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Question Posted Thursday June 23 2005, 4:32 pm

All my friends say my boyfriend is weard (mohawk) and an @$$. But he is always kind and respectful to me. Every time someone askeds me if i'm "really" going out with him they laught an say "wow, ok". I think i should dumb him but as i said "he is always kind and respectful to me" what should i do?!?!?!?!

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karenR answered Friday June 24 2005, 2:40 am:
Totally ignore all the morons. Just because someone looks a little differently or dresses differently or listens to music that isn't quite what they like you'll have some idiots trying to proclaim that the unique individual is weird or undeserving of friendship. Don't be that way. You judge him by the way he treats you and his friends and you tell the rest of those jerks to go to...well, you know the rest. If you like the guy then treat him right. :)

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TrueHope10 answered Friday June 24 2005, 12:05 am:
Don't dump your boyfriend just for them ,, especially if he respects you ....Boys that respect you are really hard to find sometimes...if they are true friends they will undertand that you like him and relize you want to be with him...But like I said if they are really your true friends they shouldn't mind you being with him

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Peachgirly answered Thursday June 23 2005, 11:24 pm:
You shouldn't listen to what others say even if they are your close friends. Don't dump him just because of what others say or think of him. It doesn't matter if no one likes him or thinks he is weird. What matters the most is that you like him for the way he is and the way he treats you with respect. A guy shouldn't be judged just because for the way he looks or seems on the outside and that he can be sweet in the inside. ♥ Peachgirly

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xxurockxx answered Thursday June 23 2005, 10:32 pm:
dont listen to what other people say!! people are bitches!! if you like him stick with it!! everyone thought my boyfriend was weird because he had a mohawk and i stuck with him because i liked him n now he got rid of his mohawk and got a couple piercings and is GORGEOUS and we fell in love....and guess what!! everyone tells me all the time now how sexy my boyfriend is!!!!! haha but now i have him and they cant!! i say stick with it!

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HC0_l3ARBiE answered Thursday June 23 2005, 9:03 pm:
dont listen to what other people think.
if hes nice & respectful thats all that matters.
dont just dump him because someone makes fun of you, so what if he looks a little different than other people at least you have a boyfriend that respects you. most of the time its hard to find a guy that shows respect. ♥

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chaos answered Thursday June 23 2005, 5:25 pm:
Ignore them. No really, unless he has some sort of horrible influence on you, they have no right to bother you about it. He is just wearing his differences on the outside for now to separate himself from the cookie cutters.
If he is really an @$$ to other people, then maybe you should ask him why he is so angry. People do grow out of these things, and become "normal" or at least a contributing member of society. Even jerks deserves someone to love. I would definitely try to encourage him to be respectful to other people, an the best way to do that is lead by example. And when that happens, maybe the judgemental will be shocked by his change.

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