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I'm Mallory. Im 17 and live in central ohio. I love giving people advice because i think i usually know a good solution to peoples problems. My friends always come to me with their problems so maybe you should try it too!! :)
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well im 14/f and i have no idea how to make out lol...i was wondering if anyone can help/give me tips on doing it because im sort of afarid to because i think ill mess up :( like should i wear lipgloss? ahh what should i do?
confussed
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dont use lipgloss....use good tasting chapstick!!..trust me on this one
well im gonna give my gf a kiss for her b day but her cousin is going to be with her at all times and i dont feel comfortable kissing her for the first time around other ppl wat should i do?
i would either try to sneak away or just make it a quick peck on the lips.
if you wana sneak away be like come here real fast i gotta tell you something and look at her cousin and be like sorry we will be back in like 2 minutes and go somewhere and kiss her!
hi my name is jess im 13 and there is this kid who stalks me. He callc be 10 times or even somtimes he wont give up until i pick up. Then when i go into the grove (which is a place everyone hangs out) he follows me around and it scares me. What can i do to get him away from me?
Plz Help Me!!!!!
tell him that you will press charges for stalking if he doesnt leave you alone. if he doesnt leave you alone, file a police report. the first one probably wont do anything but if he keeps doing it you can file another one and the cops will do something about it.
first of all, sorry this is so long, but its a big problem...im only thirteen, which, to my mom, is too young to have a boyfriend. the problem is i HAVE a boyfriend and he's my first and he lives in another city far from where i live. and in a few weeks, hes coming to my city and i really want to go out with him somewhere, but first, my mom would have to find out that i'm dating him. she always tells me that i can tell her, but i just kno that she wont let me. i met him on the internet which is even worse. anyways, how can i talk to her and explain this to her in a way that hopefully, she will let me stay with him? also, would it be better if he introduced himself instead of me introducing him?
wow, if you met him on the internet this defiantely is not a good idea. for all you know he could be a 40 yr old guy going to rape and kill you!!! also if he IS 13 and he lives far away from you its not going to work. you are way too young to have a long distance relationship..you dont even have a car to drive and go see him. if you INSIST on meeting him, tell your mom that you have a boyfriend and he makes you really happy but it is nothing really serious yet so she shouldnt worry. i definately wouldnt tell her about the internet thing because i can promise you...if you do you will never see this kid.
Im an eighteen year old female who hasn't had even close to a boyfriend since I was fifteen. I'm not bad looking, so that's not the case.. But I really just don't know why I'm not meeting anyone, or at least when I do meet someone I'm interested in, they are usually not really interested in me. I'm just really lonely I guess. Whenever I get close to a guy, it just ends up that we become really good friends, and I turn into his shrink on girl problems..hah pretty sad.. I'm not looking for tips on picking up guys lol that's not it. I'm just looking for feedback from guys/girls in the same situations or have been in the same situation, and their thoughts. Thanks =]
my boyfriend that i have now and i used to be best friends...i would be his shrink on girl problems, he was mine on guy problems...we were ALWAYS there for eachother...and now we have been dating for 6 months and are SO happy!!! dont give up
What do you think of a girl in her young teens(say 15,16) starting a relationship with someone thats about 11 years older then her. Say, this guy really does like the girl and the girl totally loves this guy. What are your thoughts on this? They've kissed and really do feel for eachother, but the guy lives a couple hours away, and how would this girl tell her parents if they were to ever start a relationship?
that is ridiculous....he is way too old and just trying to get some pussy...im really not trying to be mean but it would be embarassing for a 26 or 27 year olf guy to be dating a 15 or 16 year old unless he is getting laid...he wouldnt go through the embarassment for nothing. im really not trying to be a bitch but that is definately whats up
and your parents will FLIP!
My best guy friend and I are both 17 and will be seniors in HS in september. We have been friends since frosh year, and became really close last year. I know I can tell him anything and he knows he can do the same. Throughout most of our junior year, I had a crush on him. Yet, I could not tell if he felt the same about me cause of mixed signals. We flirt with each other, hug each other sometimes, and talk a lot online(we both are busy with school). A few times he's even stayed after school for no reason on days that I have my flute lesson and hung out with me. One time, he even calmed me down when I was about ready to haul off and kill one of my best friends for being a jerk to me. He's confided in me a few things and I have confided in him my most private secret. We trust each other and value each other. Yet, I can't read his mind when it comes to me.
people who are best friends and then start dating ALWAYS make the best relationships...you know that you can trust the person and not get sick of them. i say tell him not to freak out if he isnt feeling the same way but you think you like him...see what he says and take it from there. he is your best friend....stuff really isnt going to change that much if he doesnt feel the same way.
All my friends say my boyfriend is weard (mohawk) and an @$$. But he is always kind and respectful to me. Every time someone askeds me if i'm "really" going out with him they laught an say "wow, ok". I think i should dumb him but as i said "he is always kind and respectful to me" what should i do?!?!?!?!
dont listen to what other people say!! people are bitches!! if you like him stick with it!! everyone thought my boyfriend was weird because he had a mohawk and i stuck with him because i liked him n now he got rid of his mohawk and got a couple piercings and is GORGEOUS and we fell in love....and guess what!! everyone tells me all the time now how sexy my boyfriend is!!!!! haha but now i have him and they cant!! i say stick with it!
My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 2 year anniversary next month. Any ideas on what to get for him? I want to get him something nice and special, but he doesn't wear jewelry and he already has a really nice watch. What should I do?
me and my boyfriend were dating for 3 months and i went way overboard and bought him that new nextel picture phone but he LOVES it!!!! try getting him a new phone or bring him shopping with a budget or something. you could also try GOOD tickets to a concert or sport that he likes...if you REALLY wana do something nice you could buy him tickets or something and tell him that they are for him and one of his friends and they should go have a good time...every guy needs a guys night every once in a while!!!
Ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and 1/2 and i love him so much. I know it seems to soon for love but i have been his best friend for many years previous. Everything is going down hill and i dont know what to do. I care so much and i dont know where he stands. We never talk anymore and if we do it goes nowhere. Everyone tells me i should break it off but i cant i dont feel its right. Hes into my friends, and really pays no attention to me. its almost like he has gotten to comfortable.
What sould i do?
sometimes i feel like my boyfriend has gotten too comfertable too....you just need to talk to him about it!! just be like yea i want you to be comfertable with me and im happy that you are but we've only been together for 1.5 months and it seems like you are too sure that i am going to be here with you forever!! you know i love you and want to be with you but we are dating..we arent engaged and we arent married!!! there is a chance that this wont work out..even though i want it too!! i think sometimes you act like you are way too comfertable with everything going on and dont really take time to think that you might lose me. i feel like i feel that im soo lucky to have you and you dont feel the same way about me..because we are both lucky to have eachother...
be prepared because he will ask for examples of how he is "too comfertable"
Hi
I was going out with my bf for about a month again. We were broken up and then gotten back together. We hung out lots as friends then decided to go out again.. Anyways we only had sex a couple of times and now we kinda are going through a rough patch again..The thing is I was stupid and never used a condom either time..I know I am 23 and should be responsible enough to have known the difference. It was about 3 days before I started my period and then again toward the end of my period about 2 days before it finished ,when it was really light and barely noticable. What are the chances that I could be pregnant? I read that you are most fertile when you are onvulating which I wasn't I am pretty sure because I am pretty regular and my period is between 28 and 30 days each month and I read that you ovulate about 12-16 days before your next period starts..Even though I also read that it's possible to get pregnant pretty much anytime of the month.I read that the sperm can live for up to a week inside of you but if my ovulation calendar is fairly correct I wouldn't have started ovulating until after that so I think I should be okay. I won't have my period now until a couple weeks so I have to wait.
Hopefully it works out and I am not pregnant in case it doesn't work out with my boyfriend but if I am then I am old enough to take care of myself and my responsibilities.....sigh...the stupid things you do sometimes....How soon can I take a pregnancy test? Do I have to wait until I miss a period? This is stressful but I have been stressed out alot lately with other things so I won't be able to tell if I am feeling sick because of stress..I don't think I would feel sick yet this soon if I was pregnant..I haven't been throwing up or anything but have been sick to my stomach sometimes but I think it's the stress and not sleeping. I haven't been sleeping much lately..only getting about 5 hours sleep a night and then sometimes if I manage to get a bit more I have been waking up throughout the night so it's still not restful.
Anyways I just need to know if anyone knows my chances of not being pregnant? Any feedback would be appreciated..thanks
H
if you did it 3 days before you started your period that kinda sucks..the week before your period starts is the highest chance of getting pregnant. i think you can take a first response pregnancy test up to 1 week before your missed period...just make sure you do it first piss of the morning when you are hydrated...its the most accurate then. also, look for light spotting...that is a sign of pregnancy..GOOD LUCK
i have no idea what to do. my boyfriends friend (Karly)was getting in the way i talked to her and set her striaght.(we r in a lone distance realtionship) and now one of the other girls (katie)that did like him drug her self and died on his porch. the other friend of his who was a guy which he was so closed the used to do everything together found out the girl kaitie (who drug herself) and took a guy and killed himself. i have no idea what to do about my boyfriend he is really depressed and he thinks it is his fault i dont know why he does. i am scared he is going to do soemthign stupid and hurt himself. and know him and his sister want me to email Karly and talk to her make her feel better , but i dont want to do this because she slept with my boyfriend 5 months ago while he was drunk.. some one please help me!if i email her what should i say?? i need to do something i cant sit her and listen to my boyfriend tell me "if i dont email u back.. u will no it is becuase i have died of sadness in my sleep. Me.. The boy who is sitting in a coner crying... the bastrd, remember me? " please help me!
first of all, you dont KNOW that he got taken advantage of...that could just be his cover up...but you just need to let him know that he needs to realize that it isnt his fault and tell him to look around and realize all of the people that care about him. let him realize that if he does it just because she does it is just goin to create a huge chain reaction and more people are goin to probably do the same thing. show him how selfish it is to do that because look what this kd chic or whatever is doing to everyone else. ask him if he wants you to feel the way that he feels right now because you are sure its a terrible feeling. just let him know you are there for him no matter what
I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
it is different now than it was when i was 13 because now when you like someone you are much more upfront about it. when i was 13 if guys liked me they would kinda just bump into me n start giggling and their friends would talk to me about them n stuff. I would either talk to him yourself (which i think for a 13 yr old that would be pretty brave to do) or if you dont think that you can do that, have one of your friends talk to him or talk to one of his friends.
well ther is this cute guy and he really likes me, and i kind of felt for it and i kind of like him to now, even though i shouldnt like him, i just feel like i shouldnt like him for some reason
PS: please help me, to try and get over him.
Thank you,
shorty
picture him on the shitter....or get another man!! GUYS ARE DICKS....until you find the right one
I'm not sure what to think. This guy that I'm kinda friends with imed me a little while ago and said that he was taking a survey, so I was like..ok.. then he goes, it's just one question. so, I was like, ok, go ahead. he said what would you do if i asked you out? (and he said he already got 2 other girls to take it)and so I go maybe..maybe not.. lol. I don't know if he was really doing a survey or not though, cause he wentaway after I said that. What do ya'll think? Should I im him back and say something else?
Thanks for your help! I rate 5's for nice answers!
*confused*
honestly, i think he was just trying to feel like a lil pimp n see how many girls he could get.
My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do?
you cant have a relationship without trust and honesty
ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?
do not do anything that you arent ready for. If you are not comfertable with it you will regret it forever.
im having major problems.. cuz like i cant really tell what i feel for this one gu. ive known him for a long time and ive always kinda had a thing for him but were realllllly great friends so i cant tell whether i just love him as a brother or like more than that.. usually this wouldnt be a problem only then yesterday he asked me out and i said yea. so now i feel like, what the heck what if i dont really like him? and then theres another problem. i also like this other guy, ryan but he is friends w. my ex so then that would never happen.. so i just need to know. what should i do about the guy that asked me out ((nolan)) and what should i do about ryan? i rate high if u give good advice :)
----Jen
my boyfriend right now and i have been dating for 6 months and we were best friends before it. From my past experiances, i would say that being friends with someone before you date is always best because then you know that you are compatible and you wont get sick of them fast. also, if you guys are as good of friends as you say you are, if things dont work out you will still be friends. If you dont want to risk it, tell him that he means too much to you and you dont want to risk losing such a good friendship over something that you aren't sure will last.
about ryan and nolan...talk to ryan about you and nolan and see if he would be mad if you guys date. that is about all i know to do with that situation if you care about ryans feelings and you like nolan enough to possibly hurt ryan.