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Is it wrong to want someone to sleep next to you, cuddle with you, laugh, hug, kiss, and play with you, when you don't want to date anyone?

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Okay so i developed real early and im very mature. i'm 14 but i honestly do looke atleast 17 or 18 & act this way to. well theres this real sweet hot kid who is 19..and he always says "i wish you weren't so young" blah blah. i know it is against the law to do anything with him, but it's like my body/personality dont go with my age. it's like im in the wrong time zoneish haha. well me and him have been thinking about it and always talk about hooking up. i just don't see why it's such a big deal. but if i were to do anything with him, how would anyone find out? i don't see how he could get in trouble. so my question really is, is it wrong to be in love with someone who is 5 years older then you?

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SORRY ITS LONG!!! PLEASE ANSWER THOUGH!!!

My friends are really starting to bother me. They write notes to each other all the time and dont show them to me because they say i wouldnt understand. The notes are about guys they like. And in them they say that they are in love with them. They havent even talked to these guys before, but they say that they love them. And its not true of course!!! I know it isnt! Its not like i dont believe that you can fall in love young, because i do, but i know they arent in love considering that ALL of my friends claim that they are in love and that they are in love with multiple guys who most of them, they havent even talked to before.
So how is it that all of my friends can "be in love" with multiple guys theyve never talked to?
it isnt possible right? so how do i tell them this without hurting their feelings or sounding rude, im the bistandard here so i can see what theyre talking about for the truth, and not from hormones making them think theyre in love. how do i make them realize this though?

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I am thirteen and am a begginer and practicing magick.I really Like this girl in my class but she like this one guy who likes the girl i like's best friend who likes me (I can see auras as eaisly its like they were a mood ring so I can tell when they look at each other or me).I have tried to get the the guy and the girl I like's best friend together Then see how my luck goes with the girl but does doing this make me nosey and rude and will it help my relation ship with the girl i like.I am a boy not a lesbian.

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14/f Hey well there is this one guy who i serioulsy really really really like...everyone knows I like him... even his friends most likely...well the problem is I have liked him for a really long time...and alot of ppl want me to get over him... but I dont know how... i tried looking at other guys but for some reason when i start to like another guy I suddenly stop and go back to likeing him...i have never gone out with him which really sucks cause i really want too... ok well we dont talk that much at school but we talk on the phone...ok usaully when i talk to him we talk for at least a half hour at least unless he has to go... well the other day i called him and i think he was being kinda rude...(i havent told anyone especially my best friends cause they dont really like him and if isay something that will just make me sad cause they will say good get over him and i dont wanna cry...cause that will make me cry...)ok back to where i was he said something that hecka made me sad...so i like hung up the phone and like started crying.... i wanna talk to him again but i cant tell him that he made me cry... cause i dont think he has realized how much i do really like him... also i know he doesnt like me cause i know who he does like and know that he wants to go out with her..(she has everything i want)ok so heres another thing i havent called him since then and yea its just been like 5 days and i dont know if i should even talk to him anymore on the phone cause he makes me hecka sad what should i do???

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my whole life is based on finding the 1 guy that i can spend my life with. i am 15 years old right now and i dont want to be in a lot of relationships. i dont think its right. i just want to find the right guy right now and have him for ever. i didnt have any boyfriends before but ive had offers. i just didnt see myself with them in the future. but recently, ive found 2 guys.

one of them, i love but he doesnt love me. i have loved him for years. but he just doesnt want me. i just cant get over him. i see my future with this guy, but he doesnt get it. he knows i love him , but he is more into having fun and living his teenage years partying and stuff. im not saying i wanna get married at this age, ya know? its just, i want someone that i could go to know matter what , when ever and have a promising relationship

the other guy, i like and he likes me. we're both shy people so we only just talk about funny stuff. we never talk about long term topics. we have been talking for a couple months now, and i am guessing he will ask me out soon. idont know if i should say yes or not.

help me out.

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I kinda feel liked i was always used by my b/f's..They always thought i woudl do stuff with him...I rly wish i could just meet the guy that dosen't me expect to go all the way...i want a rly good guy and thats hott..lol..to treat me right....how would i find him..?

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there is this boy in school that i really like and today my friend told him that i like him but my friend told me that he doesn' like me. how do i get him to like me?

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there is this girl in school who i am in love with..she is really hot and everything but i like her for who she is not the way she looks. she knows about how i feel obviously since i told her..and she used to like me a lot. we have made out and everything several times. she told me not to tell anyone because the first time, she was still going out with her boyfriend but she liked me not him and the 2nd time, it was the night she dumped him for me..it seems like after she dumped him she stopped liking me..she comes over almost every weekend but she was mad at me for a while because i told my best friend that me and her had made out...heres what happened..my friend knows how to annoy the shit out of me and he did just that...she took my arm and put it behind my back and pushed it up and it hurts sooooo damn bad and he wouldnt let go until i told him :(...please dont tell me i need to get new friends, theyre the only ones i have. so anyways, now she likes another guy, hes a sophomore, a pothead, and i think hes using her. i found out on halloween that her and him have hooked up and shit and it kills me to think about it. she acts like nothing happened and she constantly makes me mad by telling me about him and everything, she knows it pisses me off and that i love her. i cant move on, i have tried. i have told her how i feel.

*If you must choose between someone you love and someone who loves you, always choose the one who loves you... because you can always learn to love someone, but you can hardly ever make someone else love you* - have you ever heard that? i wish she could do that..i just want her back so bad so things could be like they used to be, she said she doesnt know why she suddenly stopped liking me but one of the reasons is she cant picture me as her boyfriend because of my personality...she pictures me as a bestfriend not a boyfriend AND I HATE IT!!! i dont want to be her bestfriend, i want to be her boyfriend...it hurts to think about it all and i dont know what to do i am soo confused. i think about her all day..i asked her out at homecoming during the last slow dance and she said no..i went home and cried, she hadnt told me she didnt like me anymore and everyone told me it was so sweet and romantic and w/e and she would surely say yes...i love her so much! i need her...

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Ok, There is this boy, Lets call him J, Well J is a good friend Of mine, Well there is this girl called Alissa, she is sorta my friend but she likes him because he is hot and because he is a prep and because me and my friend Brandi like him, so she thinks she can have him, Well she is going to ask him out and I am not going to do anything about it and I warned J that I will hate him if he gos out with her and also why she wants him. He said he doesn't know what he is going to say if she asks him, I dont want this to happen...Anything I can do?

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My Boyfriend and me just had a little fight , well the head cheerleader heard about it and now she's al over my boyfriend and were not even broken up , well we made up and she still wants him , she like bends down in front of him with her cheerleader clothes on or she trys to sit with us and well she drives me crazy , but the thing is my boyfriend dosnt like her and he's the star Quarterback on the football team, and he tells her to back off , is he the good kind of boyfriend every gurl wants? plz help

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alright...there are 4 guys you need to know about in this story: Nathan, TJ, Michael, and David.

1.Nathan is my boyfriend of about 2 months. i liked him for almost a year before we started going out.

2.TJ is one of my best friends. I love him so much, and he really likes me (that way). He left our school on thursday though. Now he's homeschooled. i cried for 2 days. (he's coming back next semester, i just found out!!)

3.Michael is a friend that i liked, and he used to like me. Now he has a girlfriend, but we've both said that if we both have problems with our relationships, we'd probably go out.

4.David is also one of my best friends. He also likes me, and we're always hugging. so many people think we go out and it's annoying.

ok...now here's the thing: i might like the last 3. i don't know what to do...i've been thinking about breaking up with nathan, but i might change my mind after i do! I can't really go out with TJ, even though i think i really want to...because i'm friends with his ex (they went out for 6 months), and she still likes him, knows he likes me, and hates it. I can't go out with David, because my best (girl) friend really likes him. And michael's taken...for now.

so now that i have thoroughly confused you, take a moment to make some sense of all this, and then tell me what you think!

please! i'm so confused!

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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?

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okay well.. im straight edge... and i didnt want to have sex. and hes older. and i told him it was ok,. weve been together 7 months. i guess i thought i wouldnt mind? or maybe i thought he wouldnt do it. but he did. and now i just dont know if i can trust him. or if i should try and get revenge. and it sucks cause the girl was/is? my friend and i told him how much i hated when the would flirt. so i just dont know what to do? should i dump him? should i ignore it? pretend not to care? get revenge? any advice at all would be great.
--thanks

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omg...i cant even sit still to write this!! I am so cruching on this guy at my school. I swear, everytime I see him, i just wanna run up to him and give him a big smack on da lipps. I love hanging around him, and i love just having evryday conversatons with him!! i lOvE evrythang bout him; the way he walks, the way he stands when he opens his locker,hmm..Im goin crazy just thinkin about him!! bUt i guess my butterflies are whats stopping me from telling him i think hes soo pErFeCtT!!! pLeAzE hElP mE wItH tHiS oNe lAdIeS!! well, i guess if youre a guy and you know how you would like be told youre soo pErFeCtT, you could answer me too! aNd pLeAzE hUrRy..i dOnT kNoW hOw mUcH lOnGeR i cAn tAkE tHeEsE bUtTeRfLiEs!! :-*lUv YaLL!!

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ok so theres this boy thats like 4'7 or sumthing in 7th grade and im like 5'7 in the same grade....(i just turned 13) and he supposedly likes me, but is too shy to tell me cuz he thinks...i dunno wut he thinks! anyways, hes so cute(like a little baby) and i have this thing that when i find out that ppl like me, i feel like i like them too, even if i dont...i wanna go out with him, but at the same time, i dont.... i dont wanna be going out with a guy so much shorter than me cuz i wont b able to kiss him and hug him and sutff...sorry this question is so long, but i need advice....thanx mucho

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14/f/9th grade

Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...

His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!

-cOnFuSeD-

P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean?

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do u really noe what love is like or wen ur in love?¿ And how do you make a backgroung for ur gj..im a new journerler and i need help

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there is this guy i like, and he knows that i like him. Well he had told his friends, and my brother that he likes me. Well I wrote him a letter yesterday confronting him about my feelings toward him that i liked him and if anything would happen between us. And his friend told me yesterday that He likes some other girl... But i don't understand because he told all his friends that he likes me. So he wrote me a letter stating: Hey what's up. I have to clear up a couple of issues between us. You seem like a really nice person, but I'm not ready for a relationship. So can we just be friends? I still like him a lot , no matter what, and I don't know what else I should say to him or to write back to him. *i rate* thanks!!

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My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that.

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