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Question Posted Wednesday October 13 2004, 8:23 pm

there is this guy i like, and he knows that i like him. Well he had told his friends, and my brother that he likes me. Well I wrote him a letter yesterday confronting him about my feelings toward him that i liked him and if anything would happen between us. And his friend told me yesterday that He likes some other girl... But i don't understand because he told all his friends that he likes me. So he wrote me a letter stating: Hey what's up. I have to clear up a couple of issues between us. You seem like a really nice person, but I'm not ready for a relationship. So can we just be friends? I still like him a lot , no matter what, and I don't know what else I should say to him or to write back to him. *i rate* thanks!!

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xokaylanicoleox answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 10:40 pm:
Well, to be honest I think he's a jerk for telling practically everyone. Second, I think that you should just move on until you find someone better because it seems he's not interested and that really sucks and even if you keep having your feelings for him you can still like other guys. So try it. It will make you heal fast, lol. Hope I helped! -Kayla

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xtroubleturk69x answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 9:47 pm:
try being friends with him, you never know what could happen...here is what happened to me

2 years ago i met a guy and i liked him for awhile but he hated me and now we're best friends and who knows something might start and it's really to have a really close guy friend because they can help you out with boy problems.

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angelic23chika answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 9:16 pm:
rite him back and let him know that you are completely fine being just friends, even if you're not because if u r still obsessed with him he mite get weirded out..u can still lykk him but just make sure he knows that you are understanding..if he see's this, maybe he'll give u a chance

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adviceguy answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 8:59 pm:
Let me try out some of my street lingo:

" Nuff Said"

You have told the guy that your not ready for a relationship and that is totally acceptable. There is no need for any follow up letters because there is nothing else to say to him. You have made your point very clearly to him

If you still like him though.MAKE SURE NOT TO IGNORE HIM. Give him a casual "hi" or still keep in contact with him. Not doing so will make you seem "snobish" and immature.

Good Luck

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