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I want to dye my hair blonde. Right now, I'm a brunette, and I am SOO scared that I won't like it!!
I was wondering --> If I dye it blonde, and I don't like it, can I just ask the hair dressers to dye it back, or would I have to pay more?

Most of the time, brunettes cant pull off being blonde.

The person below me had a great idea! Try a wig on and see if you like it.

And yea, it will cost you more to have a hair dresser dye it back...they wont just dye it for free. I work at a hair salon, and getting a color done is not cheap.

Good luck!

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i have a sony cybershot camera. today, my friend tossed it across the room to my other friend. it bounced on the carpet, then onto hard floor tile. after that, when i tried to turn it on, it would go to the welcome screen that says Cybershot, then Access, but then it would say "Turn the power off and back on again". i did so several times and it still didn't work. I think there's something wrong with the lens (the part that goes in and out( because it's kind of loose and when i try to look at previously taken pictures i can do that - but i can't take any pictures or anything. is there anyway i can fix this on my own? or should i take it back to the store? thanks.

Sounds like what happened to mine. I took it to my neighbors house while I was babysitting (not a good idea, I know) and the middle kid took it from me and when I asked her to give it back, she dodged my arm and ended up dropping it on the hard wood floor. The shutter was jammed out. I couldnt even turn it on.

My mom suggested we take it to a camera place, but I just ended up buying a new one.

I would suggest taking it to a camera place and asking if they could do anything.

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im 14 and never had boyfriend. most of my friends have. am I just a loser? I dont mind it much im happy and everything but usually when people find out their just like "OMG YOU NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND?!" and it just makes me feel pretty dumb. i like this one boy but I know I dont have a chance with him because im not exactly pretty.

Calm down, you're 14!

My first boyfriend was in 7th grade, and let me tell you...it was a waste of time! Most 7th graders dont know what it takes to have a good relationship.

Don't worry the right boy will come along...you have plenty of time to find one. And as to those people who tease you, dont listen to them! You dont need a boyfriend to function.

And about not having a chance with the guy...how would you know? Every guy likes different girls. Just because you dont think you're pretty doesnt mean he wont.

Good Luck!!

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About a month ago I found out that my boyfriend's mom is pregnant! :) I'm so overjoyed, as is everyone else. At first it was a little secret, so I couldn't tell anyone. My boyfriend finally asked his mom if he could spread the word and she gave him the a-okay. This happened a week ago. I'm no longer happy. Everytime I try to tell my parents she's pregnant I feel sick. Not disgusted, literally sick to my stomach. I also feel embarrassed and ashamed and a bit hateful. Not at all hateful towards the baby or his mom but me. I chicken out. Now my boyfiends starting to get a little annoyed with me, as you can imagine. Just writing this makes me feel sick. WHAT SHOULD I DO?! Please, any advice would help Thanks. 13/F

Why are you sick to your stomach thinking about it? Adults have kids...I mean how do you think you or your boyfriend got here?

My advice, tell them. Im pretty sure that they will understand what she's going through.

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on a girl, which side looks better for a cartlidge pearcing?

When I got a single double piercing I asked the woman what side I should get it on and she told me the left.

However, it doesnt matter. You can pick whichever side you want.

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I wasn't sure what catagory to put this under. My 8 year old daughter has gotten bubble gum stuck in her beautiful long hair. What can we do to get it out without having to cut any of her pretty locks? Thanks!

My friend got gum on her jeans and her mom told her to freeze them. I would suggest putting ice on her hair for a bit.

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HELL0. What are some good baby names? Boy, or Girl. First, and Middle would be appreciated! Thanks! =]

Boy:
Kale, Shane, Kevin, Jake, Tom, Daniel, Josh, Brian

Girl:
Emily, Kara, Elizabeth, Lexy, Caitlin, Nicole, Claire, Jordan, Caroline, Maddie, Heather, Brianna

It's sad that those were the only names I could think of off the top of my head! Hope I helped!!

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hey,
I am a 14/f and I live in Washington State. (spokane if that helps) I turn 15 in acouple months and I know your allowed to take drivers ed once you turn 15. I have alot of questions about this. When can I take it? Only during the summer or during the school year too? Is 15 the right age? Where can I take drivers Ed.? And anything else you know about would be REALLY appreciated. Thanks soooo much xoxoxo

I just finished Drivers Ed. In my state however, we cant take it until we are closer to 16. I took it through school as a class. If your school doesnt offer it, go to a private driving group and ask when their classes are and if you are the right age. Here we have places like Excel and Top Driver. If you dont know where to go, try going to the DMV and asking.

Drivers Ed is fun, but it can get really boring. Just stick with it and keep your grade up!

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Hey im 15/f i just got braces a little over a month ago.. and before i got braces i was really outgoing and was always wanted to be the center of attention. But now that i have braces i've noticed that i dont want to be that anymore because of my braces.. i guess im self consious.. Is there anything i can tell myself or do to make me become less self consious and be myself again? Any advice would help! thanks

I got mine 3 years ago and I hated to smile!

It does take a while to get used to them being there, but after a while you will forget and go back to wanting to be the center of attention.

Make sure you keep them as clean as you can...I rarely flossed, and I really regretted it! my gums were really puffy!

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Is your period 28 days from the beginning of your last period or the end?

I count 28 days from the beginning.

But it may not be 28 days. Sometimes its a shorter time in between and sometimes its way longer. I count off 28 days, but I normally go 35 or so days.

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My brother has been acting kind of odd lately...

... he thinks that he's a rubber ducky, according to him. When we call him Tom (which is his name) he says "No, Duckie!". My parents think it's just a stage, but he's ten, and I think he should know better...

He won't let anyone in his bedroom, but his rubber duckies, and won't talk to anyone but them. He also won't eat our food, only bread crumbs. I'm really concerned about this, as mental problems tend to run in our family....

Um...take the boy to a shrink.

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What can you put on your skin to make it softer?

lotion

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Okay this is really embarassing....I went to the movies with my boyfriend last night and we decided to see Nacho Libre...well halfway through the movie I had drank a large soda and I really needed to go ut I didnt want to miss the movie. So then this really funny part happened and I laughed until I peed my pants...I was SO embarrassed and I couldnt get up because I was afraid he would notice to when we went to leave the movie I just rapped my jacket around my waist. On the car ride home he put his hand on my thigh and squeezed...I was so happy! I've never really be touched by a guy (I know I'm a weirdo) and I'm really excited and like a a crazzed fan touched by their hero I'm not sure if I want to wash the pants. I know its gross...but would it be too weird to not wash them and keep them for sentimental value? I wanted to ask my friends but I was WAY to embarrassed to ask people I know. Oh my gosh pleaase help!

Ew thats nasty! Wash them!

Talk about germs!

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How do you get those little heart tattoos right above your pelvis? They aren't tattoos, but you know how cows get branded? Haha thats what it looks like..

People get it when they go tanning at a tanning salon. My friend always gets the playboy bunny. I dont know if its a sticker of if its just a piece of paper, but they lay it wherever they want it, go tan, and then when they are done they have the shape where they placed it.

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How often should I change my razor? I have the pink venus and I shave like 3 times a week. Four at teh most, 2 at the least. But in the winter, I only shave like once a week, sometimes two. So how often should I change it?

Change it as soon as the blade feels dull. A dull blade is actually more dangerous than a sharp blade.

Also, I just learned this recently...dont keep your razor in the shower. It rusts the blade and then if you cut yourself, you have a risk of the rust getting into your cut, putting you in danger of tetnus.(sp?)

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i have to get a cavity next month and the dentist said that they wont have to numb it because its gonna be small or whatever.. im just wondering if it will hurt if they dont numb it ..from a scale 1-10 and since this is not my baby teeth anymore, will the cavity stay on my teeth forever or will it like fade away?

Well the pain all depends on how big and deep the cavity is. At my old dentist, we never had novacaine no matter how deep it was. Just grip the arm of the chair and breath.

And because it is a permanent tooth the cavity will stay there forever, only it wont be a cavity anymore, it will just be a filling.

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if you go to a drug store/gas station. you ask to buy a pack of cigarettes. they want to see your ID, if you are underage, can you get in trouble for adtempting to buy cigarettes?

It is illegal for the store owner to sell cigarettes to a minor. My boss wanted me to go buy him some cigars and I couldnt because I was underage. I didnt get in trouble because the woman knew I was underage and she knew they were for my boss.

If you are underage, you really shouldnt be smoking.

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