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im having major problems.. cuz like i cant really tell what i feel for this one gu. ive known him for a long time and ive always kinda had a thing for him but were realllllly great friends so i cant tell whether i just love him as a brother or like more than that.. usually this wouldnt be a problem only then yesterday he asked me out and i said yea. so now i feel like, what the heck what if i dont really like him? and then theres another problem. i also like this other guy, ryan but he is friends w. my ex so then that would never happen.. so i just need to know. what should i do about the guy that asked me out ((nolan)) and what should i do about ryan? i rate high if u give good advice :)
----Jen
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ok Nolan first, if you really want to know how you feel about him then see if you get jealous if he flirts with other girls, and well just give it a try first,if you dont like it then tell him that you just think its best if you guys stay as friend.
and for Ryan, if you really like Nolan then forget him but if it turns out that you like him as brother then you should try to get to know Ryan little better
and hope i helped =)
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depends you like nolan as a broter. tell him. you like ryan as a your "boy" so do wats in your heart and say to nolan wat you mean and tell ryan if you want that you like him. go ahead dont be afraid to take a chance! :)
hope I hElPeD
Micki
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If you like Nolan then go out with him and see what its like. Don't worry about it. If you don't feel like its more than friendship then at the end of the date just tell him that you feel like he is more like a brother than a boyfriend and just remain friends.
Just because Ryan is a friend of your ex doesn't mean you can't date him. They may have some things in common but they are two different people. You shouldn't care weather or not your ex likes it either. If he wanted you he should have kept you. Don't let all that stop you from going out with someone you like. :)
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my boyfriend right now and i have been dating for 6 months and we were best friends before it. From my past experiances, i would say that being friends with someone before you date is always best because then you know that you are compatible and you wont get sick of them fast. also, if you guys are as good of friends as you say you are, if things dont work out you will still be friends. If you dont want to risk it, tell him that he means too much to you and you dont want to risk losing such a good friendship over something that you aren't sure will last.
about ryan and nolan...talk to ryan about you and nolan and see if he would be mad if you guys date. that is about all i know to do with that situation if you care about ryans feelings and you like nolan enough to possibly hurt ryan.
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