well im 14/f and i have no idea how to make out lol...i was wondering if anyone can help/give me tips on doing it because im sort of afarid to because i think ill mess up :( like should i wear lipgloss? ahh what should i do?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Tinkerbelle answered Friday July 15 2005, 12:36 pm: first off, i wouldn't wear lipgloss. it may taste good but it kinda feels gross when you kiss, like it'll make it slimy. wear chapstick instead, that's all you need. and making out is easy, we all get freaked out before it, but once you get to that point you'll know what to do, just by instinct. here are some steps though:
1. lean in so he knows you're about to kiss
2. start off with a few little, sweet kisses
3. once you get going, tilt your head a little, open your mouth, hopefully he will too, and think of it as your two tongues dancing together, if that makes sense. just mess around with this, you'll find out how you like it.
4. find where you want your hands to be; one of mine is usually on his back, then the other one is around his neck, playing with his hair.
5. make sure you breathe lol
6. kind of press your whole body into him, guys love that.
7. if you want to stop, close your mouth slightly then go back to the little kisses and eventually pull away.
it'll take a few times to find out what you like and stuff, you'll also have to find a rhythm that you and the guy both enjoy, whether you like it slow or fast or what. sorry, it's a lot harder to explain it than it is to actually do it, so don't worry. and there's really no way you can screw up when you make out, some guys will like what you do and others won't. good luck! [ Tinkerbelle's advice column | Ask Tinkerbelle A Question ]
LilMissLauraFaye answered Friday July 15 2005, 11:24 am: well making out kinda just happens naturally jsut as kissing some one.. making out i think isnt soemthing you cant just teach by typign to some one.. its a physical thing .. if you want liek if u have a good best firend thats a girll.. try maybe with her if she has the smae feelings.. that wouldnt make you gay if you do soo .. jsut try it.. sorry i cant help but soo much [ LilMissLauraFaye's advice column | Ask LilMissLauraFaye A Question ]
XoUkrainianBabeXo answered Friday July 15 2005, 11:11 am: I'm not sure how to put this into words but don’t wear lip-gloss chopstick is the way to go. If you really want to know try going on this website.
S_C answered Friday July 15 2005, 11:09 am: Hey, I think I can help a little bit.
First a site that might help (it is a real site!)
www.justfuckinggoogleit.com
Second
Kisses just happen naturally, though before going with someone you like eat a breath mint, and don't have too much lip gloss because then lips might slide and stuff.
But it does really happen naturally, once you start kissing, just follow the guys lead. If you want tips, then spell stuff in his mouth using your tongue. Like gently spell out his name or something. Once you start you'll get the hang of it. If you aren't embarassed tell the guy he'll be your first kiss, I told the guy who gave me my first kiss that it was my first kiss (I was also in 5th grade) I also told my first real kiss (I was 13) that it was my first real kiss and that I hadn't kissed anyone in a long time and i wasn't too sure what I was doing. He was understanding enough.
But yeah, google it, and you'll get good sites with good kissing tips. I have a friend who just joined this site, you can ask her, she's good with all that stuff, lilmisslaurafaye is her username... anyway, hope this helps. ~~Kate [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
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