better than him as your boyfriend!

also, try praying! No one can help you more, or give better advice than God and Jesus!!!!

Hope I Helped-
Best Of Luck-
Always There=
*-KeLs-*

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omg is it normal to have yellow discharge? i'm kinda freaked out because its kinda like.. sticky or it cums out in peices.. i'm not sexually active and it feels normal down there.. whats wrong with me??? I NEED TO NO PLEASE HELP ME

calm down! your fine! happens to me too! its all gonna be okay!!

dont worry!!

its normal, its cleaning you out down there if that makes since!

go to www.beinggirl.com

and they have a lot of stuff on periods and things like that!

Hope I helped-
Kels

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15/f i'm having a party on saturday for my birth day and i would like to know ideas for games and just fun stuff to do so that this party will not be boring. there will be guys and girls. also, any tips would be great! thank you!

movies, out to eat, movies, to a concert, in your (or someone) basement w/ lights and music!! and FOOD!!

:)

HAVE FUN!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope I helped-
-*KeLs*-

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i've been using this 3step acne thing called proactiv. i'm sure most of you know what it is, theres alot of infomercials on tv about it. anyway, i've been using it for about 2 weeks now and it dries up my face alot and it makes my face sting or feel numb and makes it extremely red. does anybody know how i can get rid of this? because i dunlike my newfound redness on the face. please help! thanks in advance

try to use a lotion! my face gets dried too, but i dont use that! I use clean and clear lotion for faces with spf 15 i think it is!!

Hope I helped-
-*KeLs*-

P.S.- maybe only use it once a day:/

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well ok.. my crotch area has been really itchy during these past few days and i'm too embaressed to ask anybody why so please don't make fun of me. anyway, that area has been itchy for a while and now it stings. i wash down there so i don't know why this is happening. if anybody could please tell me why i'm going through this and if its normal and how i can cure it. thank you

possibly a yeast infection! maybe, if you have discharge, it could be getting in little cuts.
if you shave, and pee gets in there, it could hurt.

it has happened to me too!
try to be careful when you shave-even if only your bikini line!
and whipe super good, but not hard, just good!

Hope I helped!!
-*KeLs*-

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