Im an eighteen year old female who hasn't had even close to a boyfriend since I was fifteen. I'm not bad looking, so that's not the case.. But I really just don't know why I'm not meeting anyone, or at least when I do meet someone I'm interested in, they are usually not really interested in me. I'm just really lonely I guess. Whenever I get close to a guy, it just ends up that we become really good friends, and I turn into his shrink on girl problems..hah pretty sad.. I'm not looking for tips on picking up guys lol that's not it. I'm just looking for feedback from guys/girls in the same situations or have been in the same situation, and their thoughts. Thanks =]
WONKA_WORLD answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 7:32 pm: U gotta get out of the same town u grew up in. The pond has dried up, the same thing has happened to me. I just have history with all the girls so its too hard to ruin stuff by going out with them. [ WONKA_WORLD's advice column | Ask WONKA_WORLD A Question ]
Look2Linh answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 1:44 pm: i've in that same situation right now actually. there is this one guy i really like but he just sees me as a friend. he talks to me about all his problems and everything. but the thing is, one of the problems he tells me about is this one girl he likes who tells him everything, just like he tells me everything. he was scared to say anything cuz they were too close to ruin anything. but he told her. apparently she felt the same, and they love the fact that they are able to talk to each other about anything in the world. so maybe your guyz like you, but you gotta go for it cuz you don't wanna spend the rest of your life wonderin what coulda been. [ Look2Linh's advice column | Ask Look2Linh A Question ]
xxurockxx answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 12:25 pm: my boyfriend that i have now and i used to be best friends...i would be his shrink on girl problems, he was mine on guy problems...we were ALWAYS there for eachother...and now we have been dating for 6 months and are SO happy!!! dont give up [ xxurockxx's advice column | Ask xxurockxx A Question ]
icey0990 answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 9:57 am: yes im in your situation also. its been a good 2 years since i had a real relationship..since that ended there has been little or no action in my love life. guys just want to be my friend..thats all i am to them..and im often the one to be talking to them about hooking up with my friends or giving advice, that sort of thing. Its frustrating but people like us have personality...character..we're nice..its all the qualities needed in a long term relationship and our day will come..for now though..we have to keep being ourselves, waiting for the perfect guy to come.
im a 16f by the way [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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